Do you think there are less and less loyal women today? If so, why?

[Anonymous]

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

I think there are less and less loyal people these days...
People don't value their relationships, they don't prioritize the people in their life enough... They don't give loyalty themselves yet expect loyalty. But you have to give someone your loyalty to get theirs...

[silvermoon84]

^^this. @Brainsbeforebeauty, you took the words right out of my mouth

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@silvermoon84 great minds"..."💛👍🙂

[Shihab91]

No she didn't , all Copy Rights Reserved ©Brainbeforebeauty

[Shihab91]

😂, well said by the way

[silvermoon84]

@Shihab91 😄😄😄
@Brainsbeforebeauty exactly

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@Shihab91 🤣🤣 but thanks 🙂

[red324]

I don't know if it's loyalty or if people just don't respect a person's time and effort. Say for example go on 5 or 6 dates then ghost the guy. Why not be friends and still enjoy my each other's company? This is why I only have 1 female friend.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@red324 I agree to not ghosting, be upfront... But sometimes it's hard to stay friends of they want more from the Relationship than the other does... men and women can be friends, but if one or the other is just being friends hoping it'll turn into more, those friendships aren't healthy for anyone

[red324]

True but it seems like most women don't like me much in a romantic way and it's not often thatbi fall for a girl so it's really not an issue. 95. percent of the time the girl leaves me.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@red324 Sorry to hear that💛

[Pete671]

perfectly said!

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@Pete671 Thanks 😊

[DeltaCharlieEcho]

Yup. Women carry none of the responsibilities for their relationships. We spent literally my entire generation convincing women that they are better than men and removing per much all responsibility for their bad actions. For example society is been trained to believe that if a man cheats he’s scum; if a woman cheats she’s empowered. Never mind that it takes actual skill to be able to cheat as a man whereas as a woman to get sex all you have to do is say that you want it.
Women live this privileged life right now where they can do whatever they want without repercussion and as a result they do even more than we could have ever expected.

[Celtero]

Looking up stats was kinda interesting. In general, men are more likely to cheat... Except for ages under 30, which I feel shows a lot.

The point it becomes apparent more women are more disloyal is divorce, as much more women initiate divorce than man, and usually for frivolous reasons.

And an important part in fixing that is abolishing no-fault divorce, because right now a woman can cheat on her hard working husband and when the inevitable divorce comes around he is forced at gunpoint to pay her hundreds of thousands of dollars. Nobody in their right mind can claim that's just.

[lakotabebebe]

I would say that loyal people seem less common because of the impression the internet has and, well, we're meeting less people nowadays. I know I'm scared of cheating, which is probably the reason why I don't meet loyal people: I'm not opening up to any people.

With lack of trust and confidence, it will seem like no one is loyal.

[hi_it_is_me123]

Men should not fucking act like angels. It is a fact that every male celebrity/rich man cheat since they have so many options. You would do it if you were rich/famous. Western Women usually have so many options when it comes to sexual relationships. That ist not a justification for cheating but that may explain a little. Women have more self control when since they dont cheat much despite having so many options while men cheat when once they get wealthy/famous. The question should be why men cheat when they suddenly get so many options but also can't understand why women cheat when they also have many options?

[oldasIfeel22]

Feminism has encouraged women to be more and more selfish. When men cheat and get caught they can’t use the excuse “oh she wasn’t there for me” or some other crap. There is no way for us to justify it nor should there be.

But what I’m so disgusted and sick of is how unfaithful women try to justify their crap. They lie and gaslight and society let’s then get away with it.

Bottom line is if you cheat on your man (when he was loyal) then you are cheating whore. Plain and simple. Own up to it!

[Wintergrace]

I think everyone is less loyal today. We’ve had an influx of people with the ideals of instant gratification. Studies show we have the attention span of a goldfish. Naturally, I think this lifestyle will destroy relationships. Therefore, we have more loyalty issues. Plus, social media doesn’t help.

[Azura_88]

We are only reflecting back what we get.
We are sick of loving hopelessly like a blind and dumb dog just to get lied to, manipulated and EXPLOITED in return.
Here we stress about our future with them, plan how to be a perfect woman for them, miss them and imagine our life with them while they just made fake promises and are trying to look for new varieties and BANG them behind our backs.
Our time, energy and potential is wasted on a wrong person.

[devilman666]

This goes for both genders

[Curmudgeon]

Yes, because there is a whole ideology that excuses their disloyalty.

When as man skips out on his wife and children, he is rightly seen as despicable.

When a women skips out on her family, it is excused as a vague need for fulfillment she could not have, or to find herself, ad nauseum.

[Exterminatore]

Excellent point!

[Exterminatore]

I think part of the reason things are viewed that way is leftist brainwashing. They put forth the notion that women are the protectors of truth and justice. That they are always pure and good and right. That they are far superior to men in every way. And men... well their bumbling idiots that will have sex with anything that moves, are rapists and are barely more evolved than monkeys... if you believe in evolutionary theory.

That’s why Ford cooly and calmly stated during Kavaluagh’s hearing that she should be believed simply because she’s a woman. As if all women speak the truth and are always right at all times.

[Curmudgeon]

@Exterminatore Bingo. And in a future situation where it is proved that the accusation is false beyond reasonable doubt, the woman making it ought to be punished.

I would throw that Blasey Ford witch stripped naked into a cell with inmates who demonstrated good behavior in prison, those inmates rewarded with a special "Conjugal visit", if you know what I mean and I think you do. The costs of incarceration would be low, just one night, and the lying witch would suffer Karmic Punishment.

[Exterminatore]

Only problem is, if she wasn’t even good enough to rape who would want it?

I fully agree that false accusations should be severely punished. What happened to that man was anything but just.

[Curmudgeon]

@Exterminatore true, but I am assuming convicts get desperate.

[Exterminatore]

I suppose when things get bad enough any vagina will do.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I'm not sure, but I do thing that society encourages women to cheat on men. Especially a lot of the music that's playing now. Where it used to be valued to be loyal, now it's valued to be a total slut.

If you wanna fuck a lot of dudes I don't hold it against you but guy or girl if you aren't loyal, you're a loser

[xHoneyxBeex]

I think there are less and less loyal *people* in society as a whole. Many people no longer place high value in relationships/marriage and loyalty in general. It's unfortunate. People seem to be so focused on immediate gratification these days that they struggle to think about the long-term consequences of their actions and behaviors.

[RawIronhide]

Well, yeah attractive women tend to have their pick in dating so they date very attractive but promiscuous men. Weather they intend to or not they go through a lot of men. Some want to settle down with one person and some dont. Either way it's established a culture casual flings.

[Crmolon]

I guess some women feel like if men in general don't tend to be, why should women. I know I myself have been cheated on and know most of my girlfriends have been cheated on or used by men. All these experiences can mount and cause women to make the choice to conduct themselves similar to men

[Browneye57]

No, it's about the same. Women are only loyal as long as they FEEL their needs and wants are being met, that they are entertained, and properly paid attention to. If you fail them, or they change their feelings, figure they'll shut down sexually, cheat or bail, or any combination of these.
Women love opportunistically.
Men love idealistically. They will tend to hang in there just hoping things will improve.

The burden of performance is ALWAYS on the man.

[KatherineJ]

To get loyalty you have to offer loyalty. It doesn’t matter if someone pees sitting down, or standing up if they are loyal or not.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Or misses the toilet all together🤣🤣

[KatherineJ]

@Brainsbeforebeauty haha-that’s usually the folks who have the luxury of peeing standing up.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

🤣🤣🤣

[KatherineJ]

@Brainsbeforebeauty truly the only thing that I envy is that ability.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Right! Well that and no period or Menopause

[KatherineJ]

@Brainsbeforebeauty or hot flashes. But I think my husband definitely gets PMS.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Yeah that's true and think male PMS lasts longer🤣🤣

[KatherineJ]

@Brainsbeforebeauty if my husband is any indication of the overall male population, you are right. 🤣

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

They should make mydol for male PMS
#mendol
🤣

[KatherineJ]

@Brainsbeforebeauty hahaha! And all they need to do is put it in a blue box.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

🤣🤣🤣 damn I should of paid better attention in chemistry class lolol were you good at it, you come up with the formula, I'll market it, we'll make a fortune🤣

[KatherineJ]

@Brainsbeforebeauty sadly, I sucked at science.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Aww man😞 lolol

[KatherineJ]

@Brainsbeforebeauty we just need to find a chick who knows chemistry. We can handle the marketing. 😅

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

👍👍😂..

[AzzaBlue]

@Brainsbeforebeauty Hey you're a woman. You have no idea how hard it is to control that thing. Seriously it can go out of control.
Watch this, it's pretty accurate.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VFFt6-35boI

[cjmtherfcker]

Traditionally men offered resources and protection for exclusive mating rights.

[warrenstone]

It’s men and women. Mostly because of online dating. As soon as shit hits the fan in a relationship, a lot of people will just move on to the next guy/girl in their DM’s instead of working things out. Definitely not always though. There’s still a little bit of hope left.

[SirJohn42]

I think society encourages less faithful and loyal people.
Nowadays a lot feel its ok to have sex with everyone and anyone.
More and more feel open relationships are ok.

There are very loyal women out there and men too. But sadly these people get abused by jerks.

[Tunasub]

I don't think there are less loyal women, but I do believe that some women in this day and age want/need/believe that a man should show and prove what he is all about before totally going all in with thier emotions and intentions within and for the relationship.

[rjroy3]

To be fair I think it's twofold.
1. Less loyal people in general than previously were due to lack of opportunity

And

2. We're just seeing more of the cheating that previously went unknown

[Avicenna]

I don’t know if cheating is any more common now with dating apps but there definitely seems to be a lot less interests in serious relationships and building a life together.

[RickDavis766]

The internet has given people more options.
Discrete options as well, so hookup culture has become very convenient.

[FilmGuy93]

Yes. I think that because they have made it clear that men aren't bringing any real value to their lives.

[Joey_007]

Infidelity's been around for a long time and we can all only comment on the eras we've lived so we really don't have anyway to compare

[Blackcupcake]

I think so, but I also think that there are less loyal guys too