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Why are some men opposed to being providers to their wife? (Page 2)

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  • hellacray
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    If you know your man is a bum what makes you think marrying him would change that?

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    • WowwGirl
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      Agree

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  • monkeynutts
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    Hey it’s the 21st century, you want us to walk around with clubs and live in caves again.

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    • WowwGirl
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      Maybe

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    • monkeynutts
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      Upgrade the club for a long bow or throwing spear, and i’de love to hunt some wild game for my partner. The modern world is consumptive, exploitative, so I struggle with the idea of sacrificing my spare time to earn the money needed to keep another person alive without her contributing, but that picture of that slob on the couch that is not cool either.

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  • Paulychicago10
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    Roles reverse. Women wanted equality, wanted to bring home the bread. Here's the chance. 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣

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    • WowwGirl
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      🤣🤣🤣🤣

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  • Iron_Man u
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    I guess they can’t handle paying for two people all at once. The mortgage car bills food and clothing etc. etc.

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  • Feelicks
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    But I thought Feminism was about equality LoL 😅

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    • WowwGirl
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      I'm no feminist

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    • Feelicks
      Feelicks
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      Dear God, don't let them here you you'll be cancelled!

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    • WowwGirl
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      I'm not scared lol

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  • Floppy2112
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    I don’t know such men. Sure they exist, but I don’t deal with them.

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  • Dinosaursandanime65
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    They think it should be the other way around, but in a more... dishonorable way

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    • Jamie05rhs
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      What do you mean, bro?

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    • Dinosaursandanime65
      Dinosaursandanime65
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      @Jamie05rhs Slavery

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    • Jamie05rhs
      Jamie05rhs
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      Oh! Wow.

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    • Dinosaursandanime65
      Dinosaursandanime65
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      @Jamie05rhs What?

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    • Jamie05rhs
      Jamie05rhs
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      @Dinosaursandanime I was just shocked. Haha

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    • Dinosaursandanime65
      Dinosaursandanime65
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      @Jamie05rhs Oh. Okay... Did you know your anything can be your anything? Why must something be something for something to want to be something?

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    • Jamie05rhs
      Jamie05rhs
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      @Dinosaursandanime65 I'm not sure what that means.

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    • Dinosaursandanime65
      Dinosaursandanime65
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      @Jamie05rhs an example is your arms are your legs

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    • Jamie05rhs
      Jamie05rhs
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      @Dinosausandanime65 If you are a gymnast, yes.

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    • Dinosaursandanime65
      Dinosaursandanime65
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      @Jamie05rhs Another is your face being your stomach

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    • Jamie05rhs
      Jamie05rhs
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      @Dinosaursandanime65 How so?

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    • Dinosaursandanime65
      Dinosaursandanime65
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      @Jamie05rhs... I’ll show you.

      -John Hammond

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    • Dinosaursandanime65
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      There. The photos are in my most recent question. “Can you guess what ETG means?”

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  • JamesRandiDebates
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    Equality means neither one is saddled with being the provider. Time to lean in.

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  • TallAnon
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    "Why do I need to do X, when she doesn't" - A feeling of unfairness, I imagine.

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  • Jmmmfi4
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    I really don't know but if I was lucky enough to have a wife I'd like to think I'd put her before all else

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  • KatherineJ
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    Why should it just be the man who is a provider?

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    • WowwGirl
      WowwGirl
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      Bible for 1

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    • KatherineJ
      KatherineJ
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      @WowwGirl ok, but don’t you think that in 2021, we should at least contribute?

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    • WowwGirl
      WowwGirl
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      You can if you want I guess

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    • WowwGirl
      WowwGirl
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      I don't think you should have to work if you are in a serious relationship or married but if you want to you should. Have to and want to are very different things

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    • KatherineJ
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      I was self sufficient before him, and there is no reason why I would give up my job, just because he is the man.

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    • WowwGirl
      WowwGirl
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      Well that's cool then. That's your call

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    • KatherineJ
      KatherineJ
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      @WowwGirl yeah, I didn’t spend 6 years in college to be stuck at home, dependent on (at the time) a mythical man. I met him after starting my career.

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    • WowwGirl
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      Okay cool

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  • krin_m
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    Are they? hmmm.. I guess it is their choice as a couple!

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  • Yamama
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    Why are some women opposed to marrying good men?

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    • WowwGirl
      WowwGirl
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      Who?

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    • Yamama
      Yamama
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      You.

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    • WowwGirl
      WowwGirl
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      I'm not

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  • Jamie05rhs
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    3.8K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

    Because she's my wife, not my f'ing daughter.

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    • TheSpaceGnome
      TheSpaceGnome
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      This.

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    • Jamie05rhs
      Jamie05rhs
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      @TheSpaceGnome Thank you.

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    • WowwGirl
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      She's keeping the house

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    • Jamie05rhs
      Jamie05rhs
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      @WowwGirl I never asked her to.

      Also, I'm looking for a romantic relationship. If I wanted a housekeeper, I could just hire one. It would be a lot cheaper.

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    • WowwGirl
      WowwGirl
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      Who's cleaning then?

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    • Jamie05rhs
      Jamie05rhs
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      @WowwGirl Everyone cleans. Everyone who lives in the house (the "commune") is equally responsible for its upkeep. If you're on the team, you have responsibilities. "If you don't work, you don't eat."

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    • TheSpaceGnome
      TheSpaceGnome
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      Thats what I want, equal on everything, plus shared hobbies.

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    • WowwGirl
      WowwGirl
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      @TheSpaceGnome You going to have babies? No? Boom not equal

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    • TheSpaceGnome
      TheSpaceGnome
      +1 y

      I don't want to be a father, no kids in my relationships.

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    • TheSpaceGnome
      TheSpaceGnome
      +1 y

      would probably stick to just handjobs/fingering/oral if she's not sterile tbh, just to make sure no pregnancies happen.

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    • TheSpaceGnome
      TheSpaceGnome
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      So yeah, she ain't having our babies either lol

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    • WowwGirl
      WowwGirl
      +1 y

      @TheSpaceGnome Boom back even 😂

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    • TheSpaceGnome
      TheSpaceGnome
      +1 y

      lol yup

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    • TheSpaceGnome
      TheSpaceGnome
      +1 y

      if i did want babies, I'd have no issues being either the provider if she's stay at home mom, or the stay at home dad if she's provider.

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    • TheSpaceGnome
      TheSpaceGnome
      +1 y

      Though tbh, either would be temporary, I plan on being retired early, so both would be stay at home equals and a shared passive income would be the provider (I want a girlfriend to be co-game devs with)

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    • WowwGirl
      WowwGirl
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      @TheSpaceGnome whatever you like

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  • Andres77
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    Master Age: 49
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    1.3K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

    Who've you been dating?
    Up your game, girl!

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  • TheFlak38
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    1.6K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

    because smart men exist. sorry for that.

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    • WowwGirl
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      Smart? You mean lacking?

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  • MOUNTAINTOPD2
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    Xper 5 Age: 35
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    what we want you cannot give us

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    • WowwGirl
      WowwGirl
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      I don't follow

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  • Philyouup
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    1.1K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

    because they are pussies

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  • Waldoe
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    966 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

    Women's Lib... they ruined it for all women

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  • DaMack999
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    Xper 7 Age: 36
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    Simple they see no value in the relationship.

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  • Twalli
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    3.1K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

    Because they still want their own money

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