Why do couples like to shower together?

Question

Sometimes my boyfriend wants me to join him in the shower Just rinsing himself (no s*x) And sometimes after we do it.. he would rinse himself quickly but wants me to join him still in the shower Why?

RJJ33666 · Accepted Answer

Couples like to take showers together because it creates a better physical bond between them. The fact that your boyfriend wants you to join the shower but not expect sex is a very good sign. It means he is physically and mental comfortable to be with you and wants to create a more emotional bond with you through showering with each other. In some cultures, when two people rinse each others back, its a sign showing that they will always have their back. And not mention the water is saved a lot.

Leavesbound · Accepted Answer

Because you're obviously beautiful and he wants to be naked with you as much as possible.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Physical closeness promotes emotional closeness.

coachTanthony · Answer

its great if you have a big walk in shower with lots of sprayers and a bench. If you all trying to shower in an apt style shower... foget about it

boombastik · Answer

Rinse himself quickly? Please do elaborate.
I know women like their alone time & and us men don't need to know everything about iwomen which is why I give them a few minutes before getting in or will get out before her and shave my face and whatnot so she can shave her face and whatnot. Yes, I got in the tub with this one chick after she made me wait a few minutes as usual before getting in with her and when she turned around her face was bleeding where she nicked it shaving. She wasn't a sideshow at the circus or anything but I was aware after that she had a spot on her chinn she shaved after that. Now I respect women's time alone as I really don't need to find out every detail anymore lol.
I just like sharing time with my girl admiring her body and the way it glistens. It's nice to share a moment connecting with each other on a different level without having sex. Then also, it's much easier to have someone else wash your back and should the situation arise, there is no better place to have clean sex, pardon the pun.

pajamasam · Answer

So it's not entirely socially acceptable for men to just publicly touch other people. But for women it is.

Sharing a shower is a way for him to break that touch barrier on purpose with someone he cares about deeply. Its bonding and it doesn't have to sexual for it to be stimulating. His heart could be beating out of his chest when you shower together. Plus there's the act of cleaning each other which is kinda similar to monkeys giving each other back rubs. We want to provide for those we care about and we want to be pampered by those that care for us. At least that's what I told my ex when she would ask. Do most women not get why men want to shower wirh them?

kannettava · Answer

Showering together is pretty annoying. Only one person can fit under the water at one time and the other has to wait in the cold. Taking a bath together was more convenient in my opinion, although even that was a little bit of a tight squeeze. Maybe if one had a huge bathroom, two faucet showers or a massive bathtub, then that would work better.

Poppymarie · Answer

Even if there’s no sex involved, showering together can be extremely romantic. I like to take it as an opportunity to pamper my partner (I’ll wash his hair for him, scrub his back, etc.). I think a lot of couples enjoy it because it builds intimacy.

Titanic1912 · Answer

I never had the experience but mostly couples shower together to get more intimate and comfortable with each other. And they can be a big help to each other in the shower because they can wash their partner’s “hard to reach” areas. Sometimes shower sex makes its way into the relationship.

key_statistics · Answer

Most relationships at the start are extremely close sexually and emotionally. This showering together is one way to be close and have fun. It tells a lot about how close both of them are, as well as how comfortable they are with each other and themselves.

JackSmy · Answer

It's a kind of really personal thing, being totally naked, and touching, seeing each other.
But it is also very delightful, and sensual, when you know each other, and love the other's curves, and love touching, and being TOTALLY intimate!
"Wash my Back," maybe, and a casual caress, just loving her curves, and loving how she reacts to my touch? Maybe how she is so close, and caressing, in her own way, to see if she can get me really hard?

Lliam · Answer

He wants to see you all glistening wet and slippery. He's probably hoping he can penetrate you from behind and reach around to fondle your breasts while you are standing against the shower wall with warm water spraying down over both of your bodies. It's a fun thing to do. :-)

TurboKid · Answer

I think it's a nice kind of bonding experience even when it's completely non-sexual. Like I take showers and baths regularly with my wife and I wash her back and she washes mine and there's a closeness there. That said, we have the shower outside the tub and it's not so cramped, somewhat like this:

ohshee · Answer

If you understand what water is and what water does when you touch it you will find your answer I think all couples should shower together I also believe every individual should understand what water really is in a way water is a God
That might sound silly but it's not water is a very first computer. Water is many things just by touching water you change the molecules
This to might sound silly.
water is alive.
The question you asked is 10 times deeper than you will ever know

CookiesAndCream2 · Answer

It's called a bonding practice. The intent is to build rapport. Closeness.  Things like brushing fingers through a partner's hair, etc. is all part of bonding.

silkjames · Answer

So we can be naughty and wash each others bum bums lol it's cool once in awhile and sometimes when we finish she says u know what shampoo too use I wash and massage her head/hair she loves it cleanliness too kindness back too cleanliness win win mmmm hmmm 🤣😂🤙!

little_rose · Answer

He likes you and wants some closeness. Just enjoy it ig... you're lucky

sixxx · Answer

Young couples will love it.
Old couples probably no more.

I would say it's fun for men and men love to see nude body of women. So by showering together men really get a fresh view of ur nude body and able to enjoy it in full sight in front of his eyes.

Puppystarfish23 · Answer

Me and my boyfriend always do this as it makes me feel closer to him physically and it's fun especially when we start messing around and spraying water in each others face also I get to check him out.

sweetlyhot · Answer

Shower together takes you to next level of understanding and bounding. It builds love. And ofcourse Shower s@x is amazing too.

Exterminatore · Answer

Warm showers are delightful. Naked people are too. Why not enjoy both at the same time?

My wife and I sometimes do this to save time. When we have somewhere to be and both need the shower. One lathers while the other rinses. She shaves her legs while I shave my face. Very efficient if you do it right.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Well why not? A married couple can do anything and what ever they want with each other, if your a wife you should make your man happy and satisfied, being close to each other in everything will boost the power of love, you will shower each other and who knows, sex might occur at any second and maybe under the shower 😉

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

Because it's considered romantic. Think of showering or bathing together kind of like how you sometimes share the same bed. It's loving and intimate, so you both want to do it again.

Aimée__LJ · Answer

Cute intimate thing to do from time to time but I couldn't do it all the time. I need my showers super hot 🥵

crazy8000 · Answer

Bonding.
Intimacy non sexual.
Quality time with a partner.
Taking care of each other.
Loves to be close and do private thing's together.
Connection.

There are a lot of reasons.

Personal do I recommend to do it.
It usually make a couple to grow closer on a deeper level, more secure...

Citizenkirk · Answer

Two clean bodies and two mutually induced orgasms, for the water usage and time expenditure of one person's shower.🤔  Nifty, thrifty, savings galore!😉

Rok4bakAR · Answer

First time is fun... I moved into a build with 3 rooms, was sharing the common area with 2 Asian girls, they’re attractive. One day I walked in the shower while she was showering, she didn’t say anything and it was so exciting I saw her naked. But after that is very normal. She walks around naked now I don’t even look anymore.

I go in the shower with her all the name. And is not a big deal anymore.

RawIronhide · Answer

Lol I don't know but I asked a girl after we fooled around. It just felt right I guess. We got back into bed all clean and smelling good when we cuddled... it was nice 🤷 does there have to be a reason all the time?

Inexpensivefurniture · Answer

It's intimate and makes me feel closer to my partner. Even if we don't have sex in there, it's just nice being close, feeling vulnerable but also safe

Phoenix98 · Answer

Intimacy, physical and emotion closeness. It's the same reason people cuddle they like the feeling, closeness and intimacy that brings out.

RachelBrooke · Answer

Why do couples shower together?  1. it’s their choice  2. For intimacy, especially in a relationship

Breanna_nonbinary · Answer

Well when was the last time you were in a shower with a naked beautiful woman? Oh yeah you are one. Well that helps.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

I have a wet room rather than a shower, it’s got a heated floor and a large drop head shower, simoly being close to someone skin to skin is really loving, sensual

Anonymous · Answer

It is a sensual experience. I enjoy showering with a woman.

LOL The last time I did that, she put her long hair in one of those hair caps so it wouldn't get wet. She told me up front that it wasn't going to look sexy... LOL... It was cool.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Because you're beautiful and you're naked! Why not?

Titli1995 · Answer

Did you not enjoy the shower with your boyfriend? I love that because I feel growing intimacies and emotional contact with my partner in this act.

Nazgol · Answer

Because it's a intimate experience and allows both people to explore each other

JEndigoBleue · Answer

Initmacy. It's foreplay. It's sensual. Just enjoy the moments for the "moment".

Dargil · Answer

*She will end up with the cleanest butt, boobs and pussy in town. Good prep for giving her oral. *(seriously) I give my SO an exam for breast cancer (!) Soapy wet makes it easy.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

It goes back millennia. Have you never watched animals prune each other? It's all part of being closer to your partner.

Anonymous · Answer

It's sexy and he loves seeing your naked body. Consider trying sex in the shower. It can be great!

Surely · Answer

Sometimes people act like the naked human body is taboo.
You already know what each other looks like. So why not shower together and enjoy more intimacy and closeness.
Plus you can examine each other’s bodies for ticks and other abnormalities.

Crazyb33 · Answer

To wash each other’s backs. I love seeing my husband naked

1stranger · Answer

Because he want to touch to you and to know your body.

rachel776 · Answer

every boy in a shower i've known has only been there for sex

Mark987 · Answer

I didn't like it at first.. but after a few times it's fun. It makes sure she is clean, and most importantly, take a bath together... dry each other off... the way she cleans your area is hot.

Jaximus-Lion · Answer

Well! For us? So we can clean each other's backs because none of us can reach that far 🤣🤣

Curmudgeon · Answer

It's very intimate and loving, assuming you have the space.

Mangospacho · Answer

Our daily mission is to get someone naked at least once and to get a shower at least once a day so it really is efficient getting two goals finished at the same time.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Seriously? Because it’s intimate. You have alone time with your SO

Ironic_Method · Answer

Because it's fun and intimate. Also, I wash her back for her.

bulletbob555 · Answer

Because you have someone to hold the soap. Now that I think about it I guess its the most non sexual turn on. Its honesty, and and closeness. Its very intimate to me and you can nuture each other

BrianMerritt · Answer

Because it's fun and intimate to get naked together. What do you mean why?

SenseiSeptred · Answer

It is a nice bonding activity even if sex does not happen in the shower.

CasaNorba · Answer

probably to make sure they watch themselves properly so they won't feel gross having sex later

DeltaCharlieEcho · Answer

I don’t really know. It’s something I’ve always done. I guess it’s just a nonverbal form of letting our guards down or something like that.

SpaceGalaxy · Answer

To make sure you are clean in every area of your body including but not limited to your feet and your butthole?

Better_off_here · Answer

I think the main reason being it is intimacy for both partners. you are spending time with each other with your bodies and alone time.

alwayscurious11 · Answer

these things provide the intimacy sex cannot provide yeah sex is great and all but doing simple things like holding hands is much more intimate. plus its very hot

Born-for-sex · Answer

Cause showering together is sexy. Maybe his last girlfriend had sex with him a lot in the shower.

TheBigGuy9 · Answer

Human nature. Enjoying each other. Showing affection.

Twalli · Answer

It's intimate. My girlfriend and I shower together every time she's here

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