Is it a dealbreaker for you if your partner tells you to shut up out of anger?

[Anonymous]

Please share if you think your partner still respects you if they say that to you.

Yes

No

Depends on the frequency

[TommyMountainFigure]

No of course not. I get told to shut up all the time. I laugh it off and tickle her or blow raspberries on her neck. until she apologises.

If that happens during an argument and I'm having a bad day, I'll go out for a walk to clear my head. But in no way is it a deal breaker.

No relationship would ever last if that were.

[Rab1901]

I picked no but it definitely depends on the frequency. Once a month is wayy too much. Once a year is no big deal at all. I think once every 3-4 months should be the absolute maximum.

[Asker]

I agree with you on this one. It shows their lack of respect and the greater likelihood that they will disrespect you again in other things. It’s damaging to a relationship period.

[NathanDavis]

Not me... pretty much every girlfriend "told me" that but it was with a certain look on their eyes that meant "enough" and yes, I was just going and going... so I would not be surprised if I actually hear it out some time... lmao.

Okay, you said "in anger" so this would mean, I actually made them that angry, so that response is on me too, if not all on me... or they were actually very upset about something else, and if it was something else then I would not make it about me, I would not take it that personal.

[libsaretards]

Not a deal breaker, but my reaction will depend on the situation. Most of the time I'll let her cool off before approaching her about her disrespect. However, if she pisses me off enough, let's just say she will know she crossed a line because I can be scary when pissed (I'll never hurt someone I love but my voice carries when I'm mad). Either way, she will get her ass chewed eventually.

[TheBigGuy9]

I know what you mean. I know some people will say Well, I don’t mind during foreplay.


But if you’re talking about something half serious, or if you are in front of people or whatever and they say shut up. See ya.


It’s never happened to me though.

[yourlocalracoon]

i dont think its a dealbreaker but its definitely a line crossed. even in arguments you need to be respectful of each other.

[ChrisMaster69]

Depends on context and frequency.

it would definitely be a red flag and would watch out for it.

[SakuraJP]

I think it would really depend on the amount of times it happens, too frequently isn't a good thing.

[SakuraJP]

If they still respect me then we would work things out.

[jasco]

I can understand being angry. Honestly I just tell you right back than walk away

[jahaims]

Deal breaker no. I would express that it wasn't okay and their are better options

[Wise4myage]

I think it should be if it happens on a regular basis.

[Anonymous]

I say worse things before I get out of bed each morning

[Jamie05rhs]

That's messed up. That's a really mean thing to say.

[EmbraceThePain]

Definitely not...

[Asker]

Why would it not be a dealbreaker to you?

[EmbraceThePain]

Better question would be

Why would it?

[Dchrls78104]

Yes; an immediate and absolute one.

[Joshua0213]

No as long as they are still respectful.

[JesseJayNeak]

Depends on how bad is going

[kevyhanma]

Mute is my natural tone of voice

[Anonymous]

Dealbreaker. Just kidding it’s not.

[Anonymous]

Maybe I would care if I was a big baby

[COMMODOREII]

Im single 😎