Alright. Time for my 2 cents.
It seems you guys just got into a "relationship" recently. Am i correct?
That being said. I will tell you how it is from my part ok? Sometimes when I have no one im taking seriously... i could
talk to several girls at the same time and have flings going on here and there. Meaning there could be a girl that i find attractive but dont plan to have a future with her... which means i may be just enjoying my time with her or persuing her only out of lust. Sometimes when a man is in a really high horny/lust state they will end up saying the most stupidest shit like "omg i love you" or "omg i wanna marry you right now" or "you are the most beautiful sexiest thing in my eyes right now" and they will come out so genuine because the man seriously could mean it at that state. But once the sex is done or after he goes back to his normal self he will say: WTF did i just do... i was horny and just wanted to have sex but ended saying all these things now i made it worse cause i made it look waaay more committed than i actually AM! The girl by now thinks he's in love with her and they are exclusive. But he could be talking with another girl and doing the same thing.
Now for me... when im "dating" and the girl wants to add me in social media while im talking in the same social media with another girl who thinks we are more serious... i will never add the first girl! I can't have both girls on same social media otherwise its doom for me.
If you ask him to add you in other ones and he says ok. But won't add on insta... that just proves my point even more.
Good luck to you.
---------------Sounds like he wants to be single in other females eyes. He's not ready for a commitment or anything serious because if he was he would easily follow you and engage... he obviously doesn't want anyone to know. I could be wrong so you might want to ask him.
"Commitment is an act not a word."
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I'd be pretty upset too. My boyfriend and I follow each other on social media. He doesn't always react to my Facebook posts and that's ok. I don't expect him to like or heart every single thing I post but it definitely makes me feel good when he does... especially since he isn't much into social media as it is. The fact that your boyfriend is reacting to other people's posts and not yours makes it seem like he doesn't appreciate you. Although if you live together or spend lots of time together maybe he thinks you don't need that extra validation from "likes" on social media?
If he is following other girl/girls and visa versa and if his profile is open, then he is cheating on you that too "openly" . I suggest you deactivate your social media and stop responding him and be invisible. Find a new guy and be back to normal.
Or
If you love him a lot, just leave it there. Don't do anything. Love him the way you normally do but in a way that you don't expect him to return to you. You can play hard to get like ignore and shit is fine.
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The obvious reason for that is he probably doesn't want you to know what he gets up to.
Whether or not you choose to believe the obvious is another matter.
It's social media - a toxic presence on society and a detriment to relationships. No, I would not follow my girlfriend or be active on her stuff. That way lies madness.
I want people in my life who couldn't give a shit what happens on facebook, whatsapp, twitter or instagram. The last thing I ever want a girlfriend to say is "Did you see what happened on twitter last night?" Fuck off love, I have a life.
Red flag. That is VERY weird... It also seems like you talked to him about this and he still doesn't care for your feelings about it. Wow... This is not normal. Find someone who is more serious about you 🌸
It’s highly possible that your boyfriend is hiding something & if you really want to know feel free to ask your boyfriend why.
To be honest it's weird, it's usually the first thing that a couple does... does he even know this bothers you? I think you should tell him, and tell him exactly what you wrote here to not cause drama.
I would definitely follow her! I couldn't let her feel unnoticed. How does he act in the relationship? Does he do other weird things?
u Thats a convo u should have with him
He’s probably talking to other girls or wants to leave that as an option
Everybody can see the people he follow? if yes , then he probably don't want other girl to find out about you
My boyfriend follows me, so it’s weird how your boyfriend doesn’t follow you. Very strange
If he knows you have social media accounts but not following you, he is definitely hiding something from you. And if you feel that he is hiding something from you, trust your instinct.
Because he already followed others in mingle he just doing fun with you only don't called him as your boyfriend bull shit.
Why it's it so important for your boyfriend to follow you on social media?
Depends. If she were my girlfriend I'd assume we shared interests and a sense of humor so yes.
I don't like using social media but this is suspicious
Its not a big deal
Unless he is not there for you, when he is not around you
If you know what I am saying
Don't let social media ruin good relationship
Another reminder of how I hate and resent and I'm jealous of couples in their early 20s
You need to tell him what you just wrote here.
Dump him, he's a snake 🐍
There is a possibility that he’s cheating on you.
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