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Is it normal for a boyfriend to not act like a gentleman towards his girlfriend? (Page 2)
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Yes and no. A guy that controls his women is one of 2 things. 1: he is insecure and he wants to control what you do in fear of you moving on. Or 2: he does not love you. Control is not love. Love is trust, when trust is broken love fades away. After the love fades away you get control
Baby confrontation is the key he is still the right guy for you coz I don't know u mentioned it or not but i guess yov've known him for quite a long time. This is just a phase. Read articles on lovepanky website and baby dw if you haven't told him explicitly just tell him that this hurts you then see. Read articles on narcissism. Read if work has gotten over him. Read will he ever be able to manage his personal life like that coz work be no less tomorrow
Have you ever heard the term familiarity breeds contempt? That is what it sounds like here.
He has gotten so used to you that he takes you for granted.
The question isn’t about him. It’s about you, why are you with a guy like this?
Do you not believe you can do better than you need him to change instead?
This is who he is.
I do not know what his problem is. Maybe he has issues with people taking advantage of him. You should call him out on it sometime. If he really wants the relationship to work he will try and do something about it.
Congratulations your boyfriend is selfish narcissistic lazy wanker. His interested in what makes him feel good not others. Helping others also makes him feel good, helping you doesn't. Lazy cunt
No, my boyfriend is still pretty protective and polite towards me.
I think you need to sit down and think if this is the right guy for you because he will not change his attitude for you.
guys like this are the reason why women always fear dominant men. being careless abusive has nothing to do with being in charge. and being in charge doesn't mean cancel your partner's opinions.
did you talk to him about it? what did he say?
Sounds like an unstable control freak with trust issues. My boyfriend does not act like this. I think you should have a talk with him.
I believe if you can express your concerns in a clear and understanding way, he should understand. Add compliments also to the concern to soften his attempt to argue with your critique.
I think you're full of shit. I think you're playing games and asking other dudes to help you with things just to piss him off. And I think you're mad that he's refusing to play along.
Most women don’t have to ask. She needs to dump his ass and be with one of them.
@MzAsh Of course I could be wrong. This is just my hypothesis. But if I'm right then what I'm saying is that she's a passive-aggressive attention "whore" (sorry; there's probably a better word for that) who likes to use other males to make hers look bad so that she can then feel sorry for herself and have a manufactured reason to hate him at the same time. It's a type. Those people are very toxic. Though you may not have come across them before, and that's ok.
@Jamie05rhs ROFL or her boyfriend is a loser which from what she wrote is far, far more likely
Only of he's an asshole.
In fairness I was definitely an jerk to many early girlfriend's. It takes time to learn how to work a romantic relationship. Life most things in life, you need practice.
Dump him. You could do better. That guy has issues not worth wasting your time on.
I mean girls don't want a pushover but you got to talk to your girl with some respect. Not normal unless you are self centered little man-child
to me it sounds like that he has a guilty conscious and that he may be cheating on you and being sneaky/dishonest and projecting His deceitful behaviors on you.
Your relationship is uneven and it is best for both of you to end it.
It's not normal. He should be a gentleman. My husband always helps me out in chores and treat me nice.
Sounds like what women love and are obsessed with. I bet ur cunt has never been wetter ur entire life and u're actually turned off by guys who're nice to u.
Sounds more controlling and possessive than caring, not a good quality.
Only if you want a girlfriend! Threat them with respect and they cheat on you! Treat them like crap and they love you
You sound dumb you must be messing with the wrong women not all women are like that
Don’t insult me, asshole! I gave my opinion based on my experiences.
Riiight I’m an asshole