Are the heartbreaking jerks actually heartbroken?

[fonduegirl]

in my opinion, a bit of an exaggeration... It can be their parents' divorce too... I personally find it irritating when some person asks "what scarred you" like it's a stupid ROM com.

[kmg9150]

Broken hearts are often because that of the broken allow it too happen by giving emotional control over to the other party. We create the thoughts surrounding that person which dictate our emotional well being and manipulate our thoughts. Happened to me thrice, 20 years between 2 ex's , one which weaponized our son and 34 years from my mother. My advice, personal development, you can love someone without giving them control of your ♥️.

[Slartybartfast]

Yeah I get the "who hurt you" snarky replies.

I usually say "I'm divorced"


Women and men are equally bad, we just lock the majority of the worst men in prison, while the worst women are free to abuse.

[SamA_nold]

I think there's usually a reason behind why people act a certain way, but I'm not sure heartbreak is the word I'd use

[tatianamay]

Some are, some aren’t. Some are truly heartbroken, some are just really good manipulators

[Still-alive]

Nah dont fall for it. They tend to be emotional manipulators

[fonduegirl]

Ever met one?

[Still-alive]

I sure have. didn't fall for it

[fonduegirl]

Any noble mistake she made?

[Still-alive]

Well i wasn't in a relationship with her but one time i held a party and she came over with her guy at the time. And unknown to me she and a friend of hers both went into my bathroom and did cocaine. I didn't learn about it until after and i was pretty furious. I told a friend who told our then manager (we all worked together) and somehow she learned that i the manager knew. So from then on she blamed ME for her fuck up lol. About a month later her and her friend both got arrested for stealing money from the registers at the store we worked at. Good riddance

[rounddablock]

Some people are sociopaths. They don’t feel empathy or guilt. But other people have had a rough upbringing.

[TurkishDİxon3419]

I don't know about you, but in my religion Islam, breaking a heart is a sin like destroying the Kaaba, which is the holiest place in Islam.

[fonduegirl]

That's sweet.

[TurkishDİxon3419]

True Muslims are afraid of hurting people.

[TurkishDİxon3419]

Did they upset you?

[fonduegirl]

Muslims? No.

[TurkishDİxon3419]

No, I'm not talking about Muslims, did your friends or family upset you?

[fonduegirl]

I prefer not to answer that.

[TurkishDİxon3419]

@anon1903 There is a saying in our country. "He who does not tell his troubles will not find a cure." You can tell me too.

[fonduegirl]

No thanks.

[TurkishDİxon3419]

Ok, I respect your decision.

[Kaneki05]

To some yes to some no. A lot of people become bad due to not been loved, or feeling they ain't

[DisappointingHope]

Sometimes, breaking someone's heart can be heartbreaking sometimes for those who aren't complete psychopaths. Rom coms are shit.

[DJB72]

That's like asking if all bullies were bullied. Some are, some aren't.

[sawno]

It can be, can be guys who don't know love or just giys who value sex over everything else / focus to much on the feeling.

[2021biguy]

No, I think people that break other people's hearts are sadists that get satisfaction out of doing it.

[Pummel]

No... The truly heartbroken will be single and not up for dating

[Tstrbrainer]

Not always. There are narcissists, right?

[NoLookingAtSoleil]

Most probably. Abortionists ruin it for all of us.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Some are

[scooogy]

At least I am