What’s the difference between a deep crush, infatuation, and falling in love?

[Anonymous]

[btbc92]

They arw all the same. A deep crush is based on an infactuation, when your in love it is an infactuation. Love is a conscious choice and decision. It is not a feeling. Crushes comes and goes. If it is serious there is a logical reason.

Falling in love is not Love. Its is just hormones and infactuation becuase your sexually and physically attracted to the person. That have 0 to do with love and socuety, the media and people gets ot all confused. Anf if your lusting, trust me, you know its not falling in love, its the most easiet of the 3 which is a sin.

The moment you fall in love, which is based on your feelings, and the emotional and hormonal highs of the moments, then you fall out of love when you no longer feel it. If a person makes you feel a certain way, you automatically lose that attraction. Again and has less to do with the fact that you are losing the attraction, but more to do with the fact that you base your conscience decisions on what you feel and like at the immediate moment that have zero to do with Intuition, or emotional abuse. This is how couples being if they're married or not equipped to break apart or cheat because they don't have a solid foundation built on love amd trust. Which is something what they call in slow-burn romances in the romance genre in entertainment and media. There's a reason why that route especially when your friends or you'll learn to become friends and then you develop deeper feelings and emotions for the person all relationships that lasted the longest. Why? Because again the couple at the time before they became a couple has learned the reality of a person. Love is understand the reality. And not the fantasy you cook up in your head.

So again. No matter how deep the crust is, it is strictly based on your hormones and your immediate feelings right away. That means you badly want something and it could mean anything. But it doesn't mean that you love the person it is possible that you're in love but again you're in love with the idea of the individual. And you want what you need at Lee want you mediately. Love has zero to do with that. Love don't have to make you feel like you got to have that person or not. It's a simple conscious Choice. Even if you feel very deeply for the person, you understand why you feel deeply for that person and why that person is a match for you. This is not something that is based on sex or anything else. So something based on actual facts. Facts that describes a person's character and who they are within themselves. But if you're not a whole person, you can cause problems. So it's best to always evaluate yourself whenever it is you're involved with people and understand what they are about and what their intentions are.

[lakotabebebe]

Crush: If they cut their hair or change their appearance, they become less attractive

Infatuation: Puppy love, you just adore EVERYTHING about them and want to get to know them. It takes a little bit, but if it isn't meant to be, you'll lose that infatuation eventually.

Falling in love: You love them so much that everything hurts when they do something that makes you think they're in danger. You sit on your bed for days sick, wondering why you can't stop thinking about them. Your heart skips beats whenever you hold their hand. Once you're with them? The skies are never grey, flowers bloom year long... Sometimes it'll hurt because no one goes without agruing in a relationship, but that lifetime bond is something no one else can have with you.

[williamHD]

Agree with this but the moment you fallen in love and you deny your feelings it’s the worst

[ScottStevens]

The first two are pretty much the same. You have this incredible physical desire to be near that person, but in reality you do not know them all that well. If you did you would be falling in love with each other.

The difference is wanting to share your life story with that person, and wanting them to share theirs with you. Intimacy begins with knowing there is much more than physical attraction. You want to whole package.

When you find yourself dreaming of that special person, you think about the things you do together as much as the sex you share.

[coachTanthony]

-------------You have to choose the difference. Falling in love is quite different for all of us. If you have a crush and get to know the person then fall in love then that is a choice you made to move forward. If you don't move forward and never find out then you define it as a crush. How far are you willing to take the interaction to find out? Even if you do feel a certain way about them it doesn't mean you are compatible with them, it just means you have chemistry. There is a big difference.

~Coach T Anthony @thedatecoach IG

[bobalife]

Crush: I get curious, excited, and shy


Infatuation: I get super excited, happy, and adore the guy. Sparks be flying. Puppy love mode Lol.


Love: Love is love. You just accept someone for all of them and still wanna be there… and grow with them. You choose to do so despite the highs and lows. I’d probably do almost anything to make my guy happy.

[boggboss]

Infatuation tends to be the image u have in your head off the person a crush tends to be feelings u have about then before u have started dating and falling in love requires your to deeply know them

[genericname85]

for me, a crush and infatuation is vague feelings towards a person that you don't really know. love to me is when that feeling persists after you've seen their bad side.

[EmbraceThePain]

To me, those three terms seem to have identical emotional wavelengths.

[TheGreatAwan]

Nothing it is not real it is made up and no one actually feels these things. I have only ever felt lust and disgust.

[Yourfriend2021]

You'll know when you fall in love.

[AlongCameCindy]

One lingers, one does not.

[Scottty2hottty]

They all seem like the same thing to me.