Why would my ex girlfriend text me out of the blue after a year?

[Anonymous]

She asked to borrow some money from me, that she needed to put down for a place to rent. So her and her boyfriend can move in together.

before that and even after the fact.

She reached out to me out of the blue. Multiple times
To see how im doing, And just struck up a conversation with me. Asked about work. Ect………. Even after asking for the loan.
.
I have a girlfriend, She has a new boyfriend
and my girlfriend knows about this, Whats going on, i told her.

I loaned her and her boyfriend the money to move in, But she keeps in contact with me still,

my girlfriend made a great. Point

How could he as a man, sleep under that roof. Knowing he couldn’t come up with that little bit of money to move in there?

And a guy his girlfriend use to sleep with,
was the one that got them in there.
she came to me.

What kind of man is that?
I totally don’t understand…….
like that’s supposed to be an upgrade?

the guy can't even put a roof over your head. Barely.

What does she want?

[BeenThereLovedIt]

welcome to the world of friend zones and becoming an emotional tampon.

[Asker]

Lol i dont think someone you had sex with before qualifys as a friendzone. Its a bit late for that.

I known her my whole life, Since we were kids. So there is a few different factors that could be at play

[BeenThereLovedIt]

If you aren't having sex with her now and loaning her and her new boyfriend money, what do you call it?

[Avicenna]

Obviously, she just wanted some money she‘ll never repay

[Asker]

She will, I've known her. Most of my life, And she's not like that.

That’s honestly the only reason I didn’t tell her to get lost. I've known her since we were 5.

Shel give it back, I just have no idea why she came to me of all people

[JosyJosy]

cause it's an ex, don't question it. Don't interact

[scooogy]

You tell 'em! :)

[Anonymous]

Boy you still on here trolling like a stupid person

[Asker]

Im not troling…….. im actually serious.

I wouldn’t be here asking you guys, if i wasant seriously thinking about this.

Theirs only so many people i can talk to this about that I know and I would rather ask you guys than bring up my personal business with other people

[Opinion Owner]

Lol well you have talked to people about this girl a dozen times on here including me. You need to move on with your life and leave her alone. Quit creating situations inside of your head because she doesn’t want you. She moved in with the love of her life and she didn’t call you asking you for anything. It’s crazy that you still sitting up here creating fake accounts and trying to make her look bad when it’s you

[Asker]

Last time i was on here was over a year ago.

I have a new girlfriend. And im probably not who your talking about……. This did happen to me. Recently

If your not going to help. Or give me any advice. Leave me alone.

Her and i have known eachother since we were kids, Dated as teenagers, broke up,
Then got back together in our 20s.

Until last year we had a fall out.

There is a lot of history there. And im trying to figure out why she keeps coming back.

My new girlfriend knows about it and i can't wrap my head around it.

If your not going to help, just leave me alone. But thats the situation

[Opinion Owner]

Again the same situation.. stop trolling and making up shit and leave her alone

[Asker]

Again, another keaboard warrior, That hides behind a screen.

You just assume things to justify what you want to believe,

Message me in private, if you want to discuss. Only reason i went anonymous is because her younger sister might be on this site. And i dont want to chance it.

[Opinion Owner]

you need to seek mental help bad because you the same dude who keeps up with this same ole crap omg

[charltonhestonsgma]

Money.