Is my girlfriend cheating on me?

[Anonymous]

So I think my girlfriend my have cheated on me. She went away on a trip to see her friend (a guy). We usually text or talk every day. This turned into her taking a long time to text me back and ignoring my calls. It wasn't like I was over texting her just out normal amount. Then when she gets back she ignores me and won't see me. What is going on?

[Anonymous]

Yeah she cheated on you, I would confront her and break it off.. It is inappropriate for a woman who is in a committed relationship to go see male friends alone.. As it is inappropriate for a man who is in a committed relationship to see other women alone.

[Asker]

Yeah it hurts, we both had a lot of trust or I thought we did. I didn't want to hold her from seeing her friends or doing her passions. It didn't really make me think until she went quiet on me.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm so sorry..

[devilman666]

Yeah, she probably did. I've learned from past experiences to never ignore the red flags.

[Asker]

Yeah she ended up dumping me.

[devilman666]

Bruh, I haven't had a single friend visit me in the past 2 years, I find it hilarious that she would make a long ass trip like that for "a friend" unless there were "benefits".

Tbh, you should be happy, I know it hurts right now, but you just dodged a bullet by finding out this early. Imagine if you had married her and had a kid or two first, your life would pretty much be over.

[Asker]

Well yeah in hindsight that makes more sense on why she traveled. I didn't realize I have friends come vist me and go vist them without the benefits so I didn't think that would happen.

Yeah I know it's a dodged bullet.

[devilman666]

@Asker to be fair, I have social issues, I have no friends in the town where I currently live, and apparently I'm not valued by anybody who I call a friend or family member.

[iseekpinetrees]

Yea probably did. Might wanna just move on. Not communicating is a red flag anyways.

[Asker]

Yeah its all I can do.

[Anonymous]

That's a sure sign. You don't even need proof. She did not miss you and most likely cheated on you. I am familiar with such experiences but it was me, who traveled and I didn't cheat.
Time to find a new girl.

[slatyb]

Sounds like it’s over.

[Sketti2021]

Sounds either busy or not interested