Is my girlfriend cheating on me?

[JustiReno]

She never calls me like before, just recently since June she has been blocking me almost every day where before we talked maybe 6hrs a day we talk like 30min now. She demands that she have access to my bank or she’ll leave but she flakes Everytime I’m supposed to get access to her phone. The one time I get to check hella guys disappear in front my face but she says it’s old, also she did cheat in the beginning of our relationship and threaten to cheat again last December really hurt me. I love the girl of course that’s why I’m with her but don’t have proof. If anyone here has proof post up n you may get what you want.

[zeitgeist057]

I don't know about if she's cheating on you (probably), but just the bank account thing and from everything I've heard it's time to drop that girl like a hot bag of penguin poop.
She flakes. She wants to get your money. She cheats. She lies. She threatens you with her "love" by saying she'll end the relationship if you don't give her what she wants (your money). She also threatens to cheat on you to manipulate you.

How many damn red flags and toxic behaviors do you NEED? She's playing you. Maybe not cheating on you, though it's likely. She has no respect for you because you show no respect for yourself when she tests you like this.

She doesn't love you, she just loves herself. She might not even be capable of loving another person.

I had a girl once do one of those things to me, and I left so fast. Now that same girl is in love with me for life and always wishing she could be with me and texting me sweet things, eating out of my hand. I love her back, of course, but it makes a world of difference that I had the self respect to leave when she tested me.

[Bailey0506]

Okay, let's break this down...

1) You used to talk all the time, now you barely speak at all during the whole day.
2) She demands access to your bank or she'll leave you, meaning she effectively controls your finances.
3) She refuses to let you see her phone to prove there's nothing going on.
4) The one time you did, there were other guys on there.
5) She cheated in the beginning of your relationship.
6) She threatened to cheat again because you were presumably arguing about something.
7) She said something that she knew would hurt you, intentionally.

This isn't love. This is toxic, twisted, controlling. You already have all the proof you need that this relationship isn't healthy.

If you can't see the issue here, then I don't think anything anyone else here says is going to help.

[JustiReno]

I think it has been toxic at times, she can actually be really messed up, when she threaten to fuck another guy when she pregnant I hurt so bad, i really thought she was gonna go n I would talk to her all the way to dudes house n the taxi then never speak again, I cheated on her before too, after I found she was cheating on me as revenge, but some how linking these two events, me finding her graphic sexting other guys, enrages her to the point of a break up, this girls a hand full

[Darine123]

So fucking bullshit everything you said , you told everyone I cheat , Did you cheat on me? Asshole? Don’t ask me why I been distance lately it’s because how you been acting to me, if you keep acting like this don’t even think that I want you back! I was wondering how could I be with u over a year when you have nothing good

[zeitgeist057]

Sounds like you two can agree you're not interested in staying together. Neither one of you sounds like you're enjoying it very much.

[JustiReno]

@zeitgeist057 funny every time we fight n get back I feel more attracted to her

[TheMajesticKing777]

She demands access to your bank account or she will leave? Does that sound right to you, just with that you gave me enough information that makes me believe you should just let her go

[JustiReno]

Why would I leave her unless she cheated?

[TheMajesticKing777]

Cause she seems to be very demanding over your money and that's a red flag

[JustiReno]

So who would you stay with? What if someone left you over every little thing how would people find each other

[TheMajesticKing777]

There's people that don't make your money a requirement to have them as a partner, she basically threatened to break up with you over your bank account

[TheMajesticKing777]

Personally I wouldn't let that slip but whatever floats your boat

[TheMajesticKing777]

Mark my words tho, when she finds someone with more money she is going to leave you

[JustiReno]

She found someone with more money she didn’t leave, she gave me some cash

[TheMajesticKing777]

Either ways you are balancing on a thin rope in my opinion

[JustiReno]

FOR SURE 🙏🙏🙏

[Kiss_Me]

Run, don't walk away from her. You are her cash cow she is using to cheat on you. Quit funding her infidelity.

[Xoirwinkan]

Whether or not she's cheating is irrelevant now. She is DONE with you. Get out now. If she's constantly threatening you with leaving she's just using you and is a massive bitch.

[JustiReno]

We broke up and now she’s threatening suicide I really don’t know what to do @darine123 needs fucking help

[Smile_empty_soul]

Demanding access to your bank? Drop the bitch. She's cheating.

[spartan55]

Dude, access to your bank account? Wtf is that?

[JustiReno]

So she can check I’m not spending money on hookers, I’d be fine except she supposed to show me her phone n she doesn’t, it actually makes me SUPER frustrated

[Guy13]

What now. She’s cheated on you in her past?

[JustiReno]

Yes, but I cheated on her after and we kind of settled it

[Guy13]

She doesn’t sound settled. Women never get over that.-It don’t matter how many times they cheat on you BUT once on your end and they never forget…

[JustiReno]

She brings it up a lot but maybe she brought other girls up more before she knew

She’s said some messed up things to me before and not sure what I believe at this point, believe she’s a good person tho

[Guy13]

That ship 🛳 has sailed🤷🏻‍♂️

[Jamie05rhs]

@JustiReno Maybe you guys should just call it a day. You both should take a break from dating in general and then date other people. But try to improve yourselves.
(That is just my opinion. I mean you no offense at all whatsoever.)

[JustiReno]

@Jamie05rhs iono sometimes I feel like she’s … mentally unstable, I’m not sure if she cheats I have no proof, but I said I was gonna break up with her and she jumped out a window

[Jamie05rhs]

She did what? 😯

[JustiReno]

@Jamie05rhs yes, first floor tho see something really up with this girl n I try to help the best I can, I think she getting better actually, a little

[Jamie05rhs]

Damn. Okay

[JustiReno]

@Jamie05rhs she has threatened to kill herself like from the 8 floor of her apartment dude it’s the scariest fucking thing, I was with her when she jumped out, I had to stop her like 10x she finally does it, slips and hits her head dude I was so F scared I love this girl I thought she’d need to go to the hospital

[Jamie05rhs]

Wow.

[JakeS00]

Uh... I think something's off for sure.

[JustiReno]

Yeah.. girl seems “off” to me sometimes too but she mentally unstable i don’t wanna throw her under the bus but she needs a lot of help, I try my best

[JakeS00]

Honestly, if it's affecting you, I'd leave her. Also, if you feel something is off, I wouldn't let it linger much longer.

[JustiReno]

I think relationships take hard work why would I give up now we been through so much n have a lot look forward to, was gonna go to turkey n japan this year

[JakeS00]

You're right. They do require hard work and building too. If you think you both can work things out, let's hope it makes your relationship stronger.

[noohair]

You sound unhappy, might be time for a change.

[JustiReno]

She’s frieaking suicidal dude I don’t know what to do

[noohair]

Take care of yourself. You can't fix other people. Good Luck.

[Shamalien]

She cheated? It’s over dude