Why my gay best friend doesn't want to introduce me to his boyfriend?

[Teat34]

So my gay best friend has been dating this guy for months and we had coffee all together just once, and after a while my best friend started to change, we used to meet everyday, and I understood that he's In a relationship so he'll be spending more time with his boyfriend, but each time I call him he hung up on me, without any explanation. And he only call me when he's alone, or when he's dropping off his boyfriend at his place.. and when he needs me for weed he calls me, and once we meet he speaks about what he was doing, like going out with his boyfriend and his friends, so it's not just them all the time, Ps I'm his only friend.

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So this friend have my Netflix account, what should I do?

[dhinchak]

The boyfriend might have said something like you look hot or something, and that's why your friend is a litlle cautious now.

Could also be the opposite - like the guy couldn't stand you, so your friend knows that if he brings you two together, things might get out of hand.

[Teat34]

From the time we stayed together he didn't say a word all the time was me and my friend who are talking

[dhinchak]

The talk could've happened when you werw not with them like after you guys got back from the hangout.

[Inexpensivefurniture]

Is it possible this is his boyfriend's doing? Could he be trying to isolate your friend and cut you out?

[Teat34]

I totally agree with you

[I-C3_ME]

I'd probably confront him about how it looks like he's ghosting you kinda and prepare for the friendship to end

[Teat34]

It's going that way, and I need to get a appointment to talk to him

[I-C3_ME]

Yeah I've been there, as soon as i have to make an appointment to talk to my friend, most of the time I'm out. It's a really sucky feeling, I'm sorry you have to go through this

[Teat34]

It's the life

[sullyk1234]

probably thinks hell go for you

[Teat34]

If that's the case, he's not my type and we both top

[sullyk1234]

find someone else you dont deserve that even by a friend if you want to call them that

[Teat34]

I thought we're friends

[Little_Bumblebee]

Seems like something you would have to ask him

[Teat34]

I'm planning on that when I have the chance to meet my friend, been days now without hearing from him.

[In_Trance]

No idea. You'd have to ask him

[Teat34]

Working on it