To answer your questions as to why your boyfriend hasn't introduced you to his son could be a number of reasons... The first reason why he hasn't could be maybe that it is too soon because you've only been together for 6 months... The next reason could be maybe he doesn't want to bring just any woman around his son before getting to know them fully and out of respect to the mother of his child... Another reason could be that his son is probably too young to understand. His son might wonder "Why is Daddy spending time with this lady and not my Mommy?"
I would say gradually bring the question up to him one day when he is talking about his son. But don't bring it up in the form of a question, bring it up like; "I would really love to meet him someday!" Or "I can't wait to meet him, he sounds like a great kid!" Then you can see what kind of reaction you get out of him or if he responds to your comment. If he doesn't have anything to say to or about your comment or if he changes the subject and tries to avoid what you had just said, then leave it alone that just might mean either he doesn't want to introduce you to him ever or now probably isn't the time. Pressing the fact that he hasn't introduced you to his son just might make it an issue and that probably wouldn't be good for your relationship. If he tells you something like... "You will get to meet him." Or "Yeah, wait until you meet him..." Then that's when you just sit back and be patient with him until the day you get to meet his son.
I really hope that I was able to answer your questions and that they make you feel more at ease. Take care and Blessings to you and your relationship with your boyfriend and his son.
he's no ready yet. I'm mom and I don't like introduing guys until I'm completel comfortable. you never want another person walking out on your kids.
just be patient. if your ment to be together you'll meet his son when he's ready. but it's a REALLY big step. It takes a lot of trust.
at least he's a good father not a: "I'm gonna show off my kid to score points with her and get laid"
First off, don't think its because you aren't the one or he doesn't want you to know about his son! Perhaps he is just a little scared that you don't like the fact that he has a child... He could also be looking at it from his son's perspective on things. Don't feel your not loved by this man and that he dosn't want to talk about it. The best thing you coud ever do in a relationship or even a friendship is to communicate especially about all the important things such as this. Your man should be like your best friend, laugh, joke, and talk pretty much about anything if you really want to be side by side with someone you could see spending the rest of your life with. I say you do it up and talk with him about it when you get the chance too :p Also mention that you believe its a good think to talk to each other about all your feelings and doubts that you might be having, everyone has those even when you know that someone won't go off and do something behind your back... "The worlds biggest mistake is being to afraid to make one."
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He's not ready yet and isn't sure if you are the one.
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