Why won't he introduce me to his family?

[nez16v]

we haven't being dating long just about almost a month I know it's too soon but he has already met my mom & sister not cause I planned it too but it just happens like when he drops me off at home there outside in the front yard so I introduced. okay well he has never asked me to go hangout at his house or anything usually is at a park or somewhere else. & when he comes to drop me off at my house in invite him in like just to eat something or a drink but he doesn't want to go in apparently because he is "shy" & he gets nervous seeing my family. My friend knows his ex girlfriend & she has told me that they were together for a year & 2 months & he never introduced her to his family either nor go over to his house. I know he lives in apartments so I don't know if he is embarrass or what but he knows I'd. about stuff like that. Point is why wouldn't he introduce me to his family? is he embarrass of his family? not taking me seriously to introduce? ahh I don't even know what to think! please help! meeting my boyfriends parents is a big deal to me it's how I know things are good!

[Tinyplaces]

Him being shy when it comes to something involving your family is understandable. I am the same way since I'm shy myself . It may just take time for him to be comfortable around your sister and mother.

He may be embarrassed, ashamed or w.e about introducing you to his family. For all you and I know, his family could be the reason why he's depending on how he was raised. Maybe his family likes to pass judgement and he's afraid of what they may or may not say. I'm kind of the same way in that regard. But It's hard to tell since I don't know him.

[Tinyplaces]

Edit: " his family could be the reason why he's shy depending..."

[zactheripper]

Just ask him why and try to understand and explain that his family won't change the way you think of him, but don't be demanding or pester him.

Meeting his parents isn't that big a deal, don't focus on it just because it hasn't happened yet. If he's not on good terms with his own family, you probably won't be either, I doubt you're missing out on much.

[KingsOfleon88]

It has only been in a month, which isn't very long. Maybe he wants you to meet his parents when things are a little more serious and he knows for sure that you are the one.

[Anonymous]

there is something he hides. he doesn't want anyone else to know it.