Girls, what would you do in my situation (READ DETAILS)?

[TomGarand]

I previously asked the guys on here what they would do in my situation. Guys, what would you do if you were in my (sort of) romantic situation?

The summary is, my friend's sister and I are attracted to each other (My friend knows and is cool with it). Here's the kicker: She's 4 and a half inches taller than me (I'm 5'6), physically stronger than me, a better fighter than me, AND she's dominant. I nickname her "Wolf" in my questions because she calls me "Puppy", and because she's larger and stronger.

Anyways, Wolf isn't just dominant in bed or a relationship. She thrives when she's in charge PERIOD. She's the leader out of 6 children--all but two of whom are adults now. Most women want a man who's taller, stronger, and more dominant than them, but she doesn't, apparently. The fact that she's more dangerous than me boosts her ego and makes her feel more dominant.

Oh, and while I'm weak and have very little fighting experience, Wolf was trained by her mom to box and use a knife. So she's also more skilled with a weapon than I am.

If we actually start dating, Wolf will have to protect ME instead of the other way around. But I honestly love that she's the alpha between us, and I doubt she'd want me to be the one protecting her. Again, my weak and delicate body makes her feel more dominant and in control. I make her feel like an Amazon.

So girls, what would you do in my situation. What if your boyfriend/husband/crush was smaller, weaker, and less dominant than you? How would you feel and what would you do about it?

[Smoke-n-Growls]

I think that's awesome.

I have been the protector for my partners in the past and always will have a Tiger streak in me for protecting my loved ones.

I had to be the protector for my first partner, and I didn't mind so much except for the fact that he was 1000% oblivious to any environmental dangers and he felt he was "the man" of the relationship when he very much was just a coward.

My current partner I know will protect me if I need it, but he also recognizes I'm much more capable in a fight or a crisis than he typically is (I just have more fight and rough life experience). So he knows to get out the way if I need to step in. But he also knows my signs of distress and hurt, so he will defend me if he's around and sees I need it.

You know your strengths, she knows hers. You both know how your dynamic feeds what the other enjoys. No one is being hurt.

I'd be 100% her little Puppy, if I were you.

[JosyJosy]

Puppy, that's adorable. I call my partner 'Bear' so in this case I should call him 'Cub'. I wouldn't mind if he was more submissive, but would he never try to stand his ground? Would he only be submissive towards me or other people as well? Would he be a doormat?

[itsdarci]

In your situation will i would feel very masculine like I’m the guy and he is the girl i been with a guy that was about the same height as me It didn’t bother me because I truly loved him and it just didn’t faze me because if you really like someone things like height/looks won’t get in the way in my opinion.

[TomGarand]

So if you were more dangerous and dominant, you would be turned off?

[itsdarci]

In a way yes , I would try to not be as dominant so he can take over if that makes sense

[TomGarand]

So you want him to make you feel safe. Understandable.

[itsdarci]

yes if I did have a boyfriend

[Sue_Free]

I have no problem with this at all. I have two younger brothers so I already had to keep put my foot down to keep them in check, figuratively and literally. It brings me joy, looking after the people I love.

[TomGarand]

So you wouldn't mind being taller, stronger, and a better fighter than your romantic partner?

[Sue_Free]

No. I think I might even have a thing for shorter men. I think they're cute.

[TomGarand]

You must be tall like Wolf, then.

[Sue_Free]

It's good to see that there are guys out there who wouldn't mind this at all. I don't know how rare it is.

[TomGarand]

How rare what is?

[Sue_Free]

A guy being attracted to taller, stronger and more dominant

[TomGarand]

Yeah, there's a whole Subreddit full of these people. R/RoleReversal

[TomGarand]

Just how tall are YOU anyway?

[Sue_Free]

RoleReversal, I'll have a look. I'm 5 11

[TomGarand]

There's also R/GentleFemDom, if you love FemDom without the harsher aspects of it.

[Sue_Free]

Thanks for these!

[TomGarand]

No problem. Although I'm guessing your height scared off a few guys.

[Sue_Free]

It did, that's why I was wondering if it's rare for guys to actually prefer someone taller

[TomGarand]

What did they say?

[Sue_Free]

Oh nothing. Just no second date

[Sue_Free]

"it's not working out" or "it makes them look less of a man". The latter, does it?

[TomGarand]

Jeez. I imagine some of those guys who said you being taller is emasculating weren't strong themselves.

[Sue_Free]

They weren't but they don't have to be. I just happen to love exercise.

[TomGarand]

These guys were really weak, weren't they?

[Sue_Free]

they didn't really have a background in sports, or they used to as a kid but stopped

[TomGarand]

And I assume some men were mean about you being so tall. Or they said it was emasculating.

[Sue_Free]

They weren't rude about it, it just sucks if it's your height that's in the way of things. I love my height, I wouldn't change it, but it still sucks

[LavenderLuna]

I think itd be pretty difficult to find a guy shorter than me lol. And I tend to prefer to be the More submissive one in a relationship. I’d love to date a woman like that. She sounds great. If you have a chance, go for it lol

[WowwGirl]

Would never happen