How important is sexting and sharing nudes in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

I m ( we both are 23) in relationship with a guy from past 3months everything is really good and yeah I really trust him. I even share few snaps sometime. But he's like he's not interested in snaps but want a Video call but I never really done something like that through a Video call so I told him I m really not comfortable so nope I can share snaps but he's like no.
We even live in the same city and we meet regularly like at least weekly twice. But he said that he won't do any romantic talks from now till I do him a video call and even when we meet he said that he will be very normal , he's like your not opening up over Video call so I don't like to do anything when we meet and I will be normal with you. But I still love you.
I really don't understand why he's comparing both like is the mistake really mine?

[MTC29]

"He wants a Video call but I never really done something like that through a Video call so I told him I m really not comfortable so nope I can share snaps but he's like no.
But he said that he won't do any romantic talks from now till I do him a video call."

He's pouting like a little boy.

You've set limits. Stick to them! If you give into this video business, it will only be the beginning of a long series of compromises he'll expect you to make, otherwise he'll withhold his affection.

The guy's being a jerk. Dump his pouting ass and find a guy who has some respect for you.

[Hulk30]

from my perspective im not actually with ya but the way i look at all relationships all relationships are a business/negotiation/transaction/sales puttin myself in a hypothetical situation with you knowin what i understand about women not only wouldn't i ever tell ya what to do but my focus would be never to make ya feel like i was tryna force ya to do anything ya didn't want to and i dont really think its that important i can sext thats cool i can share nudes thats cool but i figure why do all that when we can meet up talk dirty and just fuck

[charltonhestonsgma]

i personally have the best results with not sharing nudes and just fucking the guy in person. but yk. do what you're comfortable doing. he doesn't love you, that's clear, but just do whatever you want to do.

[pankaj317]

Correct and from her story the partner is not in love thats sure

[Ninani]

Depends on the relationship. To me it's far more important to be there for each other emotionally rather than sexually when we're apart.

[Ninani]

Just read your description. He is trying to manipulate you into breaking your boundaries for him. I'd dump his ass, he doesn't deserve you.

[MotorcycleMan]

He should really be respecting what you are comfortable with. If he can't, that's an issue.

[pankaj317]

its common if u trust the person you are doing with

[pankaj317]

And from your story the boy is not in love with you thats very clear

[pankaj317]

can you DM for some conversations and becoming friend?

[Wise4myage]

He sounds like a real douche bag who's trying to pressure you into sending nudes. If you don't feel ok with this, than just say no. Three months isn't long enough to fully trust him anyway.

[Twalli]

It's weird that bbn he's hung up on that. My girlfriend and I do video calls because we both miss each other so much otherwise

[FamilyGuy2020]

I don't share sexually explicit videos or nudes amongst friends

[In_Trance]

that's up to the people in the relationship in question to figure out

[Iron_Man]

It’s not necessary your face to face

[bananathunder]

sounds like he's acting like a baby to me