What's the easiest way to tell a girl I don't want anything with her?

[lucaspaiva]

I've been on this situation a lot of times but i always end up making them feel like shit so i would appreciate some tips 🌹

[Browneye57]

You're trying to use facts and logic against FEELINGS and emotions. It just doesn't work.
And why guys ghost. You've already beat to death all the problems that caused the relationship to fail, so what's the point of going further with all that? You just dump them. You leave. It's over.
"I'm out, we're done. I cannot do this any longer."
"It's over. Goodbye."

No more explanations. NO fussing and crying. No blaming, nothing. Just be done. No more contact. YOU are NOT responsible for THEIR feelings. PERIOD.

[Mofunfour20]

You dont owe her anything if you're not interested in her. you're overthinking this, move on. Its not like you want her going crazy in the friendzone, why are you trying to save face? You said you dont want anything with her so just block her and move on. Women will always find a way to get you emotionally invested in her. If you're not an emotional person itll never work. She doesn't offer you anything anyway

[pleaseloveme]

Tell her you're not a good fit and stop talking to her. Dont string her along and absolutely DO NOT sleep with her.

Guys get rejected by women all the time the only difference is with men most of the time they'll still sleep with the girl even if they dont find her attractive and they dont want a relationship

[Sheyhoney]

Just be as honest as possible and don’t lead her on or flirt with her in any way. Tell her hey, you’re beautiful, but I’m just not interested in you that way. I hope you understand that and respect that. thank you!” She will obviously be a little salty but you told her and you’re not going to lead her on in the end.

[VIVANT]

•If you don’t want anything I wonder how you keep riding up on this situation.

•if you are direct and have moved on why are you perseverations on how they feel good or bad? People have a right to their feelings. bo one here’s their feelings Micromanaged - especially by someone who wants nothing to do with them.

•Rejection is not fun but if you are direct and indications Rudy get to move on to better things. What maids people feel like shot is not rejection, but ambiguity and being toyed with. The worst feeling is a lack of respect. Everything else, time heals.

•Also, how many ways can you continuity make different people “feel like shit” before you start to reflect on the seemingly obvious text that you enjoy it on some level?

• in my opinion, the best thing you can do for yourself and others, is to get a better understanding of yourself that way you can be honest with people from the beginning. When you are honest, the rest is out of your hands. They are responsible for them, not you.

•It is virtually impossible to communicate honestly if you don’t even understand yourself.

•It does seem to be the case that you are avoiding being honest, which is making the guilt aspect kick into over gear bc , if you are to be honest you must first be honest with yourself and that is for some reason, painful to you. So instead you would ratter sow chaos feel guilty resent the guilt try to relieve the guilt feel getter and do the same thing that made you feel bad in the first place, wash rinse repeat.

•Best to just tell people from the beginning you’re sitting yourself out so you’re happy to chill but you have no more to offer. That way when you inevitably say you’re done, it won’t be a shock. And without fearing or craving for that bolt of shock and the guilt that ensues (which it’s he honest makes you feel a bit powerful…) you won’t get high off the shock your body might adjust to resisting to human beings as people.

•in the long run in my opinion, It will help you gravitate towards situations that maybe, you actually WANT to investigate, beyond for the shock value.

•Right now you’re addicted to other peoples emotional reaction to you. Good or bad you seem to seek it out. Try getting to know yourself getter so you don’t here to function on adrenaline, and rather get to know people. or yourself, or both.

•Good luck 🍀

[cloud9vortex1234]

Just tell her you're not her type. It's on her if she feels bad. You shouldn't feel bad about it. Men are usually the primary ones getting rejected anyway. We have to develop a certain numbness to stuff like this. I think it's good that they actually know what it feels like. The best way for people to get it is for them to feel it themselves.

[Anonymous]

Make sexual demands. That way you either skip past the relationship part and get right to the sex, or she ends up leaving you alone and giving you peace. Hasn't failed me yet

[lucaspaiva]

You're a genius, brother

[dray995]

What if you don’t want to have sex with her because you aren’t physically attracted to her?

[Opinion Owner]

@dray995 Then you just tell her to give you a BJ. No effort required on your part and again either you cum and she swallows or she's sucking your Dick for 30 minutes to an hour before she finally gives up and runs away out of embarrassment

[dray995]

BJ is still a sexual thing.

[Opinion Owner]

@dray995 Yeah but no effort required on your part

[Cocochoh]

Hit her with shit, other girls hit us fellas with.

I only see you as a friend.
I only see you like a sister.
I wish there are more nice girls like you out there.
Sorry I only date girls from mars.

[TommyMountainFigure]

How about:-
"This isn't a reflection on you, I'm just not looking to be with anyone right now"

[karaspara]

To be honest if they're into you and it's not reciprocated they will feel like crap for a while but honesty is the best policy they will feel much worse if you string them along for a while even unintentionally

[Floppy2112]

There is no easy way bud. No matter how you tell her, if she's into you, you are going to hurt her. The best way is to be a direct as possible, while being as polite about it as possible. But it won't be easy.

[Dude_777]

Just say that you both are incompatible and not a good fit for a long term relationship. But don't tell the reasons.

Breaking up sooner is always better than a complex divorce later on after all.

[FilmGuy93]

I don't think there's really a good way. You just have to be as honest as you can. Don't lead her on or take advantage of her feelings. Just be honest and respectful.

[have_a_good_day]

Tell her that you heard that girls go to Jupiter to get more stupider.
Then throw some gang signs with your fingers.
Then leave.

[Babygirl_S]

Tell her you just want to be friends and don't ask for sex if you don't want to lose respect. I can't believe some guys are even suggesting that.

[summiter]

Just be respectful and tactful that is all you can do

[Nikki6t6]

There gonna feel like shit no matter what… no one likes rejection…. but it’s better to be straight up than leading a girl on and or having her on your jock.

[DWornock]

Say, "I'm married" or "I have a girlfriend." Besides, they don't feel any worse than all the guys they reject.

[lorenzomichael]

Don't tell her shit just don't fuck with her anymore. She'll know what's up. Unless she's stupid.

[Slim57]

doesn't matter what you say they never listen and it makes them pursue you even more

[Anonymous]

"Me likey big cocks "

[888theGreat]

jump off a five foot plank in a shark pool

[InferiorElegy]

Tell her she's like a sister to you.

[Anonymous]

Dont tell her. Show her.

[michol123]

bye felicia

[Iron_Man]

Just tell her

[Hanmakev]

Ghost her duh