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Depends on the friend, the friendship, and how you go about telling him if you decide to do it.
For me if it was my best friend I would tell him, with picture/video evidence and something along the lines of "I figured you would want to know".
Picture and video evidence is too visceral for him to reject. He knows outright it happened and isn't just accepting it on trust with some questions in the back of his mind if it's really true.
He can accept it's true and make the decision for himself. I'd leave him alone for awhile and let him handle that however he chooses and not talk about it unless he comes to me about it.
To me that's best practice for handling it when the guys is a very close friend. If it's a guy I know and like, but we're not close enough and I know he's in a situation that is a little more shaky I might not.
If he relies in this girl a little too much to get by, then maintaining that relationship is akin to financial stability in his life. If he has kids or a kid on the way he wants to keep that's a very different scenario
Is it worth blowing up his situation when you're not going to be there for him longterm? That's my thought process. For me I'm gonna be there for my close friends. He can stay on my couch if he needs. I'll help him find a roommate if he needs.
I'll gift him money one time to help him out of a bind. I'm not about to do that for someone I'm not close to. So if I'm not prepared to help for the potential situation I caused I have to consider whether or not I'll tell him.
Because you will fundamentally change his relationship with her one way or the other. He'll have to question if the kid is his. That fact alone in this instance for me is a more pressing question.
Is it better he knows so he can get a paternity test and not risk raising another man's child? Might want to tell him but are you okay with the hell that comes from this and are you okay with helping or not helping in the aftermath?
For me as a man. I would want to know in that situation. But I can take care of myself
What if it was your girlfriend that cheated on you and your friend knows it? What would you rather want a friend that is unfaithful to you and an ally to the chesting girlfriend?
Maybe the best course of action is to ask the girlfriend to confess to the boyfriend. If the girl confesses, there is a better chance for the painful relationship to heel. If these facts come from you, after she refuses to confess, thats an action of a real friend.
If the man who the girlfriend cheated with had any self respect, he would confront your friend and apologise like a man. There sre two kinds of men who get sexual with women that are in other relationships. The difference between them is knowing. Those men who know they are helping a girl, to cheat on their boyfriend, dont deserve to be called men.
i think the best way is to let your friend know about it
i once found out one of my friend's boyfriend was trying to cheat on her so i thought if i told my friend she would be hurt as she was a very sensitive person so i talked to her boyfriend n tried to convince him that he shouldn't cheat on her as she loves him madly n all that n i told him i didn't tell this to my friend n i will keep quite as long as he gets honest with her... but to my surprise very next day my friend was so upset about me she came to my house n was kind of shouting that i tried lure her boyfriend on to me n i offered him sex n kissed him forcefully n he pushed me off etc...
i tried every possible way to tell her the true story but her boyfriend had her so convinced she wouldn't listen to me n she stopped seeing me n said we can't be friends anymore...
and after few months her boyfriend left her for that same girl who he was cheating with
typical, the friend always comes out badly so there is a need to be wise and stay out of it. If anything message the person anonymously.
@RasberrySlushPuppy yea teye
I'd say you better know for sure it's true and have proof. Make sure it's not just a rumor
And if you find out for sure I'd go to her and tell her you know and want to give her the chance to come clean to him or you will because it's not right to hide it.
I'd also record the conversation with her to make sure she doesn't try to make something up to break up your friendship instead.
He deserves to know. And if you don't tell him, he finds out, and he somehow finds out that you knew, he's never gonna trust you to have his back.
It's a sucky situation.
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If you are really close friends. Bring evidence, and tell him. He will not believe without evidence. Tell him I care for you and if i was in your place i would want my friend to let me know too. This is what has been going on. what you do from here is your choice.
I will tell you one thing personally. If my partner was cheating on me, no matter how much i loved her and how many kids we have. I would LOVVVVVE that I get let known by my friends who find out. and if they knew and didn't tell me I would doubt their friendship. Friends are there to look out for each other !!!
Good luck !
Anonymous note or a message sent to him from an unknown device.
Explain exactly who, what happened, where and when.
Pretend in the message that you are some random friend of the guy she cheated with.
An anonymous person just letting him know.
If they ask if it was you, deny it completely.
Don't ever tell them because they will blame you for trying to tear apart their relationship.
If she's truly cheating he may need to get a paternity test to see if he's the fatger of that baby.
You're about to unleash a shit storm so make sure you know what you're doing and that you have your facts straight.
Personally I would just run away and never talk to them again.
I'd tell my friend exactly what I do know.
I couldn't keep it a secret from her , because I'd be taking part in her partner's deceit and betrayal in an indirect way if I kept it from her
Then I'd support her no matter what decision she made
You gotta tell him. I'd want to know if it was me.
And if you don't tell them, and in 10 years she does it again and he finds out, then he'll have just wasted those years.
Tell him, and let him make his own decisions on what to do with it.
Tell him ASAP.
I don’t care if people tell me it’s not my business and I should leave it. Nah I want people to tell me if I got cheated on and I don’t care where I can. Call or message me and tell me.
I’d be very angry and hurt if people knew but never said anything to me.
So to any and everyone, if you know about cheating that’s happening, speak up.
I wouldn't want 'friends' who wouldn't tell me that my SO is cheating on me. I hate how there's still people with such good 'friends' they wouldn't even tell them if their SO is cheating. How could you live with yourselves knowing your supposed friend is being cheated on and doesn't even know it?
I would tell him without batting an eye. Because that's what friends do. I'm not gonna watch him get manipulated and smile just because he's happy.
In fact me and all my friends sort of agree on this. One of them once saw the other's girl out with another guy, without any context he called and told him, turns out he was aware (the boyfriend) but he didn't get mad because he knew it was in his best interest to be told
Any time I have ever been in this situation and I came forward and even had proof. The victim refused to believe me and doubled down on the idea that "they would never do that to me." Then they proceeded to threaten me and hurl profanities and insults my way. Its just not worth it in my opinion. Let him catch her himself.
She's already pregnant?
Are you sure it's his?
You can confront her anonymously and tell her to confess or you will hand over the evidence that you have.
If she's pregnant and messing around then it might not be his kid.
He needs to be aware of that too.
Good luck.
I wish when my first wife was cheating that someone had told me.
You need to tell him without question. Would you want to know or find out years later after she has continued to do him dirty the whole time. It’s probably best if you could get her to bust herself just don’t let it blow up in your face. Also you could try and have some evidence to show him if you can’t trip her up but be prepared for you friend to be pissed off at you. You just have to know you’re doing the right thing
I think you have to tell him, it's not a death sentence for every relationship but he needs to know. If he found out you knew and didn't tell him he's never forgive you. Also I'd question the forthcoming child, maybe it's not his?
Whoa. This is tough. Very tough. Really sucks being in this position.
Honestly I would keep quiet until he starts talking about her first. When he does ask him if he trusts her. Then tell him what you saw/heard. Say you hate being the messenger but you are telling him this out respect being a friend.
I would stay out of it because there’s a good chance that the friend would not believe me. That could then cause problems in our friendship and I could be seen as the one who’s a bad person, instead of the cheater.
I lure her out with the prospect of sex. If she’s cheating she’ll want to cheat even more. We go to the classic hook up spot. We start making out, things get hot and heavy. I then stick a knife into her throat. Severing her jugular vein. Exactly how the boyfriend asked me. I tell him the job is done and I burn her car.
Then I get paid the agreed apon amount.
Tell him, but be careful how you do it and try to have some proof. Fools in love rarely see reason. Without the right evidence, in his lovestruck mind he will make you into the enemy just to deny how hurt he will be.
Tell him but be careful how you do that. Don’t just flat out say it. You need to sit him down and talk before you can say you need to tell him something. And of course say it’ll be something difficult to hear.
Don’t just drop the bomb.
I'd tell him.
I had a girl-friend of six years send me nude pictures of herself during a drunken state, she was already in a relationship of four years though. So I told my friend about a day later that she attempted to chest (or did dependant upon what you consider to be cheating or not) with me.
Luckily I got to keep being friends with the three of them, but I'm willing to lose my friend if it means saving him from even more pain.
Stay out of it unless you want to get kicked in the teeth from BOTH sides.
See no evil, hear no evil!
Dont tell. It gets you into a mess and you'll end up losing both friends and potentially discluded from the wider network. Instead message the person anonymously or post them a letter with dates and times so they can confront the cheat.
You're 18? Your friends are fucking around? I say mind your own fucking business.
For some reason you kids think you're owed some kind of exclusivity.
And then YOU want to butt into THEIR business and relationship. SMH
I would go out to good place we both like then tell him I want to tell you something That might turn your life it's up to you if you want to believe it or not as a friend I must tell you the truth. Then tell him the truth expect he might hate you for a short time.
I would ignore it unless I want that friend as my boyfriend.
none of my fucking business
strike when the perfect time comes😈
In my experience, people hate hearing shit like that and they always shoot the messenger. So just keep it to yourself until you can gather proof and then bring it to your friend.
Do you know 100% that she has been unfaithful? What happened?
I somewhat know the guy she was with and have a pic of them being quite intimate, yeah I did some stalking too out of curiosity. When I confronted the lad he told me she has been with other dudes too... I'm not sure if I should dwell further into this or just tell him straight away with what I have right now.
Unless you can take him to where she is caught in the act don't say a word.
Tell the friend!
The truth!
Full disclosure.
Our path is easier to navigate when we have ALL the information.
I'd tell her I know she cheated and take it from there
Yeah %100 tell him. If I were him I'd like to be told no matter how painful. Finding out later would suck just as much especially if he figures out that you had this from him.
What else would you do besides tell him?
Seems like the only real moral thing to do.
Don't tell him. Would he tell your girl if he knew you were cheating on her?
That thing God only know it if his friend will do the same. There's no need for the need of the same mindset here. She's is a cheater belong to street
Have photo evidence to prove and help him get ready to lawyer up and divorce/break up with her.
How would you know unless you are the guy she cheated with? Since you don't know, don't say anything other than what you could see such as she was dancing with a guy.
Your a shitty friend if you don't tell him. If she has been cheating it might not even be his child.
I say let her know! She deserves his all, and if he won’t give his all, she deserves to know it. A guy who cheats is no gentleman!
If he is your friend you tell him. If he finds out later that you knew but kept quiet he is going to mistrust you forever.
Stay out of it or only tell what you seen don't say anything you don't know 100% don't get upset or judge him olif he lets it go
You tell him the truth, obviously. He deserves to know, and at least have a chance to choose what to do, even if he still decides to stay with her.
I'd tell him. Normally people day don't meddle in others relationships but if I see a friend of mine being disrespected then I've got their backs.
Tell your friend, but don’t be surprised if you lose that friend.
Tell him. If I was your friend I would want to know if my partner was cheating on me
Let him find out for himself. Stay out of it cause it's just going to bring problems to you.
It would be great if you had proof to show your friend but either way he needs to know.
If they're expecting a child there's a chance the other guy fathered it, which complicates matters. I'd let it go, what he doesn't know won't hurt him.
Film the whole shit and show it to him. Therefore I would have evidence and he would be pissed and I would help him get revenge.
what makes you think he'll believe you? do you have any proof? no proof? then don't bother.
I'd be inclined to tell him, directly or at least in part. Perhaps suggest to him that there are rumours and should investigate. And get a DNA test.
Gotta tell her first if you know for a fact she's cheated you have to tell her you think your friend deserves better, and you plan on telling him. Tell your friend immediately after that
If they are your fiend tell him, so he knows he's with a cheater.
'I got bad news, I broke your XBOX! Just kidding... your girlfriend's cheating on you!'
TELL HIM THE TRUTH
THEN TO LOOK INTO MGTOW
AND READ THE BIBLE VERSES ABOUT WOMEN AND TAKE IT LITERALLY
You should tell him. He deserves to know.
I would mind my own business.
Remain loyal to the friend and tell him
Throw the thot out of the window, piledriver style
Tell him asap before it's too late
It's now become your responsibly.
It's none of my business.
He is probably asshole anyway.
blackmail. don't get mad get even
Mind your business
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