My boyfriends female friend refused to acknowledge our relationship and now blocked me on social media?

[Anonymous]

This girl has constantly disrespected mine and my boyfriends relationship, she even asked him to be her date to a wedding. Months ago he cut off contact and but she kept messaging him anyway (he wasn't responding), the other night we saw her at the bar and she refused to look at us all night. After that she started trying to call him, so I got fed up and I messaged her through social media laying down boundaries. It was a bit of a harsh message but I'd never even had a conversation with the girl prior to that. After I messaged her she instantly called my boyfriend's guy best friend crying to him about my message and now has blocked me on all social media. Is it fair of me to ask my boyfriend to not try to reconcile this friendship at all since she refused to meet me before when they were still "good" friends?

[SecretsofKB]

Honestly, you shouldn't have to ask him not to reconcile. He should realize this on his own.

But yeah, I don't think there would be an issue with you asking this of him. He seems like he was doing a good job by cutting contact. He should understand your view and wishes.

[Asker]

I'm fairly certain he has. It was okay until she started calling him after she saw us, he asked her not to contact him until she acknowledged our relationship and was willing to meet with us so that she and I could actually meet

[SecretsofKB]

He seems very mature and reasonable. I don't think this girl is about to acknowledge your relationship, so I'm guessing that friendship is over.

[Dannymadness]

I think you’re totally in your rights to ask him not to reconcile. I’ve dealt with similar recently

[SalvatoreCordileone]

Get rid of socal media and you won't have that problem

[OddBeMe]

How do you treat her?

[Asker]

I've only ever met her in passing, so "Hey" were the only words exchanged and that was before my boyfriend and I were officially dating

[OddBeMe]

Sounds like she’s got the hots for your boyfriend. But that shouldn’t matter if your relationship is good. If you worry that much about your boyfriend then something else is wrong.

[Sketti2021]

Yikes she's jealous sounds like