This girl has constantly disrespected mine and my boyfriends relationship, she even asked him to be her date to a wedding. Months ago he cut off contact and but she kept messaging him anyway (he wasn't responding), the other night we saw her at the bar and she refused to look at us all night. After that she started trying to call him, so I got fed up and I messaged her through social media laying down boundaries. It was a bit of a harsh message but I'd never even had a conversation with the girl prior to that. After I messaged her she instantly called my boyfriend's guy best friend crying to him about my message and now has blocked me on all social media. Is it fair of me to ask my boyfriend to not try to reconcile this friendship at all since she refused to meet me before when they were still "good" friends?
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Honestly, you shouldn't have to ask him not to reconcile. He should realize this on his own.
But yeah, I don't think there would be an issue with you asking this of him. He seems like he was doing a good job by cutting contact. He should understand your view and wishes.
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I think you’re totally in your rights to ask him not to reconcile. I’ve dealt with similar recently
Get rid of socal media and you won't have that problem
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Yikes she's jealous sounds like
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