How do you respond to this most repetitive question, "Why are you still single"? (Page 2)
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"I want to be." Is my answer. If they push past that, then the results may vary. It depends on the nature of the relationship I have with the person asking.
When asked this in the past, my response was always "I am dating to seek a life partner, I am dating for marriage, and simply haven't met anyone worth something yet."
I am 27 and still never had a girlfriend but as you say our time hasn’t came yet, maybe soon eh?
Sometime soon! Let's wait patiently until the right time comes. ✨
I would say because I know what I want and I haven’t found the right one plus I’m happy anyway
I ignored them. They don’t ask anymore. When I meet new people I meet that’s the first question they ask.
I live in South Asia now. No one gives a shit here.
I never had a girlF no matter how hot the girl is.
I found being around the same girl.. they are extremely annoying. And I can’t tolerate them.
At this point, I tell people that I'm single because I want to be. I haven't met anyone that excites me the way my ex did and I'm not desperate.
My response to any question I do not wish to answer is
"What the phuck's it got to do with you?"
It covers a multitude of questions.
I would say my choice or there's no quality out there. I can get women but they dont bring more than vagina these days. I have noticed more girls are into pump n dump. They no more wants regular date walk at park Beach or cinema they want jump to the bed. I don't like the dating market at the moment I have met women that should go to psychologist dating market is dangerous too good guys with less experiences should avoid dating these days
I didn't like that question when asked of me, so I don't ask it of others. It's similar to the question my wife and I received when we got married, "when are you going to have kids."
Girls just aren't interested in having a nice guy for a boyfriend! They CRAVE and hunt for guys that'll beat the shit out of them and I'm not of that ilk!
What is, NBSB?
NBSB = No Boyfriend Since Birth
It’s your choices not theirs. Just remember it was your choice and when your in your 30s and can’t find someone or your alone later it was your choice so you can’t get mad at everyone else.
Because I'm short, unattractive looking, not rich, and not willing to simp my way into having a woman pretend to love me or take advantage of me for money.
I just tell people I'm busy because it's less embarrassing.
The truth is I'm still working on:
1. Clearing acne from my body.
2. Losing body fat and gaining muscle.
3. Building a career.
4. Getting out of my own head, building confidence.
I've done well with the first three, but I'm fucked in the head I think, terminally self-conscious with a side of trust issues. Basically I don't love myself, so how could I expect somebody else to?
To be fair, your story is the same as like 70% of guys out of high school and college.
Because I don't want to settle for less just to be with someone. I take love seriously and want to be happy with the partner I'm with so I don't have to start over again and again.
I have business to attend to maybe I'll fit in time after my first million, that shuts them up
I tell people its cause I have high standards and I'm looking for a very specific type of person.
I never got asked, I love it. I have a boyfriend now.
Im not desperate enough to give up all my time to someone else, im already happy. The next woman will have to make me an offer i can't refuse
Absolutely. What really matters is your perception on yourself.
Before I'd try to give a reason and support it with details. Now I just say it's none of their buisness. They wouldn't get it anyway.