What are the non-sexual things you love about the opposite sex?

Question

We have different things that we like about the opposite gender. I wanna know what are the things u adore about the opposite sex.

Assi2k · Accepted Answer

1. Their appearance. When they are healthy and in shape, boy do they drive me crazy.
2. Men all have a scent. I noticed whenever they go in a room it smells like them and that it some great shit.
3. They compliment my feminine side with masculinity.
- Me and most female I know talk a lot and I noticed men are quiet or direct in speech.
- Men I know like tangible things. Cars, computers, collectable Perfumes, sports shoes etc.
- Men like group sports. Basketball, soccer, Martial arts, video games etc
- Men don’t like being told what to do. They like being asked for help.
- Men are more chatty with other guys unless they are dating you.
- Men don’t decide based on how they feel.
4. When he likes you, even if he’s really confident, he gets all shy and thinks a lot.
5. Men are protective. They’re always trying to make sure you’re safe and happy. I think when you tell them you’re sad or something bad happened, they feel guilty. I wish they didn’t but I think it’s cute they do.
Some other stuff too but this is getting long.

MedAsianGirl · Accepted Answer

Based on my recent 5 significant dating experiences:

1. The ability to care about a girl's feelings. They can detect it when the girl has started feeling uncomfortable or unhappy.

2. Braveness/openness to admit or face what they've done wrong, what they're not good at, or their unpleasant past.

3. Genuineness. They compliment only when there is really something to compliment on. They tell a girl what exactly they like about her and what exactly the girl has done right. So that the girl can truly believe they actually like her and not just playing with her.

Have more but those 3 are my top ones. Welcome to ask or discuss the above!

Nik1hil · Accepted Answer

The silliest things that girls do..

- The way they Awee.. When they see cute stuff like kitten or puppy or a baby..

- that they secretly are willing to destroy their husband.. If it's in best interest for both of their kids..

- when they see other girl hitting on their man.. And they get angry and jealous..

- girls love making other girls jealous over things they have..

- it is Supercute when a girl is insecure and worries about her boob size.. Honey he wants to be with you... If we wanted to be with big boobs. We would marry a Buffalo she has mega boobs that produces 10 liter of milk daily..

- i love it when i see a girl stealing her man's clothing and wearing those like his hoodie or jacket..

- I just love that girls want to cuddle and massage more than have sex..

- girls scrunchie.. Is so cute.. And I just want to steal those...

Lliam · Accepted Answer

Most of all, I find their mannerisms charming. They move and act differently from men.
I like their voices.
I like their tenderness, empathy, and nurturing nature.
They seek inclusivity. For example, their way of saying they are hungry is to ask "Are you hungry."
They are open with their emotions, can smile brightly or cry when sad.
They don't come off as competitive when interacting with guys.
They are easy to talk to.
I like their attention to grooming - hair, nails and skin.
They are cuddly.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

Every guy I feel close to, whether friend or lover is honest, at least the ones that chase me.

Smoke-n-Growls · Answer

I love when a guy has a sense of humour. A really genuine one. Especially if he does puns and dad jokes (or can take my puns and dad jokes).

I also really love watching guys (and girls, let's be honest) interact with cute animals. Seeing my partner fawn over his sister's cats, over dogs we see on walks, etc, makes me super happy.

Finally, I really love when a guy has the ability to be vulnerable and understands his own emotions. It's a rare quality in anyone, but especially hard to find in men, who've been raised by generations of "men don't feel" patriarchy. Which is just... Stupid and wrong and oddly Western Puritan.

RiverUndertheSkY · Answer

I love how chill dudes are in general

with girls you have to second guess what they say and find a meaning behind their words.

but with most dudes they just say it and that’s it.

it’s refreshing :)

t-8900 · Answer

Well my likes for the female gender are exclusive to those who are in the traditional role. Not saying they have to stay home. But a woman who isn't quarrelsome and knows how to be a wife? She likes to boost her man when he's down, she knows how to run her finger nails through his hair when he's resting his head on her lap, she has a certain touch that pulls the stress right out of the body, she likes the cuddles, she's nurturing, quiet, reserved, she loves her family and children, that's what I like from a woman.

Pj1981 · Answer

Personality, what she likes to do for fun sex not included. Her personal views on life. Her kindness and empathy toward others, and what she is passionate about in life. For example my ex is so passionate about her flower garden, and the length of the grass. I enjoyed her passion for that. We had about 3.5 acres of yard and if it went a few extra days without being cut she would literally rake all of it. About 100 piles of grass to be picked up and taken to the woods. I thought she was crazy but her passion made me enjoy helping.

VTecumseh · Answer

Guys tend not to beat around the bush (pun intended) a lot, they will always get straight to the point.

For example one of my friends is dating my cousin. I asked him what happened and he told me in about five minutes. Actually I think it was less.
I asked her what happened... and I had to drive to her place... pick up some junk food... and spend 2 hours before it was even explained in her words (not including the time after that to talk about what happened).

Sometimes I think if all my friends were men, I'd probably have a LOT more free time, maybe take up some hobbies...

BeenThereLovedIt · Answer

I adore a lot of things about women, but the adoration I think is better described as envy.

You girls get to share your feelings, dress sexy in 10000 different styles. Men get none of that and shamed for any expression outside of beards, bros, beers, cars, and sports.

I envy you truthfully.

thatkendy · Answer

Man you got me thinking...
You know I would like to say I'm pansexual but I don't know what to answer here. I thought about Men. bUt I just couldn't come up with something.
I mean I can come up with one for women: Curves, thigh curves to be specific.

But men, none
now what?
I don't think that my sexuality identity crisis was your intention.

(Also I like androngyny but I can't say in words why and that is not a sex so...🤷‍♀️)

Thank you for reading my opinion. Have a nice rest of your day.

TrueConfection · Answer

I love how men are usually straight forward and uncomplicated by nature. They get a problem, they solve a problem and solving it is the reward. They get a kiss, they give a kiss and touch is the reward. Generally, men don't ask for too much from anyone and they take others at face value.

JustAnj · Answer

I love the friendship side of men, I love how they could be fighting about something and the very next minute they calm down and enjoy some beverages, play games, or watch tv.

That simplicity I always adored and they this brotherly thing I can't explain like man to man. I always loved that. ❤️ :)

KrisPW · Answer

I like me a good sheepdog. Men that care for their flock (family or friends) and will protect them if need be. A man that knows the name of the cleaning lady or maintenance man in his office or facility. I like that problems are a challenge meant to be solved. And that they can appreciate simple things in life like good food and company.

pushingrope · Answer

Women, are less likely to be insufferable incels, women are less likely to have a mentality of being "entitled" to sex/relationships and therefore are more likely to genuinely persue friendship for the sake of friendship, without harboring some secret agenda to try to convince you to cheat on your partner with them as many "men" do.

Jlegacy · Answer

I'd stick with non sexual things I love about my boo. She loves God, that rocks my heart. Her voice melts my walls. Her style and class is divine. The way she gets me without me saying anything, is heavenly.

Browneye57 · Answer

There isn't much honey. If you didn't have a vagina most men wouldn't bother talking to you. There's just not much there.
Yeah I know, they're all just pining to go shoe-shopping, or hang out at the cosmetics counter. pfft
The truth is, guys have guy friends cuz they're just a LOT more fun. Save all your incessant chatter for your girlfriends - the guys just don't want to bear it.

Hairylegs222 · Answer

Every woman is different. But some women that are nice and sweet are pleasant to be around and easy to talk to for me. I'm talking about the types of women I've met in my life that are usually smiling and being positive. Those women I adore. Women I know or known are excellent listeners and always there to talk to you or try to be there for you.

dustybiker · Answer

I like how men tend to get it out and then get over it. They don’t tend hold on to grudges very long.

Floppy2112 · Answer

I like the way girls smell. I also like to watch, just observe girls in action (not that type of action... Well yeah, that type too, but not what I am talking about). I love to observe femininity expressed.
I like that you can hug them, and squeeze them and do things with them you cannot do with a man. Mainly, it all roles into femininity, the more feminine, the more intriguing.

Ironic_Method · Answer

When Im sick guys will typically be like "oh that sucks" whereas the girls in my life will offer food, pillows, company, massages, and movies. And they tend to smell nicer.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

The often different approach to life.
their ability to look at problems and issues from a different direction
The comfort, craziness, casualness, care, the sheer fun of it.
being able to relax and be yourself.
lots more but I need coffee.

KryoAsteri · Answer

I like how there's typically less drama and petty issues with guys, girl are typically hella judgmental and ready to rip you apart at a moments notice, guys typically aren't like that and are more laid back with friendships.

Anonymous · Answer

There is nothing non-sexual that I like about being a woman, and I don't see why there would be. The only differences I see between men and women are physical strength (which I want more of so I wouldn't want to be a woman due to this) and sexual differences. Other than that, I think men and women are similar hence I have no other thing to like about women (or at least I can't imagine anything else).

Jjcatt · Answer

Just how pretty and Beautiful women are, ladies just smell better, too me ladies are like walking flowers, they just make the world look more beautiful

exitseven · Answer

They are good to talk to. Even female friends were always better to just sit and talk about all kinds of stuff.

FinalFantasyBro · Answer

The fact that women can be really friendly and not as competitive unlike most men tend to be.

Anonymous · Answer

women are much more capable of displaying emotion than men, men for the most part treat any kind of weakness with disdain and contempt while women are capable of embracing their emotions and using them as a strength

then again this is all in average, there are some on either end

Subarugirl · Answer

Attitude is one of the biggest things. Nothing is more attractive than confidence and feeling secure about ones self.  Drive and emotional maturity are also really important.

Tiptoetamm · Answer

Cuddling, camping, hiking, playing games, watching movies, going to dinner. Many things

KAT247 · Answer

The potential for a deep-conversation and connecting on a level you wouldn’t otherwise have.

VanillaSalt · Answer

The only value women have to me is sex and children.

maggie_c · Answer

I loved the way he was good with numbers... He built me an investment portfolio that gave me a 15% annual return :)

Mofunfour20 · Answer

Women are hilarious especially when she thinks she's funny. Nothing else really

This_Is_My_Opinion8 · Answer

How kind they are. They are far more empathetic then us.

Mynameisbobby · Answer

Smile, laughing putting her hair up and her shirt shows her belly and bellybutton. Cute things like that.

tomtom05131 · Answer

I love the softness of a woman’s skin, even tomboys. The shape of their bodies (thin and fuller figured). The sparkle in her eyes.

mattissebfan5 · Answer

Very caring kind people who are understanding I love

Exterminatore · Answer

*sound of wind blowing* Ummmmm…?  🤷🏻‍♂️

FatherJack · Answer

Girly giggling , my daughter , esp when her friends are round our house , it's uplifting.

GlovewithLove · Answer

Her brains. I love a good intellectual conversation.

convo_king89 · Answer

Great cooking and being creative. They can make a nice sandwhich.

Hanrej · Answer

Ehm... Well... There's... Hmm... I can't think of anything else. In my experiance I've never had any other benefits of a woman.

Anonymous · Answer

Well, a lot of girls on here insist that breasts aren't sexual. So by that definition I'll go with breasts!

Jayplays900 · Answer

About women? Their inclusiveness and general optimism.

Better_off_here · Answer

i guess i can be more comfortable with my male friends, i can talk to them about whatever i want and we are at ease spending time with each other.

Anonymous · Answer

I can't think of anything generic enough  Ah the glory of being a man with ice for a heart and absolutely zero emotions

Anonymous · Answer

The fact that it’s about the opposite sex makes it sexual. There’s nothing I can think of which would be non sexual.

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

They’re never mean, or douche clowns, or pervets, or loud, act like idiots and…………. Fan Dabby Dozy

Dorothy83 · Answer

Watch movies, go dinner, watch tv, go to the beach, sporting events.

Cft7uhvcx · Answer

Men are on earth to lift heavy stuff, open doors, be gentle and tender to me, respect me, cherish me...

Anonymous · Answer

The physical and emotional warm only a woman can give

Anonymous · Answer

Pretty much nothing tbh.  As much as men get on my nerves, I love sex way too much to find something else about them that I like. I literally can't think of anything that is non-sexual.

Anonymous · Answer

I dont know. Im trying really hard to come up with something for you... like I just don't know. Aren't we equal

readyplayer001 · Answer

their voices, the way they smile, lots of things

Somegirl408 · Answer

when they take lead, act confident and alpha

Buterflybaby · Answer

They are usually a lot stronger then me.

Wise4myage · Answer

A good sense of humor.

samael_kmarty · Answer

Understanding, motivated to do something great.

collie22 · Answer

guys can do athletic stuff thats pretty cool

Sillyboi98 · Answer

Fun and adventurous personality

alance99 · Answer

Soft voice, being girly girl

Kevhanma · Answer

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