I don't really see the problem either. I don't love the high waist look, personally, but those jeans look decent on you. I think that women should pretty much wear whatever makes them comfortable; so if you like the jeans, you should wear them. I don't think men get much of a say on the issue. That being said, if your boyfriend really hates the jeans THAT much, maybe there's a compromise where you wear skirts/dresses when he's around, or something... I don't know... I would never dream of telling my girlfriend what to wear (as long as what she wanted to wear was situationally appropriate).
They do look a little high to me also (but probably the style of jean?), however it doesn't matter what we think, all that matters is you like them. If you can't simply tell your boyfriend that without him getting upset or "mad" then there's bigger issues than your jeans here I think. Personally I'd look for a new boyfriend if he's not going to accept you the way you are and for what you want. I'd never tell my girl (if I had one lol) what to wear ever, no matter how much I didn't like it personally. Just like the woman should accept the guy and what he wants to wear.
Maybe he feels that woman who wears that reminds him of what he experienced. I say that while it is not my personal jean style and I would be uncomfortable with wearing that. It is better than looking half-naked. You need to just let him know that as an argument because he will really scream if you dressed any other way.
Like its a pretty high rise but I see absolutly nothing wrong with that
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I would never date a guy who gets angry at me for how I dress, I would consider breaking up with him.
I think normally they would be fine that high, but for your body type it accentuates the wrong parts of your body. Hope you dont take this the wrong way, you are very beautiful but you have a skinnier build, and having them that high up gives a look that has your clothes too tightly fit. I'm not explaining this very well lol sorry, but it's kinda like swimsuits where a certain style can be more unflattering for certain body types.
I really hope you don't take this the wrong way though, you are very beautiful, that trend just doesn't suit you the best in that particular photo. Perhaps a different pair of jeans would be fine to wear at that length ☺️
Tell him it's your fashion choice and you like them. You aren't going to wear low-rise jeans: You don't like them and they aren't comfortable.
Why are you worried about him getting mad? Suppose he does. Let him go to his corner and sulk. Do you order HIM to wear what YOU like? He's overstepping and you need to tell him so.
What's he going to order you to do next?
"get rid" of them all? I think they look a bit silly but comfort is more important. They don't look too bad in my opinion, I think it's just a trend thing, it can come and go. Maybe you can make something work out, but you shouldn't get rid of your jeans.
They are YOUR jeans, and if they are comfortable to you, keep them and wear them. They aren't his and he doesn't have to wear them. Go with what is most comfortable. It would be ridiculous to go replacing ALL of them, unless of course they became too small or big too wear.
They look fine to me. Flattering. WTf with these dudes on this site I have no idea. Maybe you could just get new jeans from your boyfriend, keep the old ones and switch them hem off different days. Srsly. Sounds a little bit off with getting worked up about the waist
@uclagirl8 if they are comfy then tell him not to worry about it since he doesn't have to wear them. Hi early he probably just wants you to wear low rise jeans just so he can see your hips better of something or that he can wrap his hands around your waist easier.
Why have you edited this picture beyond recognition? Your waist and arms are covered in jagged editing lines.
Post the original one if this is a legitimate question and maybe you'll receive some honest answers rather than begging for attention.
I would let him buy you new jeans😜 never say no to new jeans!
Why doesn’t he like it?
The best time to talk about something you don’t agree with os when he is in a good mood then bring it up in a playful matter. Explain to him it fits your body type.
Bad job editing the picture... the editing lines are clearly visible. Own your body. Nobody is going to body-shame you. Don't edit your pictures just to get compliments or if you want honest review on your question.
any guy that controls their girls clothes is cringey. i love high waisted jeans as it just defines our waists so much better than those low rise butt crack jeans. if he diesnt like it, too bad so sad tell him to wear shorter socks
They do look a bit high. I don't mean to sound rude, but I think your boyfriend wants you to get rid of them because they look really tight and uncomfortable. Maybe try wearing low-wasted jeans just for one day and see how it goes. Good luck<3
For me that is one of the most beautiful looks ever I think they're perfect if I was him I would not complain at all. And if I was him I would be walking around turned on all day long you are beautiful and sexy my gosh
Tell him to fuck off.
that is far too controlling.
if you are happy with them, then wear them.
if you want a short kilt, ripped jeans etc etc, your choice not his.
you look fine
Sheesh, you look like a clothed toothpick!
Not kink shaming your boyfriends bone fetish, but I can see why he doesn't like the shape those jeans give you.
Maybe just wear something different around him, else get a different boyfriend?
I mean, Jesus, has he not got anything more to worry about?
They're fine. You have a great figure. People evidently struggle to see anything remotely outside of the norm.
It's your body and you choose what to wear. Try to make him understand how they make you feel comfortable
High waisted jeans are not for very body type by the way
I don't dislike it... But it kinda does go a little high lmao-Tell him it doesn't change anything it's not like you're wearing a short skirt or anything-like it's not provocative so i don't see the big deal
YOUR waist, YOUR jeans YOUR choice
... make a deal with him, you'll change jeans when he starts wearing button front jeans
or switches to 'banana slings' underwear! LOL!
Get rid of that guy ! Nobody shud tell you how to dress for yourself! Even I like high waisted jeans sissy ! It’s comfy !
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