Why did he wait until it was too late to confess his love for me what should I do now?

[Anonymous]

he's getting married next year and recently his girlfriend got pregnant now he suddenly confessed he wish he could have me I feel hurt

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Ummm he's getting married and is having a baby with someone else... If he really loved you, you'd be the one he's marrying and having a baby with... What should you do now? Move on.. Why would you want someone that's getting married and has someone else pregnant yet telling others he loves them? Sounds like a real POS person

[Asker]

I lived abroad for many years and only just talked to him last October again. Tbh I was just chatting I didn't expect a big confession like that

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

I wouldn't take much stock in that confession... Again he's not leaving her to be with you is he? Anyone can say they love you, don't make it true. Actions speak way louder and more true.. His actions aren't the actions of a man in love with you

[Asker]

Well you would never seek out others if you truly loved them. Considering they have only dated not even 4 years.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Why do you care so much? Sounds like you're the one who's in love with him.. Oh I agree he probably don't love her either. My whole point was why would you care about a confession from someone that would do that to a woman? He's engaged and expecting a child yet telling someone else he loves them. You should be happy it's not you in that situation.

[Asker]

It happens a lot in my town tho I was just interested talkkng about it all. I just dont understand people that do these big things you know

[Asker]

While they aren't quite sure

[OlderAndWiser]

Hurt? You should feel lucky! What if YOU were the pregnant girlfriend and he was confessing his love for someone else?

[Asker]

I dont think he's going to tell her but why get married in the first place he should of waited longer

[OlderAndWiser]

Why did he get her pregnant when he's in love with someone else? This guy is very immature!

[Asker]

I'm sure they have a happy marriage

[OlderAndWiser]

Stay tuned!

[OlderAndWiser]

But. . . you are feeling hurt, aren't you?

[Asker]

Not much I can do now but I do feel extremely confused at the moment

[Wester1967]

Let him go. He now has the responsibility of a kid. He needs to go take care of that

[Asker]

I'm sure he's got a happy marriage

[Hangry06]

He just wanted to get it out of his system

[Asker]

he's an old friend from highschool 10 years ago. Last year we recently rekindled and talked a few times

[Asker]

he's shy and takes awhile to say things. He told me tonight his feelings

[Hangry06]

Maybe he meant his feelings from back. Not now

[Parad0xlol]

Well now that he is safe and secure... Why not get a chic on a side?

[KrakenAttackin]

Classic, she "accidentally" got pregnant.

[Asker]

I lived abroad for many years and I decided to catch up with an old highschool friend last October... I didn't expect a confession like this

[KrakenAttackin]

Asker. It's likely he is just feeling the weight of becoming a Dad and husband. Also, she might be a "psycho" pregnant girl, they are insufferable.

[Asker]

I dunno he's said a number of times he wished he could have me and he will be jealous of my next boyfriend

[KrakenAttackin]

Asker. Well, he has a few big wakeups coming.

[Asker]

Yeah he will probably ghost me when it all comes around. I have no clue what's going on

[KrakenAttackin]

Asker. He needs to cut ties with you and focus on his new baby and (probably) psycho fiance.

[Asker]

he's been obessed with me for the last 2 years. I actually distanced my just 8 weeks ago apparently I heard from a friend he was stalking my facebook.

[KrakenAttackin]

Asker. I feel for the guy, he is obviously not happy and feeling trapped.

[Asker]

🙈🙈 I know. she's much older than him she's like 34 and he's only 29. Maybe she's been nagging for all that stuff

[KrakenAttackin]

I would bet my next check the pregnancy was no "accident".

He is in a really shitty situation and his marriage is probably doomed.

[Asker]

Obviously something is going on you would never do this to someone you love. They have only been together 4 years this November

[Asker]

she's definitely got baby fever.

[KrakenAttackin]

Asker. At 34 many women are looking for "anyone" not "the one". He has been relegated to sperm donor, ATM, man slave. I have seen this so many times.

[Asker]

They sometimes post online like they are the perfect couple. This is one thing I just dont understand. I have no clue what's going on. Today he was sending selfies of himself and telling me he wishes he could have me. Constantly asking if I'm single every couple of weeks

[KrakenAttackin]

Asker.. this is the big toxic lie of social media.

[Asker]

Ya nobody life is polished like they make out

[Asker]

I'm sure he has a happy marriage

[drakethibault1]

That means he wants to cheat on her with later.

[Sketti2021]

Ask him