Should I forgot him or wait longer him?

[sanyaranjan]

there is a guy from my old school whom I barely know but he knows me like almost all my old memories both of us started flirting especially he, he use to talk to me very nicely and he use to treat me very well them one day he suddenly popped up with heart emoji and indirect message that he have feelings for me in the common school friends group and I keep avoiding him but once I got serious he was like let's talk tomorrow and later and he didn't message me next day and started ignoring me and them I asked in why are you doing so you are in my mind I keep thinking about you and all he said it's great and I will talk to you in night and not to my surprise he didn't reply so, now we don't talk to each other. What should I do it's hard to forget this guy but this guy is not even trying to do some effort

[ArztSchlachthof]

Don't wait. Never. People are just like that, if you don't have luck, they will simply make your life worse. If it's hard for you to ditch him, try writing a poem, learning a new language, study a new philosophy (stoicism is great), get new hobbies et cetera. Just work on something, that is the best doctor. Avoid love songs, sad atmospheres, try having cold showers and don't masturbate. I am in with you, this is helping me... kinda, it's still pretty bad occasionally 😉

[sanyaranjan]

You know what is worst that, if I don't message him he would message me himself like why are you not reply me even after seeing my messages, and he would try to talk to me and I go with flow and end up replying him, although know he had reduced the flirting with me but still he shows he cares for me a lot. This guy is totally confused about his feelings and so he is doing with me

[ArztSchlachthof]

When a girl was into me and I told her it's not gonna advance in any romantic way, she started to act like a stray hound. Messaging me about how it was good last night to have sex with some random guy she met etc. I simply told her to never contact me again and blocked her everywhere - "Out of sight, out of mind", as the Latin proverb goes. I generally don't have a problem ignoring people, but if you do, just block him without telling him why. Or tell him that you are tired

[Aassem]

You should forget him, he's not the same guy who used to pursue you anymore. Clearly his interest has shifted away from you. You should willingly shift your interest away as well. I know it's a sucky situation because you were kinda tricked, but these things happen and you gotta be resilient enough to move on and be happy, the best is yet to come.

[sanyaranjan]

Thank you

[kidvid80]

he makes no effort you dont want someone like that in your life. there are good guys out there just open your heart and let go of this clown, it will be hard but you will get through it, we have all been there. take it as a lesson of how and what you are willing to tolerate and how you should be treated, you just want communication you aren't asking for the world and he doesn't wanna provide it, forget him

[sanyaranjan]

You 100% right, this stupid person is so damm confused that he himself don't know what do to, he himself come to me and now he is behaving like a clown who don't have any idea what he is doing. I definitely don't want a person who can't express his own feelings and can't even say yes or no
Anyway thank you

[kidvid80]

you are very welcome

[Wise4myage]

I was gonna say just remain his friend and see what happens, but he sounds like a clown who doesn't know what he wants. So move on and forget about him.

[In_Trance]

Forget him

[sanyaranjan]

Thank you

[tang70]

id wait a little longer.. ok

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Move forward.

[sensible27]

Maybe he's nervous?

[Iron_Man]

MoveOn

[FEARLESSHERO]

Forget him

[Anonymous]

I can totally relate to the pic😔