Shall I forget about him or tell him?

[Anonymous]

I met this guy a few years ago and we immediately became friends and we’re very similar in many ways. At that time we were both in relationships but I was unhappily married with a new baby. He became single and told me he had feelings for me, I explained that I was married and yes it was difficult but I needed to try and work through it for my daughter and basically wasn’t honest with him about the strong feelings I already had for him. Fast forward 2 years I’m now single but he has just started dating someone. I cannot stop thinking about him even though I haven’t seen him for over 6 months and I feel like I need to tell him that I felt what he felt too and it wasn’t just him but also I want him to be happy and don’t want to ruin what he might have with this new girl so I haven’t said anything. So should I tell him how I feel or just leave him to move on with her even though it’s killing every single day? (This is a little “out there” for non spiritual people but I really think he is my twin flame) I’m stuck between what I want and what’s best for him🤷🏼‍♀️😞

[Anonymous]

It's understandable that you're feeling conflicted about whether to tell this person how you feel. However, it's important to consider the potential consequences of sharing your feelings with him.

If he is currently in a new relationship, it's important to respect his boundaries and not interfere with that relationship. Telling him how you feel could potentially complicate his current relationship and cause him unnecessary stress or guilt.

On the other hand, if you feel that you need to express your feelings in order to move on, you could consider telling him in a respectful and non-threatening way. You could explain that you understand he is in a new relationship and that you don't want to interfere with that, but that you felt it was important to be honest about your feelings.

The decision is up to you, but it's important to keep in mind the potential consequences and to approach the situation with sensitivity and respect for his boundaries. It's also important to prioritize your own emotional well-being and to take steps to move on and find happiness, whether that involves telling him how you feel or not.

[HateyouxD]

Nah sis you missed outttttt
Don't ruin a good thing please just move on. As bad as I want you 2 to work it isn't right. Only if he was single and now you. Or you can tell him your single and just saying hi. Now ball is in his court but don't make him stray

[Mariena_Anne92]

Wish him all the best and move on maybe. U were unhappy with your relationship yet u continue. And he finally move on and start fresh. Why wanna ruin it for him.