How can I become more secure?

[Anonymous]

I am extremely insecure with myself.
I doubt everything my boyfriend says to me. I trust people I shouldn't more than my own man.
I'm not secure with myself and I want to change that. What can I do?

[On_cloud_wine]

Plastic surgery

[Asker]

I'm not all the insecure with my looks. I want to be happy inside

[On_cloud_wine]

Why aren’t you happy?

[Asker]

I believe others are better than me, look wise, intelligent wise, psychically wise... I think so low of myself for some reason

[On_cloud_wine]

You just said you don’t feel insecure about your looks.

[Asker]

I'm saying plastic surgery wouldn't work for me. I dont need it. I am beautiful but when other pretty girls are around that's when I get insecure

[On_cloud_wine]

I’m around girls more beautiful than me but I’m a lot nicer than some of them and I avoid gossip.. I think that’s why people like me. Just work on your personality and with everything you do, do it out of love. Bond with God.. read books, make yourself more interesting. Learn something new. Master something. Be passionate about something and stop comparing yourself to others or you’ll be miserable for the rest of your days.

[On_cloud_wine]

thanks for MH hope I helped a bit.. sorry for sounding so feisty, lol