Is the person a fail/ damaged good? Or a slim chance in dating & serious commitments again?
Do you think 31 is too young to get divorced in life?
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matters on context tbh. If they are beating you, cheating on you, sending you death threats or something you need to be gone! Those are the three ways I see a divorce being legit but also if they don't follow this code right here:
"Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her" If he's not doing that it's kinda like breaking the contract too... maybe. You might not be Christian and that's all well and good. Just sharing from my perspective not knowing if you are one. But... no one should have to live in misery over someone selfish, violent, or disloyal. I hope my one marriage is my only marriage and I hope it works out. Take care. I wish you well.
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Lmao, not for women these days. It's typical.
I'm sure that if you are hot enough you will find nice guys who want to commit but they may not be the sort that you want to commit to.
Sad reality is some men will see you as DG because you walked out on your husband so why wouldn't you walk out on them? Especially if you had any kids with your ex-to-be.
If there was abuse or something similar at play that is another matter but past divorce to many men is a red flag if you want to get married again because no guy wants to be ex-husband number 2 after the starter husband.
No, absolutely not. The faster you get divorced, the better. There is no "right" or "wrong" age to get divorced. There is still some amount of stigma surrounding divorce in some countries, but if you are not in love with your partner, or if it is not working out, I highly suggest you file for a divorce. Its better to be happy single than be miserable together. Don't let others opinions influence your decision. Divorce is a big thing, do it if you want to.
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divorced people date and get remarried, nothing damaged about your situation if you getta divorce- sometimes in life something has ran its course and is not meant to be forever but just temporary.
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Age and whether or not you have kids with someone will determine your ability to have another long term partner much more than if you are divorced or not.
If you know the relationship isn't working, ending it sooner rather than later is better. - 5.2K opinions shared on Relationships topic.
It is not too young. Some people get married before they should. People change a lot from the time they are18 to when they turn 30. They can become different and the couple can grow apart.
Divorce it a tough thing to go through. Let yourself off the hook. Don't get into the mindset that you are damaged or deficient. - 5.5K opinions shared on Relationships topic.
Not at all. If you are in a bad marriage, get out now. Why waste your life in an unhappy marriage? Your prospects for a new partnership will be better the sooner you are back dating.
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20s and 30s seem too young to divorce but shit if it dont work and you’ve given your all to make it work, so be it
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You are not a failure or damaged goods! I was divorced by the age of 25, and I'm better off for it, though I didn't realize it at the time. You are worthy of having someone truly love you, and that can be found.
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I think you need to stop listening to crusty doomers and wannabe playboys. If you’re being abused or children are or you’re being cheated on there is no shame in getting out.
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There is no good or bad, right or wrong age to get a divorce. If you both tried your best to make it work but it just isn't happening, then it's time to cut yourself free
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Depends on what you plan to do next. Marry again or take care of yourself or maybe stay single and achieve your goals
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If your life is miserable than there is no age specific to get divorced. Faster the better.
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sooner the better i say, and no your not getting half lol
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No... I had two before I was 24
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Better late than never
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the sooner the better
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If you're not happy, let him go.
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All depends on circumstances obviously
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Nope I don’t
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Nope
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