Guys, would you break up with your girl if she takes long showers/ uses out your shampoo / snorts and a bugger mistakenly lands on you?

[Anonymous]

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Anyone?

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He said i can't come back to his house, plus he lost his job and hardly has any money coming in.

[bones_20]

Did someone break up with you over these things?

[Asker]

Yes.

[bones_20]

Well this is an odd situation. Honestly I think that you’re better off without this type of person. Sounds like he still has a lot of growing up to do.

[Asker]

I read it as him breaking up with me, he didn't tell me he did, just not to come by his house anymore.

[bones_20]

Well now I’m confused. First you say he did break up with you, now you say he didn’t?

[Asker]

I read it as he broke up wirh me without saying so.

[bones_20]

Well you can’t just make these assumptions. You have to talk to him about it.

[Jamie05rhs]

Is that what you did?

[Asker]

Yes.

[Jamie05rhs]

Oh, wow. Well, I don't think that was enough for him to break up with you. That's a little harsh. I'm sorry that happened to you.

I guess the only thing I would say in the future is to offer to buy someone more shampoo if you use theirs.

[Asker]

He didn't say he broke up with me, i just thought of it as that. He said im not allowed over by his house anymore. Plus he has no money.

[Jamie05rhs]

Hmm. Well, were you previously seeing him anywhere else besides at his house?

[Asker]

Yes, we hang out at the beach and other places.

[Asker]

But he wanted to spend more time wirh me at home. Now he doesn't.

[Jamie05rhs]

Was he saying it seriously or was he saying it jokingly?

[Asker]

Seriously.

[Jamie05rhs]

Hmm. I guess he was really offended? It seems like a bit of an overreaction to me, though.

[Jamie05rhs]

I have a question: why do you need to go over to his house to take a shower? Why can't you take a shower at your own house?

[Asker]

I do shower at my house, but id be over by his house for a while. And sometimes i even sleep over by him. So i end up taking a shower over by him.

[Jamie05rhs]

Okay. I see.
Well, can you go over there but just not use his shower?

[Asker]

Yeah. But id smell bad before going out in the morning if i dont.

[Asker]

He said he is very annoyed and turned of because of what happened. Does it mean we broke up?

[Asker]

Off*

[Jamie05rhs]

Who says you have to spend the night there? Just hang out during the daytime.

[Jamie05rhs]

I don't know for sure whether you're officially broken up or not. But there's definitely an issue between you.

[Asker]

He said we can hang at the beach, that includes having sex there... -__-

[Jamie05rhs]

Ok. Let me ask you something: Every time you hang out, do you feel like he needs to have sex?

[Asker]

Nope, not everytime. Only when we both agree to have sex.

[Jamie05rhs]

Okay. That's good.

But I guess you're not thrilled about having sex at the beach with him?

[Wise4myage]

No, Id shower with her, lol.

[Asker]

Even if ur broke with no money coming in?

[Wise4myage]

Sure!!