How many times would you say you’ve been in love?

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how many times would you say you’ve been in love?

Máiiréad · Accepted Answer

I'm unsure. I don't feel confident in saying "Yes! Absolutely!". He and I don't really talk much anymore as he decided to basically delete all his social media except like one (and I primarily communicate with people with social media... and we just kinda stopped talking). I never really dated anyone. This was a friend. I can say that I deeply cared about him but didn't realize it till a few years later. I tend to be in denial when it comes to feelings like that (defense mechanism). I know the most random facts about him. Certain words and foods remind me of him, even songs. I don't know.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I’d say maybe 3 times. I had loved one kid when I was 15-17, but we weren’t very mature or had a future planned, I still loved him so much.
I loved another when I was 18-19, I loved him more than anything. Loved him so much that it hurt me.
I am in love with my boyfriend right now, I love him dearly. I hope he will be my last love ❤️

John1972 · Accepted Answer

It would be easy to say at least three or
Four times but that is what people say who have never felt the depth of what true love really is. We may have felt we were in love but most of us have only been infatuated or in puppy love. It’s only when you fall head over heels, completely, passionately, and wholeheartedly in love that you realize the others where not true love

Joshua_L_Blackmon · Accepted Answer

thank you for proving that love is possible more than once. , surprised that 5+ times is greater than 4.. is 4 the sweet spot where you just never needed to find another lol.. one for me. and close a lot of other times

Un-stop-p-able · Answer

I've never been in love because of these losers. How could they be punished enough for me to be satisfied I don't know they ruined my life for 41 years, how they're gonna repay that with a punishment it doesn't seem like it could happen. Punishments don't make me happy. Unless I'm personally doing it.

AviatorTom · Answer

You know, guys fall in love much quicker than girls do. I've probably been in love 6 or 7 times, 4 or 5 times with girls I was dating (the relationship typically lasted a few months and then ended), once with my ex-wife and once with my current SO.

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

I fall too easily, or used to... not so much anymore. Despite my best efforts it just happened sometimes.

Daniela1982 · Answer

Anyone who says that they haven't been in love at one time is lying to their self.

ArchivalMars2 · Answer

So far in my life, I would say twice maybe at most. I don't really find very many girls that I could say I've ever been in love with really, kind of hard to fall in love nowadays.

AllieAnswersThings · Answer

And of course it ended in flames and heartbreak lol

kumaradit · Answer

Say it at least 5 times a day.  Say,  I'm in love with myself.  I'm in love with God.  I'm in love with my family.  I'm in love with those who love me.  I'm in love with my work.

Pummel · Answer

Once... And I have not been in another relationship since ( no dating or relations either, but I had other problems also)

Seangreen · Answer

3 total once as a teenager twice as an adult and that last time really broke me. it's hard To see myself falling for somebody again it's going to be difficult I know that

Xtcy2083 · Answer

I've lost count. Somewhere between twenty and thirty times.

Brittanyroseee · Answer

Twice! First, highschool love Second, toxic love

jessicake · Answer

Once and that’s all I need because I think I found my person

mobiusforniner · Answer

I've used those three special words for only four people in my life. And I meant it.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't even know what love is really. There was one relationship that I really hated to see end. Maybe that was love. Now I'm happily married but it's not quite the same feeling.

MelonSoda · Answer

Probably never, but maybe just this one time I might be

Hairylegs222 · Answer

None. Been in relationships but unfortunately haven't found that one woman for me yet. All disappointments so far.

breathtaker · Answer

I thought I loved my wife. It wasn't til we separated that I realised that I just loved the sex and using her body for my pleasure. If I'm honest we had very little in common and I felt lonely. So sex became a major part of the relationship.

SAMI_DABBAB · Answer

One time, may God protect her and give her all she wants

Clayaya · Answer

I’ve never actually been in love just unhealthy attachments and trauma bonds. I want to experience that one day.

linka_pat307 · Answer

I only crush but it actually strong crush than love, it makes mi do crazy things than that of love

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

Way too many times, but never got to the point where one became a girlfriend

boobliker · Answer

2 may be 3 the others were LUST. it better than love sometimes.

Paul09 · Answer

I never had the chance. And I thought it was reserved for 1 person.

TsAubreyKate · Answer

Never I don’t feel anything anymore I’m dead emotionally and that’s okay 😑

Elisabeth1985 · Answer

Twice an ex girlfriend. And falling for current one.

Bluemax · Answer

5 times. One of them said "I do."

Chrysanthee · Answer

Never been in love but this was close

IAMNathanael · Answer

Zero. I don't think I've ever fallen in love

Vesuvius87 · Answer

Once and I was very naive

FreyaRed · Answer

One time and I find it's enough for this life.

FictionalCharacter · Answer

I get easily attached to strangers

sensible27 · Answer

♪but i don't know what love means♪

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I would say 2 times for me

exitseven · Answer

threee times. the third time was the charm.

poneglyphs · Answer

Uhh zero times 🥺🥺☹☹

Sorue · Answer

I am at three so far!

altdbob · Answer

In love, maybe once In lust, everyday

Anonymous · Answer

Twice (if you count one sided love)

MissingSummer · Answer

Only once. It's been a while.

DiegoO · Answer

In romantic love, 1 time.

TexasRed95 · Answer

I only selected 1 because 0 wasn't an option.

Cubus · Answer

Once. Sadly she didn't love me back.

OddBeMe · Answer

1 (Checks for wife) 4

najekim · Answer

About 10 times if I remember correctly.

Guardian45 · Answer

It can be the BEST or WORST thing EVER!

Aurora1010 · Answer

Two times

TheAfrikan · Answer

Am not sure about that.

J3LueMooN · Answer

real one  dream more fan :D

Better_off_here · Answer

one but it did not last long enough.

Nikki1989 · Answer

3 times.

jimmy2 · Answer

It lasted 36 years one month and five hours

Laciandmaci · Answer

none yet

Heartache0405 · Answer

Never

Miristheiss · Answer

Two times.

ellEyeInnKay · Answer

2 too many.

zoe2187 · Answer

Twice.

ChiTown33 · Answer

F. Zero

Hangry06 · Answer

Zero🥳

Danny_dan92 · Answer

3 times

Layafell · Answer

2 times

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