Boyfriend lies to me that he deleted his Badoo account but he's still on it and messaging random girls?

[Anonymous]

I created a fake account on Badoo and he sent me like a request thing i didn't have profile photo yet. I want to make him tell me the truth I have a proof and plan on message with him and maybe show him that his account is very much active. I just don't know how to confront him so he won't get angry and lie to me again. A friend of mine told me to message him offer to meet with him in person but i don't know about that. Can you give me advice please if there are people who have been in the same situation what did you do?

[Adam_DoesArt]

Your friends idea seems pretty clever, but seems like a lot more work, than I'd be willing to put into this. Suppose it depends how much he means to you, but I wouldn't put up with it, myself. I personally, would confront him, and end it with him. Of course, your situation may make this a little more complicated, especially if you have kids with him, who knows.

I'd just take screenshots of his profile, and the like he sent you, so you can prove to him, that you know he's still active there. Confront him with the evidence, and then break things up. Move on to someone else, who won't treat you, like you're disposable. Just my opinion, of course. Good luck. 👍

[Asker]

I tried to confront him month ago it didn't go well i had a proof then as well. I had pictures of the chat but he denied it all fist said it's not him then said that it's an old account even tho the messages were from like few days ago. So I am aware that he manipulatively denied it all and started crying and got depressed that he doesn't want anyone else he said and that he wouldn't do such a thing. Of course I did not believe a word he said.

[Adam_DoesArt]

Oh man. Okay, well at this point I don't know what to say. That's starting to sound almost psychotic, crying, while lying about something that he's just been caught doing... I don't get it.

No one deserves to be treated like that, or to then be gaslit about it right after. Unless you want to continue reliving this same sequence of events, and wasting more time, I'd suggest running for the hills, and don't look back, lol.

[Wise4myage]

Take your friends advice, or send him a fake pic and see if he takes the bait, then bust him if he does.

[Anonymous]

Message him then send him a picture of yourself. Caption it busted.