Do most people in relationships settle while the minority find ‘true love’?

[Anonymous]

[Kiran_Yagami]

Yes, but there's nothing wrong with that. The concept of "true love" is mostly a fairy tale. Some people fall wildly in love and can maintain that for decades. Most won't or can't. Love shouldn't be the priority anyways, because like all emotions it changes with the seasons. You keep around people who contribute to your life and you cut out people who are a detriment to it. You also take whatever people contribute to your life and give back double. Questions.

[Anonymous]

I think so too!





Many of my friends simply accept the first guy that showed interest in them because they don’t have other options and don’t want to be left on the shelf. They don’t even love the guy and they keep saying stuff to convince themselves like if you spend enough time with him you will love him.


Ah but after looking for so many years, I dk if true love exists. And I will prolly be a crazy cat lady 20 years down the road.

[Anonymous]

Yes, I’m sure that’s the case. Most people can’t handle being ”alone”/single and seem desperate to have a partner. It’s appears to be of less importance if said partner is actually right for them and they can really truly see a life together with them and are prepared to put in hard work to make it work for the rest of their lives. Hence all these break ups, divorced people, people in new relationships shortly after the previous one failed and so on.

[Leonharted]

As a guy who loves his wife more than his own life, there's no such thing as "true love." It takes work and sacrifice, no matter what.

[Asker]

I’m fully aware of that. But I’m talking about that rate chemistry you have with someone straight off the bat.

[Asker]

*rare

[badboy-hey]

If you could be completely yourself with someone then most probably you would be okay to settle down with them instead of wandering around for true love.

[Kaneki05]

I would assume so.