Could you have a relationship with someone who is in their 20s but looks WAY younger?

Question

This is Shauna Rae. She is 22 years old but obviously looks considerably younger. What kind of a relationship could you have with a person like her? And if you are a straight female, answer if you could be with a very young looking man.

zeitgeist057 · Accepted Answer

This was a pretty tough one, but in the end, I said F, I'd go for it at least give her a chance. From the video she seems really cool, and wants to have a fun adult life, so I would be down to "go out on the town" and respect her like the adult she is. She's pretty cute, actually, and you can tell in the video she's different than a kid just trying to act like an adult, you can see her 22 year old attitude shining through. It's lame when people treat others different based on appearances even though it happens all the time. Actually, she's in a unique position she could do all kinds of fun stuff that you can't do anymore when you're obviously an adult based on looks, so I think it would be cool to focus on the positive aspects rather than the negative.

It's a very interesting situation, and I was wondering all kinds of things like with her condition if she's stuck in a kid body, doesn't alcohol affect her more like it would a kid or is it more her organs are like adult organs? I guess she doesn't have to worry about it stunting her growth, but if she is smoking with kid lungs that seems like even more dangerous than with fully developed lungs.

Could you have a relationship with someone who is in their 20s but looks WAY younger?

Again, this was hard because she looks so young, and it's sad she has had such a hard time in the dating scene I can only imagine. There's a certain point and I don't know, maybe going on a date I would realize it's too much for me, but I'd at least give her a chance.

Shortman70 · Accepted Answer

If I was closer to her age, I would not have a problem with it, if she would want to date me. We're are looking at this the wrong way, like she couldn't find anyone else and we have to rescue her. When the truth is she probably wouldn't have anything to do with us. As a society of idiots we treat people judging on their appearances instead of their character. Instead of pity we need empathy.

sage2021 · Accepted Answer

I have a medical condition that keeps me looking about 15 years younger than my chronological age. I have 'baby soft' skin (guys love it!). I am 67 and don't have gray hair and no wrinkles. My hair looks like it did in highschool. When I was 35 years old, I would have guys that were 18 years old hitting on me, because I looked 20ish. She may have a medical condition that she is not aware of. An endocrinologist could tell her if she has a medical condition.

Subarugirl · Accepted Answer

That poor thing will attract a lot of creeps and people with pedophilic interest. There is enough of that out there, I couldn't imagine the shit she has to deal with looking like a prepubescent child as an adult.

Satyromaniac · Answer

Her story has moved me, I wish I was a decade younger and not taken already... to be with someone so special like her... What matters to me is her heart and her character,

If she has a heart full of love, kindness and compassion...

If her character is that of a noble person, someone with good morals, with a sense of justness, and self-confidence

Physical shortcomings can be worked out

Also beauty is only skin deep

So attraction matters, so if she falls for /loves/is attracted someone like me (I'm 5'10 tall) I'd go to any length to keep her with me until death

Going around publicly with her won't matter to me, I'd build her a new home with her height in mind so she doesn't have to depend on anyone and would be able to do everything herself...

HighValue · Answer

Maybe if she looked like she was in her teens from her face, but I have no interest in being with someone like in that video. She still sounds like a little kid and is too small. The tattoos and drinking alcohol ruin people of any age for me, but there is just no way I'd want someone like in that video. It would seem too creepy to me.
I never heard of her before, but it seems like she will have a sad life.

ZackBan · Answer

My man Hasbulla would love her!

But in all seriousness she does sound very fun to be around but the body of an 8 year old does make me raise an eyebrow, she didn't even have puberty. I know she's technically 22 but the reason legal age is set so high is for people to be both physically and mentally formed so dating her is similar to dating somone in a wheelchair it requires the willingness to havs an unusual relationship and i don't think I'm capable of that.

Citizenkirk · Answer

Michael j fox was playing 17-year-old Marty McFly when he was in his mid to late 30s and Ralph macchio was either in his late 20s or early series when he was playing 16-year-old karate kid. It seems that they have no choice but to find someone who is willing to date a younger looking older guy

Anonymous · Answer

I had a friends with benefits, a few years ago, When i was 20

she was 27. And looked like she was 16 -17. At most,

Short, Skinny, Blonde.

When my dad met her once, He pulled me asside and was like. What the fuck are you doing?

he knew i was banging her.

i told him, Dad chill, she's older than i am. she's like 27.

he started laughing, looked at me with a smirk, Looked at her, And just shook his head,

chapawapa · Answer

Yea... just the feeling that they are with could signal pedophile tendencies. Definitely wouldn't trust anyone who was ok with it from. the get go... it would suck to look 13 when an adult.

FakeName123 · Answer

I reckon it would be hilarious to see peoples reactions when you date a girl that looks like a child but isn't. Looking younger is good. Looking like a child isn't, though.

Madhatter920 · Answer

Yeah, if we got along, sure. I don't care too much. It's a temporary problem.

doopayo · Answer

No. She looks like a child, that’d be hard to look past

Staximus · Answer

I think if you were treating her like your girlfriend in public, everybody would be trying to kick your ass or call the police. I don't need those kind of problems.

InferiorElegy · Answer

I want to say yes because I've never even been on a date but I'm going to say no because I don't want to be seen anymore like a creep than females already treat me like I am.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

My exgf looked young asf but was 20. Just really short and thin. didn't bother me at all and nobody every really said anything.

DanielBlack1904120 · Answer

I couldn't just cause knowing she isn't a child doesn't change the fact that she looks like one. I just wouldn't able to get past that mentally. I would chill & be friends but that's all

jshm2 · Answer

Actually she looks like a 40's midget.  You need to get your eyes checked, kiddo.

BobbyC65 · Answer

I couldn't at all. Mainly because everyone would always assume my date is a child. I couldn't deal with that.

loveslongnails · Answer

At my age, she'd have to be well into her 20's, but if she looks like she's 12, that would be tough. LOL

exitseven · Answer

I picked B because it shows that smoking does indeed stunt your growth.

DiegoO · Answer

And I look some years older. We just wouldn't match. She would be better off with someone who resemble her youthfulness.

boobliker · Answer

A full and loving one to start age is just a number

Anonymous · Answer

Men love that, girls don't like younger-looking guys. They like rugged-looking men more, with eyebags, scars on the face, full beard. I look young than my age and it's really a problem.

dolemite89 · Answer

i don’t think i could get turned on id if feel like a pedo and be too creeped out 😂

Anonymous · Answer

Yes but i would never date a female who does stripper fit or thinks being a hoe is ‘fun’

Anonymous · Answer

Is it just about her younger looks or is she short as a kid too?

Kaneki05 · Answer

I wouldn't date anyone below 5ft nvm below 4.

Jerre · Answer

I voted F. I would date her.

nawtee_me · Answer

She is a confident girl, I like that...

Luopio27 · Answer

Im 36. Too old for 20 year olds.

ImRetarded · Answer

Nah that's kinda sus if someone does.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I don't think I could; sorry.

ChefPapiChulo · Answer

wow thats really mean.

lovey44 · Answer

At my age, 52! Probably not.

KlinkyCoder · Answer

I have experienced that with my ex-girl.

Darksign · Answer

No she resembles a child I couldn't

msc545 · Answer

She looks like a child. I couldn't do it.

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

Honestly, no.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah good height for a bj 😁

MTguy406 · Answer

The sex would be amazing.

melanieeeB · Answer

Nope

emperor90 · Answer

Yep i can

Dating101Coach · Answer

Nope can’t do it.

Joker_ · Answer

Yikes

Tstrbrainer · Answer

I don't know

Anonymous · Answer

No, I wouldn't.

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