Could you be in a relationship with a guy if there was no sex?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

I think I could. As long as there’s other intimate things we can do. I’m not having sex until marriage anyway, if he has medical issues that make it difficult for him, there's other ways of being intimate. But if he just chooses not to for whatever reason other than medical that would be a dealbreaker for me.

[Mary087]

It would depend how long it'd be till we had sex. Is he waiting for marriage? Till he feels trusting in my heart? 6 months to a year in the relationship? Etc. Sex isn't everything but id eventually hope we'd be intimate together.

[Asker]

It's probably never moving forward

[Mary087]

Ok then it's not gonna work on my end

[Asker]

Would you consider an open relationship

[kiki0101]

hmm what kind of relationship. When i get married i eventually want to have children.. so. I love romance and romantic gesture necessary not sex. So, if my spouse had some medical conditions from stopping them from having sex, i wouldn't mind being in a sexless marriage as well.

[Paradiseequeen]

Before I married my husband, I went a year without sex. I wanted a Christian marriage and to do it the right way. I just didn’t want any regrets but wanted to make sure that he was the one

[Commander_Red]

I wouldn't mind. If he's a decent guy that treats me right and he has respect for himself too, I'd wait till he's ready.

[Asker]

What if it is never going to happen

[Commander_Red]

Like even after marriage? Probably not because to me, that's not a relationship. That's friendship.

[Asker]

So the only thing that defines a relationship is sex, good to know

[Commander_Red]

No, but it is an important part of it. Love might put it together, but love doesn't keep together. Things like common values, interest, future goals, and physical intimacy are what keep it together. I'm going to assume you are asexual or just have trauma but if you never want to have sex, of course, that's your choice, but your pool of matches is very low if you want to be someone who also doesn't want sex.

[Asker]

Fair enough, I know my chances are very low which is why I don't date. I wouldn't say I'm asexual, just not confident in that area

[England4eva]

Depends. If I loved him beyond anything else I couldn’t lose a guy based on lack of physical.

[Anonymous]

Yes, I'd kinda prefer it that way for the time being

[MissNikkiD]

I would talk to him about it and if there was a problem we would solve it together and hopefully get the sex back on track 🙂

[Asker]

It's not a problem that can be solved

[Anonymous]

Yes Because I still have my vc and I don’t plan on losing it till marriage.

[Xtcy2083]

Hell no! What would be the point?

[honeylover21]

Yes , if there was no sex I could

[MissingSummer]

Yes, but would like to know the reason why.

[Asker]

The reason why, is that there's no point to it if you're probably not going to enjoy it

[linka_pat307]

Yes hundred percentage

[TacosRAwesome]

Nope. Tried that life and I hated it.

[rosegirl08]

Yes I absolutely coupd

[rosegirl08]

Could

[Caramelpie]

It depends on why there’s no sex

[Asker]

He's just not comfortable with sex due to abuse from childhood coupled with insecurity

[Caramelpie]

Then i won’t be with this guy

[Asker]

What reason would be ok with you

[Caramelpie]

Health problems

[Bee-Hatch]

😂😂😂😂😂

[wingattebaby16]

not for very long...

[PeachJuice]

Yes, I could.

[Subarugirl]

Yes, not a problem

[moonpie89]

Nope

[Neko_Nya]

Nope, not possible

[Gosselinfan]

Yes I could

[Nazgol]

Unfortunately no

[Nazgol]

Why wouldn't it be? Would pretty weird. That's the whole point of a relationship & a big part of it, to be able to be intimate with someone! Or else we can just be having hookups forever

[Nazgol]

*would be pretty