I want to be married by the end of 2022. Can I make it happen?

[Inthecraphole]

I am 27 and never had a real girlfriend. I have frequent dreams of this girl I went on 1 date with. She was perfect and never even had a male friend before she met me. She rejected me on the first date. I am absolutely sick to my stomach to learn she is engaged to be married to this guy in April 2022.

I want to find another girl like her, one that has never had her first love or a boyfriend before. She was decently attractive too, and I hope to find another like her.

I want to be married by the end of 2022 or early 2023 at the latest with a girl where we are each other's first loves. Do you think I can achieve my goal?

Yes

No

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[Anonymous]

It can happen sure. The only thing you need to sacrifice is probably your requirement of wanting to be each other’s first love. Let’s be real that’s unrealistic af and more so at 27. Plus, she’s not even gonna be your first love bc you’ve already been in love with another girl who’s now engaged. I really hope you’ll be able to find someone, but you do need to make some emotional sacrifices to find her

[Inthecraphole]

I wasn't in love with her. I only met her once in person. The dating coach from match. com said it is still possible to find a girl like that.

[Opinion Owner]

If you weren’t in love with her then why do you still constantly post about her even to the point of dreaming about her all the time?

I really do wish you the best tho, I hope the dating coach will help you out

[ImJustSomeGuyLol]

I can't even tell if this is real or not 😅
Realistically, I don't think it will happen, the chances of it are pretty low, not saying this to tear you down but saying it to be honest because you need to hear it. Especially in the timeframe you want it in, and more so your age at 27. By then most women have at least dated someone before, and the same for men.

Forget about marriage, men and women have a tough time just finding a relationship. Focus on that first step, dates and a relationship, and fallback on the desperation, it feels kinda creepy.

[RearEntryGuy]

You replied somewhere "both of my legs amputated..."

AAnd remembered a story "
"
God: Adam, I make you a woman. She'll cook, clean, work hard to please you, ... All you need is to sit back and enjoy life.

Adam: what's the catch?

God: your arms and legs.

Adam think for a while.

Adam: what do I get for a rib?
"

So dude, you're very noble. But regrettably, Adam already used up the offer LOL!

[scott04sa22]

Good luck because women don’t like needy and desperate men

[Heartache0405]

Good luck

[Inthecraphole]

I don't think you realize, I am willing to sacrifice so much if it means I find the right woman I am looking for. If I had the option to have both of my legs amputated if that meant I would have the love of my life I am seeking, I would give up both my legs. It is that important to me.