Does this means I’m a loser?

[Aimee_]

23 and I don’t have friends. At all. Maybe people don’t like me around them. Maybe I’m too flawed and difficult to deal with. Maybe I’m not cool. I don’t know …

[mobiusforniner]

Girl, I'm an engineer so naturally I don't make friends. When I was 23 I was finished with college and had no friends, either. But I didn't let that stop me. I was committed to investing in me- I guess it was a weird phase where I wanted to prove to myself I was not a loser. I got a pilot's license. Taught myself a music instrument. Bought my first house. With no friends, no parties- I had all the time in the world to do whatever I wanted. It was nice. I felt on top of the world. Then the making friends thing just sort of happened. Coworkers began trying to match me with friends. Invited me to church or other social activities.

I guess, in short- no, you're not a loser. Get out and invest in you and prove to yourself you have that potential to be whatever you want. You have one life. Make the most of it.

[IceEmbers]

You are not defined by the amount of friends you have. Neither considered a loser for the lack-there-of. Likely, you haven't found an environment to met different people with similar interests in which you would feel socially fulfilled. Love yourself, and believe you are someone worth talking to because of your great personality. Other people are out there, near or far possibly ready to talk with you. Don't give up on yourself.

[cookiecrusher]

You are only a loser if you feel like it, or lost a race.

If you are kind and decent person then you are just undiscovered. Stop living in the shadows like a ninja and go talk to other intersting people, if you want friends.

[boggboss]

It's impossible to know without knowing u as a person what happens to your friendships

[Aimee_]

They all end

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

You are too hard on yourself, I'm shy to talk to girls believe it or not

[Hotboy_booblover]

No u r normal.. just that u haven't found people matching ur thought process yet.. its better to be without friends than trying to please others just to be with them..
I think u will find right friends soon

P. s. pls show me ur boobs

[Hotboy_booblover]

And stop using the word loser.. these are negative words used to harass urself

[Hotboy_booblover]

Can u follow me back.. I want to message you

[TallAnon]

Maybe there's a global pandemic that has made it really hard to cultivate relationships with other people? May have something to do with it? 😁

[awkward_author]

You're not a loser. I don't have many friends. It just takes time to find the right people.

[hi8sm3]

I don't think you have no friends, cuz you got 2 years old account but you gave 50 opinions.

[Aimee_]

What?

[hi8sm3]

you were not active on here, duh?

[Edward02]

I don't consider you to be a loser, I also don't have almost any friends besides people from my family... true friendship is very rare, don't be too hard on yourself

[jasco]

Well depends on where you go and what interest you have. if you like we can be friends

[Waldoe]

being a loner is not being a loser... Howard Hughes was a loner and extremely successful

[Medhat-M]

No, you're not... Cheer up

[Aimee_]

How are you asking me to cheer up

[Medhat-M]

I cut off all my friends a year ago... Best decision ever... People are terrible and toxic these days... If someone good enough to be your friend... They would have been already...

[Aimee_]

Do you have friends now?

[Medhat-M]

No, like I said.. I'm still riding solo and I'm enjoying it... There's a couple of guys i know that you can consider friends

[andy530]

No that’s not the conclusion I’d draw

[Aimee_]

Then?

[andy530]

Maybe there are other external factors at play….

[legalboxers]

Nope. You are selective who your inner circle is

[Z1pTD]

No it doesn’t mean you’re a loser

[Anonymous]

No, that does not mean you are a loser.