Girls, do you like possessive, controlling and jealous partners?

[Anonymous]

If he is loyal, respectful and caring with you as well.
Or there's no way you like partners like that? Does it depends?

[Innocently_Pure]

For me it depends. There is this one guy who has a crush on me, and he is loyal, respectful and caring to "me" and I appreciate that. But I didn't like him, one thing is because of that personality of his. His different towards me and from the others. When I'm not around he is mean to his friends, and he gets jealous quickly even though we are not in a relationship. Most of our class knows that he has a crush on me, and one time his guy friend and I were talking because that guy friend of his has a crush on the other girl in our class, so I'm giving him tips about girls, but then, I realize that he was trying to get away from me and I asked him why, he said it's because the guy who likes me will get mad at him. The guy who likes me saw us talking with each other. I also experienced him being bossy towards me even though I'm busy with something else while he is just walking around looking at us being busy. Then that made me think "What if we end up getting married? I don't think my future with him will be good." And I can tell, that once we get married, he will show me his true colors. I can expect him to be super bossy towards me, and wouldn't care much about me, maybe also treat me the way he treats others. He is just good at me because he has a crush on me. But if he doesn't have a crush on me, I know he wouldn't treat me the way how he treats me.

In short, I get turned off easily to guys who has a two-faced typed. It's a big turn off if a guy is good at me but treats others bad. But I think I can tell if that guy is a good person, like in the Meteor Garden, we all know that Dao Ming Su is a guy who fears by all in school, but he is a good person. But in terms of the guy who has a crush on me, he's different from the Meteor Garden guy.

[Marianna34n]

It is flattering but very toxic... u don't have any privacy and don't have any right to talk to other guys even as friends... Also it shows insecurity and means the guy is the one who actually is cheating!

[SnakeBoop]

nope. because the first three means he'll 9/10 be an abuser.

[Crepe_tart]

Usually in movies this is the dream guy we all want... but no. That kind of guy is a BIG red flag.

[dustybiker]

Trust is a huge deal for me. There is no comfort or safety in a relationship with someone unstable.

[coconut94]

No I would absolutely not. That isn’t respectful or true care if he is controlling. He wouldn’t trust me and so the others could not follow.

[Anonymous]

Such partners are usually not loyal nor respectful. So what am i even getting?

[Asker]

He's already your boyfriend/husband, he's indeed loyal and respectful, do you like that?

[Opinion Owner]

No..

[Anonymous]

I love dominant/alpha men.. I don’t want no weak ass man. Pull my hair, smack my ass in bed.

[RedStiletto88]

Ugh definitely hate those types of men

[Anonymous]

nah, I'd probably kill that mf if he acted like that

[Anonymous]

Nah why would I like someone toxic

[lovedejj_xo]

Dominant yes all the rest no.