My wife is watching other guys in front of me.. is it serious?

[Anonymous]

Hey we are married for 8 years now 2 kids.

enjoy sex life to its fullest.

until recently I noticed my wife watching other guys in front of me... it hurt me a lot.

is this something going wrong in my mind?

I discussed at length with my wife on this and in fact we fought a lot for last 15 days.. she plainly denied swearing that she didn't see any one.

should I take it very seriously...

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+1 y

There are no other signs

I think she might want reassurance that she is beautiful.

it might be my mistake becoz of my past relationships and even few after I got married.

Untill then she was simple and devoted to me even today she is and I never noticed her such behavior .

it was only me who insisted her to wear modern outfits.

She confessed that she wanted to look compatible to me so I don;t look elsewhere.

[ilovecookies]

hahhahahhaha, that's cute.

Usually it's the women who complain that the men have a radar for women.

Well, that is to be honest, nothing serious. It is normal for a woman to check out men. Don't worry about it, we just check them out physically, nothing wrong with you. We wouldn't drop you for them, because the men we love is not only looks but looks plus a lot more, and that is why we chose you (the husband).

Are you sure she didn't use to do it and started to do it recently, or she had always done it and you just didn't notice?

I don't think it is a big deal unless she is showing other signs aside from this.

[Minxxe]

Nothing wrong with admiring the view. I look all the time and he knows I'm doing it, way I see it is, I KNOW he looks at other women & fresh faced girls - he's programmed that way! So I if I want to window shop then it's all the more for seeing that I already have what I want right next to me, other men remind me I'm lucky to have my man and I'll be sticking with him.

Besides if there were any more to it she wouldn't be watching them in your presence, she'd hide it.

[jacquesvol]

It boggles my mind that you're fighting over it!

Don't take it seriously. What's wrong with looking?

Don't you ever look at a girl/ woman?

[Asker]

thanks for solving my problem brother...

[jacquesvol]

"my past relationships and even few after I got married."

Not many reasons to be angry at your wife, huh?

[DebiPie]

Nice, very nice. I like this answer. Best answer to me.

[Asker]

u enjoying the show:(