Living together and working - she wants you 24x7 but also wants comforts of money?

[Prg11]

Anyone have an idea how to manage dating a very good looking girl (say 9 or 10 out of 10) - in the context of her unrealistic expectations we'd spend 24h per day just living?

It isn't that they expect billions, but most good looking girls do not work/just swindle/do 'marketing' or 'communications' for living (basically they promote gyms and restaurants for next to nothing in money).

So - they love getting together with me - but they have absolutely no clue how to spend the 10h per day I am working - without me.

Their brains revert to swindling, which then puts them at risk of cheating, which I do not tollerate even slightly.

The good looking ones from better families are generally out of my reach since I am. an orphan/a self made man.

[pjnickles]

You win the lottery, or become independently wealthy somehow, so that the valuable time you waste doing something constructive with your life, can be wasted spending 24/7 as a Popsicle stick stuffed up her backside, stroking her ego and being her ATM.

She doesn't expect billions, because she knows THAT'S never gonna happen. But what she does expect from life is a man that'll provide for her a lifestyle, in which she hasn't earned, in which she doesn't have to work for anything. She wants everything given to her because of her looks, and you you get an empty headed, worthless piece of arm candy and the prestige of showing your trophy to the boys.

Seriously? Not about billions? It's definitely about money, yet you want to gloss it over as if anything less than billions is reasonable and acceptable?

Dude, she's nothing but lazy and materialistic, and measures her success against her peers, using things.

If you stay, you're a fool. I'd expect that though, from someone who considers her beauty as a reason to, well, do whatever it is you do for her wretched, money centric life, just for the privilege of parading her around.

She goes around saying look WHAT I have. You go around saying look WHO I have.

You're perfect for each other. Her in her obvious materialism, and you in your blatant shallowness. You're both selfish users.

Sigh
SMH.

[Prg11]

Don't get so worked up... it is a type of girl, not a specific one. And, yes, I don't take them in - money, I can earn, but bored and alone at home - she'd need to demonstrate A LOT of loyalty first (which is why I don't even try it - the 'marketing type' does not strike me as being loyal.

[DaveJord]

Man oh man... I spent my 20s doing this. Yeah I dated 9s and 10s and I always was attracted to confident women... and here is the deal confident 9s and 10s always believe they can do better than what they have... and is some way I guest they can or could. But they never truly appreciate what they have... no matter how successful you are they always seem to have their eye on the next thing.

Of course not all 9's and 10's are this way... but I really did some serious self reflection on myself around 35 and started really looking for what I wanted in a relationship with a women. So in the end I ended up with what you might say is a physical 7, but she a 10 in my book. Sexy and 100% appreciative of everything I do for her. She fucks like a dream and never says no, and she is amazingly kind and generous. It took me a lot of trial and error... but what you consider to be a 9 or 10 is in reality probably a 5 at best.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Well, it seems as though you two are incompatible…
If you’re working long shifts a day, and you’re afraid she will leave because of that… Then you need to compromise, or she needs to.


The way you describe her makes it seem like she’s a bimbo, and a pet who follows you around and is dependent on you. Seriously?
If you can’t “manage” that woman, it seems like it’s time to breakup.

[Prg11]

It isn't a particular woman. It's the type - looks great, lots of fun, but try to leave her alone at home.
I don't work shifts, I am an architect - I work on complex projects (for good money such a honey expects - but loyalty they seem not to offer, and I am. not a stepping stone/there is no stone higher)

[PrettyPriya]

How do you mean "manage" a girl? What is there to manage? Can she stand up? Chew her food? Uses the toilet properly?

[Agape93]

I'm wondering this myself

[Prg11]

@Agape93 no, the question is how to manage so she doesn't stray

[Agape93]

You don't need to manage someone. Trust her and leave it alone or don't and break up. It's not hard.

[PrettyPriya]

If she strays, wasn't meant to be. You want to be with someone you have to worry about managing not to cheat? Sounds awful.

[Prg11]

Yeah, but it is obvious from the start she'd have no clue what to do with herself - especially if she moved cities or countries with me.

[Agape93]

Why is that?

[Prg11]

@Agape93 why is what?

[Agape93]

How is it obvious she doesn't know what to do with herself.

Awkward, considering that should have been obvious.

[Oigit]

In other words you are buying a bride or getting involved with a younger woman from a different country.

[Browneye57]

You seem to have a completely unrealistic view on what reality is, and what's important. Oh well.
Just stick with banging them till they bore you, then kick them out.

[boobliker]

well show her what's what with money. so she can help my ex wanted more and more so i had a month off by the second week she was out more than i was when i was at work so showing will work..

[Fireguy17]

You can't miss me if I never leave.
Pretty hard to do both.