Would you be okay with your boyfriend/girlfriend cheating if they paid all of the bills or would you leave them?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Hell no lol, and if I were THAT codependent of someone then that is a sign I need to get my shit together so I can provide myself. Because what him cheating shoes is that he has zero respect for me and feels like I need him so deeply that he can do whatever. He could beat me if he wanted and I’d have to take it because I can’t afford to flee or live without him. That is horrible and I’d never want that for myself. Always have your own!

Aerissa_Jade · Accepted Answer

I'd never be okay with that, but I can see how some people who don't think they can survive on their own might accept it.

The world can be a scary place to some people, and being homeless is a scary prospect.

I however can support myself, so I would not stick around.

Heartache0405 · Accepted Answer

I'd leave. Under no circumstances would I ever allow cheating to prosper. I've been cheated on in every relationship I've been in

sirderpsalot123 · Accepted Answer

A woman wouldn't be paying all of my bills. But no, that wouldn't make me forgive her for cheating.

WhatTheHeckkkk · Answer

Girl what lol. No I wouldn’t be okay with that and I would leave.

Anonymous · Answer

No way... If someone want to do something good for me then they have to do it because they want to.. Not because that they can bring the topic and say that I should be grateful and stay with them for what they did for me and hurt me in other way... This is toxic and disrespectful... I would leave

Anonymous · Answer

Thats why it's always important to not be financially dependant on a guy and always have something for yourself, then if it comes to cheating or amy kind of abuse you don't have to feel forced to stay in that situation. If a man cheats he clearly has no respect for you or the relationship qnd you should leave instead of giving him the sayisfaction that you'll always forgive him and stay no matter how crappy his behaviour is.

IamAdonis · Answer

I’m in that situation now.. except, she’s not cheating. However, if she was, I would leave in a heartbeat!!!

Jamie05rhs · Answer

First of all, I wouldn't let my woman pay all of the bills. She'll pay half and no more. I am a man; I pay my fair share. I don't mooch off of anyone.

As far as cheating goes: the second she cheats, she's GONE. D-I-V-O-R-C-E. No fucks given.

Anonymous · Answer

If he’s my husband then he should be paying all the bills because he’s the provider, but that doesn’t give him a right to cheat. A man provides for his wife and family out of love. No, I would not be okay with him cheating.

KrisPW · Answer

Cheating is cheating, regardless of who pays the bills.

pixie215 · Answer

i would never have anyone paying y bills but besides that hell to the no would i stay

On_cloud_wine · Answer

Basically your dependent on him so bad that you tolerate bullshit

Flower7 · Answer

Paying the bills wouldn’t make it any better. I still wouldn’t want to stay with him.

Agape93 · Answer

Id leave them immediately. Fuck that I have self respect

Anonymous · Answer

I think cheating is a weird thing. I love two guys, I’m cheating on one with the other but I don’t want them to be with anyone one else regardless of who pays for what. I just want them both to love me only.

AdithyaR · Answer

I don't care who pays, cheating is an absolute dealbreaker

Darine123 · Answer

Stay there, make him pay for everything even food then I will cheat on him back without he knowing

sheikalana · Answer

I would leave him. I don't need him to pay for anything.

OddBeMe · Answer

I imagine that economic hold would be an issue, but I never let myself be controlled. Unless through sex.

IsoUser · Answer

So in other words you are essentially saying that your boyfriend or girlfriend is essentially a slave.

jasco · Answer

first off i could never let a women pay everything for me. I need to pay something

bamesjond0069 · Answer

No way. I pay the bills and if a woman isn't with just me i am not interested in her.

more_than_a_guy · Answer

I wouldn't have been depended on them in the first place... Say goodbye.

Hangry06 · Answer

If i was a housewife, yes

XXblack88 · Answer

Absolutely not. I would leave no questions asked

exitseven · Answer

Iwould not be okay with this. I woiuld be gone.

MrtoddsWildRide · Answer

I prefer open relationships and to pay my own part

Anonymous · Answer

LEAVE THEM!! You deserve better!!

jahaims · Answer

No I have self respect

Juliette1994 · Answer

I’d leave no 2nd thoughts.

Hanrej · Answer

I'd be okey with it regardless.

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

That’s like using a Kit Kat bar as a dildo

Anonymous · Answer

Is this question serious?  no way!

DarkCarousel · Answer

Absolutely not.

IDontBelieveIt · Answer

leave no doubt now

Wise4myage · Answer

Fuck that, Id bail.

dragoblack · Answer

Leave

SecretGardenBlood65 · Answer

Leave him

Sabretooth · Answer

... bye,

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