How much money would you need to CHEAT on your boyfriend/girlfriend/wife/husband?

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Okay so if you haven't seen the movie Indecent Proposal... well... where have you been? It stars Robert Redford (multi millionaire), Demi Moore and Woody Harrelson, (average couple with no money) Robert Redford has offered this couple (Woody and Demi) 1 million dollars for one night with his wife. I won't spoil the movie for you but what would it take for you to cheat on your SO? How much money?  You can keep it all to yourself or split it with them.. it's totally up to you!  Happy Friday!

Marethyu · Accepted Answer

Honestly? I'm not sure.
I've never been with anyone but her and she has never been with anyone but me.
I would hate to change that.
Aside of that though.. Work consumes so much time that we could spend together instead.. Talk, Have dates, have fun, have sex.
It's tempting to lead a carefree life for sure.
If I'm allowed to be selfish however.. I wouldn't know about my own feelings.
I can't tell if I would be happy or if the thought of the initial price would always haunt me.

llorando · Accepted Answer

At least a trillion dollars.

StingRayxoxo · Accepted Answer

This man that I have is so incredible and compatible for me, it's like he was designed just for me. I was alone for such a long time and had enough money to enjoy life. That feeling is incomparable to the love and happiness that I have now. I wouldn't do something to hurt him so badly like that. I wouldn't be able to live with myself.

witherwing · Accepted Answer

I honestly couldn't love with the guilt. No money would repay it.

Logorithim · Answer

My girlfriend is perfect for me and is a really great person. I would be a fool to cheat on her, even for all the money in the world.

Cynicaldreamer · Answer

Well since I'm single, I'm good to go- starting bid is 1 million! Lol

Now if I did have someone? It's not going to happen. No amount of money is worth the fidelity of a relationship! Even if your partner is "okay" with it.
Deep down there will be some resentment and loss of respect if you do it.

Allie_Oops · Answer

I don't have a man but I'd assume that if I did, I wouldn't take any money. First, I don't believe in cheating, period.

Second, I know what it's like to be depressed, miserable, and alone. I've grown up with a lot of money and I have money as it is right now. Money does not make you happy. So I would say there is no amount.

Jean-Marie_Céline · Answer

The day I'll cheat on my girlfriend for money is the day I'll become an human worm. She's a wonderful woman and doesn't deserve this.

MysteriousDarkness · Answer

You could give me enough money to be the richest person there was there is and most likely be. You could give me all the amethysts, aquamarines, diamonds, emeralds, jades, jaspers, tanzanites, topazes. You could give me ever muscle car ever made since the 1950s until 1979. You could give me super cars (sports cars) and high end luxury cars. You could give me a heavy duty powerful truck. You could give me a whole new wardrobe. You could build me a house however I wanted it to be. If that was possible I still would not do it. I have been offered millions of dollars, gemstones, clothes for my girlfriend that she would like, new purses she would like, 4 tickets to each of the 3 concerts that I would like. The over was for me to cheat on my girlfriend and all that was mine. I got the money check out to make sure it was all real and it was. The gemstones were real and of high quality. I know that since I had a jeweler that I trusted check them out. My girlfriend was with me when it was decision time and i turned it down. She was glad that I did. She said that if I had taken the offer she would have left me. I have been cut a few times defending my girlfriend. My girlfriend is too wonderful for me to cheat on. I do not care if anyone believe any of this or not.

Anonymous · Answer

It depends on how I felt about my girlfriend at the time. If the criteria was to cheat on my girlfriend then I get the money then it would depend on if I was debating on leaving the relationship. So, if I'm already going to leave her then I'll cheat, get the money, then leave her. I'm already leaving her might as well make some money while I'm at it.

If I'm madly in love with my girlfriend I would have to ask her. I'll receive 50 million dollars for me to sleep with someone else... are you okay with that? If the answer is no then I wouldn't but if the answer is yes then I would.

A lot of people like to leave PC answers but I honestly think most people who claim there's no amount of money would make them cheat (especially with approval of their S. O.) would once it becomes a reality.

Plus, I don't know how many times I've heard women (because I don't really hear men talking about this) claim that they would never cheat while I know they are cheating. I'm sure there are guys like this too but I hear it all of the time from women. Some of them I hooked up with myself before I found out that they were in a relationship and then afterwards heard that same girl tell one of her girlfriends that there's no way she could ever cheat on her man. So, anytime I hear anyone... man or woman... say that they would never ever cheat i don't believe them. Whether it's money or emotional or physical... there's always a set of circumstances for everyone that would cause them to cheat even if they honestly believe they never would.

zippididooda · Answer

I have a more utilitarian view. $20,000 to $50,000 would do it. I just want a new pickup truck, crew cab, gasoline fuel. Lol.

If you're shocked at my cavalier attitude toward sex just think about this: Missionaries were appalled when they found out Eskimos would freely loan their wives to each other. In Eskimo society, they looked on it like A) the wife would likely enjoy the experience and B) it's not like somebody borrowing a sled, that could be returned banged up and needing repair. The missionaries were further appalled because Eskimos had rear-entry sex like their caribou and reindeer - hence they enforced the more Christian accepted practice called the "missionary position". That's where the name came from by the way. (I know a lot of useless trivia like that.)

9teen · Answer

I'm loyal to death to someone. No amount of money could make me cheat. Money doesn't matter to me, loyalty does.
Anyone who has it well off knows that money only brings temporary satisfaction. It's the connection with someone that could bring eternal satisfaction.

SirRexington · Answer

I don't know if I could do it. My ex cheated on me, and I know how broken it made me. I never want to feel that way again and I don't want the next person I'm with to ever feel that way. So I don't think any amount of money would matter.

And if my girl agreed to 1 million dollars and gave me this one time pass I don't know if I could mentally get past the fact that I'd be having sex with someone I don't know and who isn't my partner.

MatinBrumeux · Answer

At this point in life my guy and I are well off so, I dont think any amount of money would win us over.
If we were in different circumstances and truly needed money and he agreed to it probably 5-10 million.
No amount of money is worth our relationship, but we can use a portion of that money for couples therapy if needed XD

JustaLoozer · Answer

Shit I showed my man this and begged him to do it on a few exceptions -They are clean -The deal crosses no lines he is uncomfortable with (bdsm, video taping, etc.) We have a deal now

Hannah591 · Answer

I don't think any amount of money is worth betraying someone's trust and permanently making them feel inferior and not worthy of love for the rest of their life, whilst impinging on their ability to trust people in the future, not to mention causing them great emotional pain in the process. It could potentially damage their future relationships because they can't move on from that broken trust. It's not worth doing.

Kellykelkelltik · Answer

Answers differ based on whether you’re in your 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s, etc. by late 30s you realize there is no dollar amount. Worth sacrificing true connection. And if you don’t eventually realize that, well… have fun spanking it at iHop for all eternity.

abc3643 · Answer

My wife would be more than happy to farm out my services for a $1 million - probably less. Why? Because this is her attitude

TacticalVisor · Answer

I will be honest... 500$ will do, but obviously... the more, the better!
To be honest if I was offered 1 million $ to cheat on my gf/wife, she'd probably kill me if I said no!
I mean I wouldn't mind her cheating on me for 1 mil $, LOL!
~ "I'm a man on a mission; stay out of my way."

EclipseoftheHeart · Answer

Reminds me of the joke of the guy who asked a girl if she would have sex with him for $1million and she said yes. Then he asked if she would for $100,000 and she though and again agreed. He kept dropping the price until she finally said, "Hey, just what kind of girl do you think I am?" and he replied, "We have already established that. Now we're just haggling over price."

Browneye57 · Answer

It has already been established that a woman will do anything if there is enough money involved. So it's just a matter of negotiating how much.
I used to think this was bullshit, but it's been proven out over and over and over again. Women have no integrity - all they have is their FEELINGS.

EmbraceThePain · Answer

Even if I was offered my own continent, I wouldn’t cheat on my girlfriend or wife, despite me not being intimately interested in her anymore. For me, morals, honor, character, and morality are important. So, by principle, I’ll only break it off with my wife or girlfriend in the most honorable way I can think of, not cheating.

LizzyHale · Answer

There are many many people with millions of dollars such as Kate Spade, robin williams, and every single famous person who turned to drugs as a way out which is so many I don’t even know where to start. If you are truly in love with one another, and your a logical person.. you would NEVER, I repeat NEVER give that up for $1,000,000. More money more problems. I would MUCH rather keep my $25,000 a year job and the man of my dreams. Cause those moments where your sitting forehead to forehead after making love, him/her being the only one there when your feeling alone, a shoulder to cry on without any judgment, a perfect match to live a life with is what money can’t buy, and will never be able to buy.

OnitheWanderer · Answer

I can't do something so hurtful to my S. O. especially if she was my wife just for money 💵. It's like saying that all our (my) time/memories together in the relationship wasn't worth it and that it was cheap. I am Cheap might as well be gigolo if I'm willing to take some cash to cheat on my S. O.

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