How much money would you need to CHEAT on your boyfriend/girlfriend/wife/husband?

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Okay so if you haven't seen the movie Indecent Proposal... well... where have you been? It stars Robert Redford (multi millionaire), Demi Moore and Woody Harrelson, (average couple with no money) Robert Redford has offered this couple (Woody and Demi) 1 million dollars for one night with his wife. I won't spoil the movie for you but what would it take for you to cheat on your SO? How much money?  You can keep it all to yourself or split it with them.. it's totally up to you!  Happy Friday!

Marethyu · Accepted Answer

Honestly? I'm not sure.
I've never been with anyone but her and she has never been with anyone but me.
I would hate to change that.
Aside of that though.. Work consumes so much time that we could spend together instead.. Talk, Have dates, have fun, have sex.
It's tempting to lead a carefree life for sure.
If I'm allowed to be selfish however.. I wouldn't know about my own feelings.
I can't tell if I would be happy or if the thought of the initial price would always haunt me.

llorando · Accepted Answer

At least a trillion dollars.

StingRayxoxo · Accepted Answer

This man that I have is so incredible and compatible for me, it's like he was designed just for me. I was alone for such a long time and had enough money to enjoy life. That feeling is incomparable to the love and happiness that I have now. I wouldn't do something to hurt him so badly like that. I wouldn't be able to live with myself.

witherwing · Accepted Answer

I honestly couldn't love with the guilt. No money would repay it.

Logorithim · Answer

My girlfriend is perfect for me and is a really great person. I would be a fool to cheat on her, even for all the money in the world.

Cynicaldreamer · Answer

Well since I'm single, I'm good to go- starting bid is 1 million! Lol

Now if I did have someone? It's not going to happen. No amount of money is worth the fidelity of a relationship! Even if your partner is "okay" with it.
Deep down there will be some resentment and loss of respect if you do it.

Allie_Oops · Answer

I don't have a man but I'd assume that if I did, I wouldn't take any money. First, I don't believe in cheating, period.

Second, I know what it's like to be depressed, miserable, and alone. I've grown up with a lot of money and I have money as it is right now. Money does not make you happy. So I would say there is no amount.

Jean-Marie_Céline · Answer

The day I'll cheat on my girlfriend for money is the day I'll become an human worm. She's a wonderful woman and doesn't deserve this.

MysteriousDarkness · Answer

You could give me enough money to be the richest person there was there is and most likely be. You could give me all the amethysts, aquamarines, diamonds, emeralds, jades, jaspers, tanzanites, topazes. You could give me ever muscle car ever made since the 1950s until 1979. You could give me super cars (sports cars) and high end luxury cars. You could give me a heavy duty powerful truck. You could give me a whole new wardrobe. You could build me a house however I wanted it to be. If that was possible I still would not do it. I have been offered millions of dollars, gemstones, clothes for my girlfriend that she would like, new purses she would like, 4 tickets to each of the 3 concerts that I would like. The over was for me to cheat on my girlfriend and all that was mine. I got the money check out to make sure it was all real and it was. The gemstones were real and of high quality. I know that since I had a jeweler that I trusted check them out. My girlfriend was with me when it was decision time and i turned it down. She was glad that I did. She said that if I had taken the offer she would have left me. I have been cut a few times defending my girlfriend. My girlfriend is too wonderful for me to cheat on. I do not care if anyone believe any of this or not.

Anonymous · Answer

It depends on how I felt about my girlfriend at the time. If the criteria was to cheat on my girlfriend then I get the money then it would depend on if I was debating on leaving the relationship. So, if I'm already going to leave her then I'll cheat, get the money, then leave her. I'm already leaving her might as well make some money while I'm at it.

If I'm madly in love with my girlfriend I would have to ask her. I'll receive 50 million dollars for me to sleep with someone else... are you okay with that? If the answer is no then I wouldn't but if the answer is yes then I would.

A lot of people like to leave PC answers but I honestly think most people who claim there's no amount of money would make them cheat (especially with approval of their S. O.) would once it becomes a reality.

Plus, I don't know how many times I've heard women (because I don't really hear men talking about this) claim that they would never cheat while I know they are cheating. I'm sure there are guys like this too but I hear it all of the time from women. Some of them I hooked up with myself before I found out that they were in a relationship and then afterwards heard that same girl tell one of her girlfriends that there's no way she could ever cheat on her man. So, anytime I hear anyone... man or woman... say that they would never ever cheat i don't believe them. Whether it's money or emotional or physical... there's always a set of circumstances for everyone that would cause them to cheat even if they honestly believe they never would.

zippididooda · Answer

I have a more utilitarian view. $20,000 to $50,000 would do it. I just want a new pickup truck, crew cab, gasoline fuel. Lol.

If you're shocked at my cavalier attitude toward sex just think about this: Missionaries were appalled when they found out Eskimos would freely loan their wives to each other. In Eskimo society, they looked on it like A) the wife would likely enjoy the experience and B) it's not like somebody borrowing a sled, that could be returned banged up and needing repair. The missionaries were further appalled because Eskimos had rear-entry sex like their caribou and reindeer - hence they enforced the more Christian accepted practice called the "missionary position". That's where the name came from by the way. (I know a lot of useless trivia like that.)

9teen · Answer

I'm loyal to death to someone. No amount of money could make me cheat. Money doesn't matter to me, loyalty does.
Anyone who has it well off knows that money only brings temporary satisfaction. It's the connection with someone that could bring eternal satisfaction.

SirRexington · Answer

I don't know if I could do it. My ex cheated on me, and I know how broken it made me. I never want to feel that way again and I don't want the next person I'm with to ever feel that way. So I don't think any amount of money would matter.

And if my girl agreed to 1 million dollars and gave me this one time pass I don't know if I could mentally get past the fact that I'd be having sex with someone I don't know and who isn't my partner.

MatinBrumeux · Answer

At this point in life my guy and I are well off so, I dont think any amount of money would win us over.
If we were in different circumstances and truly needed money and he agreed to it probably 5-10 million.
No amount of money is worth our relationship, but we can use a portion of that money for couples therapy if needed XD

JustaLoozer · Answer

Shit I showed my man this and begged him to do it on a few exceptions -They are clean -The deal crosses no lines he is uncomfortable with (bdsm, video taping, etc.) We have a deal now

Hannah591 · Answer

I don't think any amount of money is worth betraying someone's trust and permanently making them feel inferior and not worthy of love for the rest of their life, whilst impinging on their ability to trust people in the future, not to mention causing them great emotional pain in the process. It could potentially damage their future relationships because they can't move on from that broken trust. It's not worth doing.

Kellykelkelltik · Answer

Answers differ based on whether you’re in your 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s, etc. by late 30s you realize there is no dollar amount. Worth sacrificing true connection. And if you don’t eventually realize that, well… have fun spanking it at iHop for all eternity.

abc3643 · Answer

My wife would be more than happy to farm out my services for a $1 million - probably less. Why? Because this is her attitude

TacticalVisor · Answer

I will be honest... 500$ will do, but obviously... the more, the better!
To be honest if I was offered 1 million $ to cheat on my gf/wife, she'd probably kill me if I said no!
I mean I wouldn't mind her cheating on me for 1 mil $, LOL!
~ "I'm a man on a mission; stay out of my way."

EclipseoftheHeart · Answer

Reminds me of the joke of the guy who asked a girl if she would have sex with him for $1million and she said yes. Then he asked if she would for $100,000 and she though and again agreed. He kept dropping the price until she finally said, "Hey, just what kind of girl do you think I am?" and he replied, "We have already established that. Now we're just haggling over price."

Browneye57 · Answer

It has already been established that a woman will do anything if there is enough money involved. So it's just a matter of negotiating how much.
I used to think this was bullshit, but it's been proven out over and over and over again. Women have no integrity - all they have is their FEELINGS.

EmbraceThePain · Answer

Even if I was offered my own continent, I wouldn’t cheat on my girlfriend or wife, despite me not being intimately interested in her anymore. For me, morals, honor, character, and morality are important. So, by principle, I’ll only break it off with my wife or girlfriend in the most honorable way I can think of, not cheating.

LizzyHale · Answer

There are many many people with millions of dollars such as Kate Spade, robin williams, and every single famous person who turned to drugs as a way out which is so many I don’t even know where to start. If you are truly in love with one another, and your a logical person.. you would NEVER, I repeat NEVER give that up for $1,000,000. More money more problems. I would MUCH rather keep my $25,000 a year job and the man of my dreams. Cause those moments where your sitting forehead to forehead after making love, him/her being the only one there when your feeling alone, a shoulder to cry on without any judgment, a perfect match to live a life with is what money can’t buy, and will never be able to buy.

OnitheWanderer · Answer

I can't do something so hurtful to my S. O. especially if she was my wife just for money 💵. It's like saying that all our (my) time/memories together in the relationship wasn't worth it and that it was cheap. I am Cheap might as well be gigolo if I'm willing to take some cash to cheat on my S. O.

RACKnight · Answer

None. She was my first, 26 years ago. After 24 years, I found her again. I waited only for her. If it wasn't going to her, I'd die solo. My whole existence has been predicated on loyalty. How I grew up, if you don't have that, you're past tense. It's her or nothing.

Justacuriousgirl19 · Answer

Honestly I could never cheat. But in this hypothetical, $250,000 would be just enough without being too much. And I would split the money with my boyfriend. I honestly think anything more than $250000 would make me feel like a high end whore with a madam lol

wittymilf · Answer

I’m gonna go $5000 just coz he’d kill me if I turned down that kind of money. I’ve been offered money before, guy asked me to name my price and I just walked away.

SongBird3 · Answer

No amount of money could by my love or my pride.
HOWEVER it is a really tempting offer. The only way I would consider it is IF my SO and I were in a huge financial rutt and desperately needed the money, I would have to make it a mutual agreement in writing (contract) legally binding and I want it in cash.

Anonymous · Answer

This is a great question, and I'm not being critical, but...
You should really do an update and explain that this was NOT cheating. They were in financial trouble and they both discussed this and they both agreed it would be for the best. In your title you call it, cheating, and I think that's why so many people are saying it's so horrible. For the record, I would let my wife do it for $5 mil-.(I too, won't spoil the ending, lol)

Glue-Sniffer · Answer

In the movie she never cheated on her husband. They talked about the proposal and decided to accept it. So that cannot be considered cheating when both parties agree to the arrangement!
Later he realized he couldn't live with the guilt and broke up with her.

ShadezMcgee · Answer

Not worth it. If I am in an LTR with a woman, I have every intention of keeping it going until it comes to an end. Karma has a way of messing with you for bad things, but no amount of money in the world would make me do that.

RolandCuthbert · Answer

One of the dumbest movies in history.

I was so mad at my ex for making me see that dumb flick with her.

There is no amount of money me and my girlfriend would take. And I don't see either one of us staying in a relationship where it happened.

Mandycandy42 · Answer

I really wonder how many of the over a 100 respondents who selected "no amount of money" are actually telling the truth, there are a lot of BBS artists and liars in America, and other places nowadays

BluesheepOwl · Answer

I'm not interested in sex anyway. Like that dude offering money to the guy so he can sleep with his wife. Like bro, I don't even like sex, you are at a dead end with me. That's not gonna go anywhere. I would never cheat though and if I considered it, well then I know that's the sign to end the relationship.

Nik1hil · Answer

First priority is consent of my girl..
I mean if my girl is remotely interested in shagging some guy as a one time thing..
I mean I have female friends who would shag Ian Somerhalder for fun.. And If that rich guy is great looking and my girl thinks she would enjoy it or it could be her once in a lifetime opportunity..
To shag a good looking rich guy for pure sexual pleasure..
I will give her 1 hall pass..
Then she can grant her consent for one time..
Than I will gladly take the most amount that person is willing to give...
Pay me like 100 Bitcoins..
And then she can go for it.. 😉

goodlongman · Answer

Your life partner is your best friend, for the man the sexiest lady, for a girl the greatest man. This is way we should not get into sexual relations without being committed to the relationship. Marriage is commitment.
Marriage is unconditional not love. Marriage is not just great sex. When you marry it is for life, no matter what life gives; sickness, health, poverty, wealth, joy or sorrow. No matter what you are committed to each other. There is no excuse for dissolving this union of too people. This takes commitment, you are both committed to make the marriage work at all times in all ages. Looks change, sex changes, but commitment last for a lifetime.

Anonymous · Answer

If your husband is allowing it it's not cheating. My husband and I have been with a few other couples and I was with a guy on my own. With my husbands consent. He has a gallery pass he still hasn't used to be with a woman on his own. To us it's just sex and an experience. We have a love for each other like we haven't had with no other. So if someone offered us money as long as my husband was ok with it I would. But I'd hold out for $50,000.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

no money will bring me to do such thing regardless of how he may hurt me.
its not about my partner... its about who i am. i am good with money.
even if i am dirt poor, you would not be able to bring me down to cheat.

dman342 · Answer

For a million+ dollars Cheat then show SO the money and the justification that we can use it to buy a house and/or pay off debts. I would expect her to do the same.

Syrian_survivor · Answer

Ask my girl about it, If she accepted then I would do it and leave her after (it's not cheating tho)

If she was a cuck then we don't share the same values and it was a bad match in the first place, it's a win-win and fair situation, better for the both of us and I'd share some of the money if she deserves it, I'm just being honest.

Jesslin412 · Answer

One night with this person? 1 million and they can have whatever they want for 24 hours. Half before half after. He’d be ok with it lol

ShadowofRegret · Answer

I would rather fall upon my own sword than commit such treachery against my beloved. (If I had one.)

Supernatural_fanatic · Answer

More like how much money would I pay to be able to find a husband that’d I’d never intentionally hurt

pumaOH24 · Answer

Same money as in the movie! My wife would probably kill me if I didn’t do it.  For that kind of money I know she would do it too!

CandacePerry · Answer

Nope. I am finely found guy with same value of my own. never will change him for better. he was be my boyfriend. Cheating is for weak. Never cares less. money is not as important in a partner. Most important traits for me is trustworthy, repeat full and know from right to wrong.

Anonymous · Answer

No amount of money would make me cheat on my boyfriend. We’ve worked hard to get where we are in our relationship, and I love him so much. I wouldn’t cheat for anything

Jenny4455 · Answer

I don't date, never going to get married and have no interest in money so this question sidesteps me entirely

MissKittyz · Answer

There is no amount of money that would ever make me cheat on my boyfriend. My love for him means more than just money. But, if he knew about the money, I'm sure he would let me sleep with someone else for it lol but then that wouldn't be considered cheating anymore.

Billie_ · Answer

They say money can’t buy happiness- I'd never forgive myself if I did it.

God_of_Thunder · Answer

I would not accept any amount of money, because I would never do such a thing.

Even if they never found out, or if we needed the money, and she was alright with it; I still wouldn't do it, because I would feel horrible, and never be able to forgive myself.

CreativeMumble · Answer

I would rather be poor than to feel bad about such a thing. It's not a good enough reason to hurt someone. I really don't agree with cheating. I wouldn't be able to do it.

WalmartFlipFlop · Answer

A million after talking with my partner and if she was offered and ok with it I would support her. I know money isn’t everything and I really don’t care too much when it comes down to it but think about all the good you can do with a million that the offerer was just going to use for sex.

BlackDawn · Answer

5,000$ and I'll consider it. 250,000$ and you got me guaranteed, all kinks on the table except murder

Bubbles45 · Answer

I wouldn't do it to my future husband, no. I don't wanna sink so low as to be a horrible woman like that, I want to be respected by men and in return I'll do the same back. I trust him not to dump me over money too.

Diiamondz825 · Answer

money is the root of all evil. only if you let it root evil. it can be very tempting yes, on the other hand all money isn't good money.
for someone to cheat on someone they love for money it just shows you How low people would go for some pocket change.
I would prefer to be with someone I love that makes me happy then over some money that wouldn't bring me love. money only makes you happy for a Split Second but love will keep you happy for the rest of your life

Xx420xxDANKOxx420xX · Answer

gtfo you're always on the top of my feed. Stop gathering statistics for a third party.

Outofthegrey · Answer

I believe we would come to an understanding past 50k.

MackToday · Answer

It's not something you could survive psychologically intact. The only way is if you were a sociopath or some similar damaged individual.

sawno · Answer

If i where to get an offer like that ill tell them ill think about it. Ill then go to my girl and tell them the offer i got and who tried to make me do it. If she then wants me to cash in ill do it for her but nothing would make me betray her.

sasukeuchiha7 · Answer

No amount of money is enough. Now if you give the powers of s super Saiyan, then that's a different ball game. I could leave her for the power, but I still wouldn't cheat.

SarahsSummer · Answer

I chose $1,000,000 but that’s only in the context of the film you referenced and it would be discussed with my husband. I wouldn’t “cheat” on him for any amount.

btbc92 · Answer

Anybody who cheats on somebody that they commit to for money is just a horrible person.

EyeAmNiceGirl · Answer

We all like to say we would never do it. If real cash money was put in front of you, I bet most of us would consider it; and a fair number of us would do it. I can say I probably wouldn't do it if married (and thus betraying a solemn oath), but if not married, and it would be more on the cheating on a boyfriend level, and some average looking (or better) guy offered me $100,000 to be his for the night, I guess I'm going to have an extra $100,000 tomorrow morning. Might even do it for $10,000.

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