None. She was my first, 26 years ago. After 24 years, I found her again. I waited only for her. If it wasn't going to her, I'd die solo. My whole existence has been predicated on loyalty. How I grew up, if you don't have that, you're past tense. It's her or nothing.
Well what if you both were offered 10 million dollars and were able to split the money and she said she wanted to do it? Would you take half the money or walk away with your manly pride?
We didn't grow up with any money. I've had a fair amount over the years, and tbh... it didn't make me happier at all. We had a similar discussion last night in fact. I'm positive neither of us would go for it. We're relics of another era.
The biological father of 1 of the kids died of a fatal heart attack in his sleep next to her. She didn't even so much as go out for coffee with another guy until I found and recontacted her a decade after he died. She wouldn't even consider it Coach.
Honestly I could never cheat. But in this hypothetical, $250,000 would be just enough without being too much. And I would split the money with my boyfriend. I honestly think anything more than $250000 would make me feel like a high end whore with a madam lol
I’m gonna go $5000 just coz he’d kill me if I turned down that kind of money. I’ve been offered money before, guy asked me to name my price and I just walked away.
No amount of money could by my love or my pride. HOWEVER it is a really tempting offer. The only way I would consider it is IF my SO and I were in a huge financial rutt and desperately needed the money, I would have to make it a mutual agreement in writing (contract) legally binding and I want it in cash.
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This is a great question, and I'm not being critical, but... You should really do an update and explain that this was NOT cheating. They were in financial trouble and they both discussed this and they both agreed it would be for the best. In your title you call it, cheating, and I think that's why so many people are saying it's so horrible. For the record, I would let my wife do it for $5 mil-.(I too, won't spoil the ending, lol)
The question was set up this way on purpose. When people say they wouldn't cheat on their spouse or loved one for any amount of money... I would then come in with the indecent proposal in a comment... saying well what if they said it was okay would you then do it? I needed to set it up this way so I could hit them with the follow up.. make sense?
Ah, that makes perfect sense. Smart. You know that they're going to say, and then you offer a counter-offer. When they still say know, then you raise the stakes. lol But here's the thing with GAG... How hard is it to turn down 10 million imaginary dollars? lol Hell, you may as well made it ten billion dollars. I told you I needed 5 million. The truth is, I would let her do it for 500,000. But I'm thinking in real dollars not fake dollars. I just thought of a question that would make it impossible for women to say no, even though it's still an imaginary question. I'm too afraid to ask it, but I'll give it to you to ask if you want it. LOL
The baby is in need a life-saving operation. You and you and your husband don't have the money and your insurance won't cover it. A man asked to have sex with you for 24 hours and he will cover the cost of the operation and put a million dollars in your joint bank account. What do you do?
I once asked the age old question about the boat tipping over and you were a great swimmer, but your wife and mom can't swim at all. You can only save one, so who do you save? OMG! I think I made one guy cry. lol He told me to never ask questions like that again. ( I think he's still in therapy.)
My question was akin to a hate crime. lol This question isn't new, it's been asked for years. But this was my poll options: *Save mom *Save wife *All just die together. lol
In the movie she never cheated on her husband. They talked about the proposal and decided to accept it. So that cannot be considered cheating when both parties agree to the arrangement! Later he realized he couldn't live with the guilt and broke up with her.
Not worth it. If I am in an LTR with a woman, I have every intention of keeping it going until it comes to an end. Karma has a way of messing with you for bad things, but no amount of money in the world would make me do that.
This was a question oriented towards me, now you're changing it to a partner that I do not have at the moment. I would hope to believe I get a woman that wouldn't do it either.
My answer remains the same. No amount of money is worth the cheating or my girl at the end of the day.
I really wonder how many of the over a 100 respondents who selected "no amount of money" are actually telling the truth, there are a lot of BBS artists and liars in America, and other places nowadays
I'm not interested in sex anyway. Like that dude offering money to the guy so he can sleep with his wife. Like bro, I don't even like sex, you are at a dead end with me. That's not gonna go anywhere. I would never cheat though and if I considered it, well then I know that's the sign to end the relationship.
First priority is consent of my girl.. I mean if my girl is remotely interested in shagging some guy as a one time thing.. I mean I have female friends who would shag Ian Somerhalder for fun.. And If that rich guy is great looking and my girl thinks she would enjoy it or it could be her once in a lifetime opportunity.. To shag a good looking rich guy for pure sexual pleasure.. I will give her 1 hall pass.. Then she can grant her consent for one time.. Than I will gladly take the most amount that person is willing to give... Pay me like 100 Bitcoins.. And then she can go for it.. 😉
Your life partner is your best friend, for the man the sexiest lady, for a girl the greatest man. This is way we should not get into sexual relations without being committed to the relationship. Marriage is commitment. Marriage is unconditional not love. Marriage is not just great sex. When you marry it is for life, no matter what life gives; sickness, health, poverty, wealth, joy or sorrow. No matter what you are committed to each other. There is no excuse for dissolving this union of too people. This takes commitment, you are both committed to make the marriage work at all times in all ages. Looks change, sex changes, but commitment last for a lifetime.
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If your husband is allowing it it's not cheating. My husband and I have been with a few other couples and I was with a guy on my own. With my husbands consent. He has a gallery pass he still hasn't used to be with a woman on his own. To us it's just sex and an experience. We have a love for each other like we haven't had with no other. So if someone offered us money as long as my husband was ok with it I would. But I'd hold out for $50,000.
no money will bring me to do such thing regardless of how he may hurt me. its not about my partner... its about who i am. i am good with money. even if i am dirt poor, you would not be able to bring me down to cheat.
Ask my girl about it, If she accepted then I would do it and leave her after (it's not cheating tho)
If she was a cuck then we don't share the same values and it was a bad match in the first place, it's a win-win and fair situation, better for the both of us and I'd share some of the money if she deserves it, I'm just being honest.
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None. She was my first, 26 years ago. After 24 years, I found her again. I waited only for her. If it wasn't going to her, I'd die solo. My whole existence has been predicated on loyalty. How I grew up, if you don't have that, you're past tense. It's her or nothing.
Well what if you both were offered 10 million dollars and were able to split the money and she said she wanted to do it? Would you take half the money or walk away with your manly pride?
We didn't grow up with any money. I've had a fair amount over the years, and tbh... it didn't make me happier at all. We had a similar discussion last night in fact. I'm positive neither of us would go for it. We're relics of another era.
Okay thanks for the comments.
The biological father of 1 of the kids died of a fatal heart attack in his sleep next to her. She didn't even so much as go out for coffee with another guy until I found and recontacted her a decade after he died. She wouldn't even consider it Coach.
Okay I hear you loud and clear my friend!
Honestly I could never cheat. But in this hypothetical, $250,000 would be just enough without being too much. And I would split the money with my boyfriend. I honestly think anything more than $250000 would make me feel like a high end whore with a madam lol
I’m gonna go $5000 just coz he’d kill me if I turned down that kind of money. I’ve been offered money before, guy asked me to name my price and I just walked away.
5 grand is a lot of money!
That is not a lot of money. You can do a lot better. :-)
Make your offer red 👀
No amount of money could by my love or my pride.
HOWEVER it is a really tempting offer. The only way I would consider it is IF my SO and I were in a huge financial rutt and desperately needed the money, I would have to make it a mutual agreement in writing (contract) legally binding and I want it in cash.
This is a great question, and I'm not being critical, but...
You should really do an update and explain that this was NOT cheating. They were in financial trouble and they both discussed this and they both agreed it would be for the best. In your title you call it, cheating, and I think that's why so many people are saying it's so horrible. For the record, I would let my wife do it for $5 mil-.(I too, won't spoil the ending, lol)
The question was set up this way on purpose. When people say they wouldn't cheat on their spouse or loved one for any amount of money... I would then come in with the indecent proposal in a comment... saying well what if they said it was okay would you then do it? I needed to set it up this way so I could hit them with the follow up.. make sense?
Ah, that makes perfect sense. Smart. You know that they're going to say, and then you offer a counter-offer. When they still say know, then you raise the stakes. lol
But here's the thing with GAG... How hard is it to turn down 10 million imaginary dollars? lol
Hell, you may as well made it ten billion dollars. I told you I needed 5 million. The truth is, I would let her do it for 500,000. But I'm thinking in real dollars not fake dollars.
I just thought of a question that would make it impossible for women to say no, even though it's still an imaginary question. I'm too afraid to ask it, but I'll give it to you to ask if you want it. LOL
Oh I know... so many moral people on GAG.. just gives me chills HA What is the question?
Would you save the baby?
The baby is in need a life-saving operation. You and you and your husband don't have the money and your insurance won't cover it. A man asked to have sex with you for 24 hours and he will cover the cost of the operation and put a million dollars in your joint bank account. What do you do?
May the force be with you. lol
Great question but I am in the dating niche not the saving babies niche.. it would never make the front page LOL
I once asked the age old question about the boat tipping over and you were a great swimmer, but your wife and mom can't swim at all. You can only save one, so who do you save?
OMG! I think I made one guy cry. lol
He told me to never ask questions like that again. ( I think he's still in therapy.)
OMG that is a good one and probably quite triggering for some lol
My question was akin to a hate crime. lol This question isn't new, it's been asked for years.
But this was my poll options:
*Save mom
*Save wife
*All just die together. lol
In the movie she never cheated on her husband. They talked about the proposal and decided to accept it. So that cannot be considered cheating when both parties agree to the arrangement!
Later he realized he couldn't live with the guilt and broke up with her.
Not worth it. If I am in an LTR with a woman, I have every intention of keeping it going until it comes to an end. Karma has a way of messing with you for bad things, but no amount of money in the world would make me do that.
What if she was on board and said yes and the pay off was 10 million dollars?
Still wouldn't do it. I would only want my partner in a committed relationship
Hmmm she wouldn't do it for 10 million huh.
This was a question oriented towards me, now you're changing it to a partner that I do not have at the moment. I would hope to believe I get a woman that wouldn't do it either.
My answer remains the same. No amount of money is worth the cheating or my girl at the end of the day.
Thanks for the comments.
One of the dumbest movies in history.
I was so mad at my ex for making me see that dumb flick with her.
There is no amount of money me and my girlfriend would take. And I don't see either one of us staying in a relationship where it happened.
So you are now exes? Just think you would of been rich and broken up instead of broken up and not... Just saying?
I really wonder how many of the over a 100 respondents who selected "no amount of money" are actually telling the truth, there are a lot of BBS artists and liars in America, and other places nowadays
You are really exposing your character, you are not staining theirs.
@Miristheiss She is right.. it's easy to flex online especially when it's a hypothetical.
Not having sex for money is ol flexing?
Wow
@Miristheiss Yes... because it's 10 million dollars not just "money". That would stop most people to think about it. Thanks for the comments.
And your character on display. Money
@Miristheiss Thanks for the comments.
I'm not interested in sex anyway. Like that dude offering money to the guy so he can sleep with his wife. Like bro, I don't even like sex, you are at a dead end with me. That's not gonna go anywhere. I would never cheat though and if I considered it, well then I know that's the sign to end the relationship.
First priority is consent of my girl..
I mean if my girl is remotely interested in shagging some guy as a one time thing..
I mean I have female friends who would shag Ian Somerhalder for fun.. And If that rich guy is great looking and my girl thinks she would enjoy it or it could be her once in a lifetime opportunity..
To shag a good looking rich guy for pure sexual pleasure..
I will give her 1 hall pass..
Then she can grant her consent for one time..
Than I will gladly take the most amount that person is willing to give...
Pay me like 100 Bitcoins..
And then she can go for it.. 😉
Your life partner is your best friend, for the man the sexiest lady, for a girl the greatest man. This is way we should not get into sexual relations without being committed to the relationship. Marriage is commitment.
Marriage is unconditional not love. Marriage is not just great sex. When you marry it is for life, no matter what life gives; sickness, health, poverty, wealth, joy or sorrow. No matter what you are committed to each other. There is no excuse for dissolving this union of too people. This takes commitment, you are both committed to make the marriage work at all times in all ages. Looks change, sex changes, but commitment last for a lifetime.
If your husband is allowing it it's not cheating. My husband and I have been with a few other couples and I was with a guy on my own. With my husbands consent. He has a gallery pass he still hasn't used to be with a woman on his own. To us it's just sex and an experience. We have a love for each other like we haven't had with no other. So if someone offered us money as long as my husband was ok with it I would. But I'd hold out for $50,000.
*hall pass
no money will bring me to do such thing regardless of how he may hurt me.
its not about my partner... its about who i am. i am good with money.
even if i am dirt poor, you would not be able to bring me down to cheat.
HA HA HA
Ask my girl about it, If she accepted then I would do it and leave her after (it's not cheating tho)
If she was a cuck then we don't share the same values and it was a bad match in the first place, it's a win-win and fair situation, better for the both of us and I'd share some of the money if she deserves it, I'm just being honest.
One night with this person? 1 million and they can have whatever they want for 24 hours. Half before half after. He’d be ok with it lol
I don't know would he?
Yeah it’ll be fine. No one would ever pay that though 🤷🏻♀️
LOL probably not!
That’s sad
Its not sad
If you say
I would rather fall upon my own sword than commit such treachery against my beloved. (If I had one.)
very nice!
Heh, thank you.
More like how much money would I pay to be able to find a husband that’d I’d never intentionally hurt
oooooh good one!
For a million+ dollars
Cheat then show SO the money and the justification that we can use it to buy a house and/or pay off debts. I would expect her to do the same.
Could work!