Would you CHEAT on your partner for 10 Million Dollars?

[coachTanthony]

Would you CHEAT on your partner for 10 Million Dollars?

PLEASE READ: You can tell them or not tell them it's up to you. And yes this is full blown cheating... it's not up for debate.

Hell Yes

There is no amount of money

It would have to be much much more money (leave comment on how much)

See Poll " I am too afraid to tell the truth"

Updates

+1 y

10 million dollars is a lot of money. For those who said they would take the money... I am with you!

If my partner said "Hey I need to have sex with this guy who I don't love, don't like or don't care about in order for us to get 10 million dollars I would say:

Can you stop at the store on the way home, we are out of eggs and milk! :+)-

[DontBlameMe]

Hell yes, then tell him immediately and go on an amazing vacation with him.

I think my boyfriend, and most of my ex's from previous relationships, would slap me if I told them I turned down ten million dollars to remain "loyal" to them. If anything, fucking another guy and then spending a load of cash on my current boyfriend is as loyal as anything, at least I'm sure they'd say the same.

To clarify, if I thought my partner at the time would legitimately be offended by me saying yes to this opportunity, I wouldn't do it if I intended to spend the rest of my life with them, but if I thought they were just being overly protective and jealous and couldn't understand the fact that I can have sex one time with another person to make us ten million dollars, then we probably wouldn't work out anyway just because we have different views on life.

Let me offer this, as well... I'd be thrilled if my boyfriend had sex with another woman for ten million dollars if he came back and told me and then offered to take me on vacation or something. Honestly? I wouldn't even expect that. I'd be thrilled that he managed to make himself ten million dollars, in general, as I think I'd personally feel selfish if I told him that our relationship was worth more than ten million dollars. Who am I to limit my partners' financial growth and career/business aspirations? There's a very good chance, based on probability/statistics alone, that we aren't going to be together for the rest of our lives, anyway, so how can I tell him to pass up ten million dollars now for something that isn't guaranteed to last for any given amount of time anyway?

Yeah... I don't care if people think I'm a slut or just being greedy, but I think it's immoral to hold this against someone, especially if they come back to you honestly presenting the situation and offer to split the money, or at least to spend some of if on you doing something nice together.

[SydneySentinel]

I'm really torn. I can't let someone touch me without trust, so it couldn't just be some stranger or fling. And then if I already have trust and then there's sex, what if I end up developing feelings or some bullshit.
Or what if it's a social experiment of a killer and he kills me because I said yes.
Or my heart would be totally crushed if the person I loved said yes. Fucking devastated man.

I know that's life changing-- that amount of money-- but I don't know if I could come back from that.

[Juxtapose]

I think women put a lot more meaning into sex than men overall. Or maybe I am just an unfeeling bastard lol.

[SydneySentinel]

You know what, you're probably right. And right now I kind of wish I didn't.

[Juxtapose]

Probably because women have to carry the kid for 9 months while guys can just orgasm, leave and then not worry about it. At least that's what I gather from an evolutionary perspective.

[SydneySentinel]

I can see that... and I've already been ditched when I was pregnant.. so from an evolutionary perspective, I won't make the same mistakes again.

[loveslongnails]

That's a lot of "if's". Let's add that you won't be killed, he's disease free, there's no danger, blah, blah, blah. It's simply sex with a stranger who lays a suitcase with $10 million dollars in front of you and says "fuck me and that's all yours, no strings attach, we'll never talk or meet again". Now tell me you and your boyfriend can't "come back" from that for ten million bucks. I realize many people say "oh, it's not the amount of money"... but I'm not buying that. It's about the money. You wouldn't do it for $10 or $100 or $1,000, I'll buy that. But 10 Million?

[Barbarian8]

I love you post. I laughed hard a s a fuck

[loveslongnails]

@Barbarian8 Do you think it's true? I do. LOL I'd like to see someone, especially a woman, who says "Oh, I'd never do that", standing there with her boyfriend, the stranger and a duffel bag full of money. The boyfriend looks over and says..."umm, sweetie... ? " Now if it were a woman offering the boyfriend $10 million, his response would be "honey, wait outside please" . :)

[Barbarian8]

For we I would not do it for certain. Because dignity is above everything

[loveslongnails]

@Barbarian8 It's nice to think so.

[SydneySentinel]

It is a lot of ifs. It be like selling my soul. That is a lot of money, I just hate the idea. Luckily I'd never have to encounter this situation.

[Barbarian8]

Hhhh just make your mind right away and you will be focused on Everything

[loveslongnails]

And THAT'S the difference between most men and most women, I think. Men don't look at it as "selling your soul" at all. They look at it as... are you kidding me? One time sex for 10 million bucks? Where do I sign up? Women romanticize it and think it will haunt them forever till the day they die. Maybe it would for a few, but it's not like you had to KILL an innocent person or something! It's... just... sex !

[Barbarian8]

Dudette. I have said that Dignity is more important than billions and this my opinion and I stick to it. Regarding sex. It is another topic I think where I find women hard to deal. lol

[SydneySentinel]

Eh, it is what it is.

[ChiTown33]

@loveslongnails What i find comical is these same women have probably slept with multiple guys already. The only thing that makes this a "betrayal" of sorts is they're in a relationship now. And the odds say it's not going to last forever lol. You invest it wisely and what not 10 million can last you forever. Lol

[SydneySentinel]

@ChiTown33 So you would do it for the 10 million?
That's true, most PEOPLE have slept with multiple partners already. If they've had a few committed relationships, they have probably had a few partners. And since the odds are against a relationship lasting, we should just choose the money?

[ChiTown33]

I would do it for the money. I would also expect her to do it for the money with another guy given the oprion. 10 million isn't an everyday number. BUT! I would tell her! I wouldn't just do it without her knowledge. And if she wanted to leave me (which 50% of the women agree with me here) then she could. But i will tell you this they way i see it with 10 mill neither of us would ever have to work again. I could make it up to her the rest of my life. I remember taking a personal finance course in college and i remember the instructor saying how finances are the leading cause of divorce. And not just lack of money, time spenr apart.

[SydneySentinel]

Fair point.
Except the never having to work again part... I'd still be worried that I'd need to work. Just to be on the safe side.

[ChiTown33]

We are similar in our thinking there. I guess i look at it like this take 2 million and buy a nice house maybe new cars maybe some toys. Go on a vacation and invest the other 8 mill. That'd still earn you 500k annually at least.
If you wanted to work you could. And maybe there aren't any guarantees in life. But it doesn't get much more guaranteed than that.

[Freshlumberjack]

Me: babe I'm going to cheat on you
Her: wtf no !
Me: it's for 10 mill
Her: can I watch?

[coachTanthony]

Ha ha ha

[Vallius86]

Seems like a loophole but in that situation you're not technically cheating because she knows and you have her permission.

[Juxtapose]

Forgiveness would come awfully quickly once I gave them 5 million dollars :)

[coachTanthony]

You cheated on me? Oh 5 million dollars... it's all good! LOL

[Juxtapose]

Think about it, if you told her about the deal but didn't take it, you just cheated her out of 5 million.

I will be absolutely livid if my partner didn't cheat on me in that scenario. I would 100% want that 5 million cut.

[coachTanthony]

I am with ya. So many people are going about this the wrong way. Cheating for a large sum of life changing money is much different then cheating because they fell in love with someone else!

[Juxtapose]

*would

[Juxtapose]

Yeah, especially if you are giving them half of the money in good faith. People really aren't thinking of how life changing that amount of money is, like you said.

[SydneySentinel]

I don't care. I'd want him to choose no.

[Juxtapose]

@SydneySentinel So if your lover *only* cheated for the money, told you after and gave you half (5 million), you'd have wanted them to turn down the deal?

I really don't get that. I would be *furious* if my lover didn't take the deal or shared any of the money with me.

[SydneySentinel]

@Juxtapose I don't know if I could handle it. Maybe if he told me ahead of time and I could try to process that it was going to happen.

I don't know. I don't physically think I could go through with it unless I drugged myself and had no memory of it.

[CherryRoseChampange]

No, lol I'd just ask my partner about the situation 🤣🤣 knowing him he'd probably be all business like and super protective.

Make sure I ask for a contract with certain things on it to make sure it's safe. Then be like, go ahead. Pretend I cheated on him then say "Yay! We're 10 million richer due to a dumbass." 💀💀😆😆

[CherryRoseChampange]

*Yes

[Warmapplecrumble]

I'd do same lol

[ThisDudeHere]

Then you don't love your partner.

[katiesmuff]

@ThisDudeHere Got nothing to do with love dude!

[ThisDudeHere]

@katiesmuff cheating has everything to do with love. Or, more precisely, the lack thereof.

[katiesmuff]

@ThisDudeHere We each have our own opinions and what we each can live with along with those close too us! Sex is really a very small part of real love!

[CherryRoseChampange]

@ThisDudeHere I disagree lol, considering the fact we discuss everything. Our relationship is closer than ever, obviously if he said no I wouldn't do it. But I doubt he would because that's a lot of money and if we did it safely, I mean, what does it matter?

I don't care if he wants to sleep with someone else on a regular day. He just has to let me know and be safe. He's never done it but the option is there. Which makes cheating kinda dumb tbh lol. We're both understanding/open minded. We work as a unit. I think that shows love in it's best form for us.

[Legromorph]

Yes, thats it!

[katiesmuff]

Very well salid

[anniisa]

I would discuss with my partner first because if I'm in a committed relationship be would be benefiting with the 10 million too. We will decide together

[anniisa]

He would be*

[Appetite]

You're saying no to cheating because you prefer to communicate beforehand.

You can't have the cake and eat it.

[anniisa]

@Appetite I mean it's still sleeping with another person whilst being in a relationship that is not open🤷‍♀️

[Appetite]

Yeah, but you discussed it with your partner and you reached an agreement about it.
Is it still cheating if both of you are on the same page?

[anniisa]

@Appetite depends on how you look at it.

Whoever is paying me still got me to be with them for 10million whilst being in a relationship with someone else. Might not be "Cheating" in terms of doing it behind his back but it's not exactly not cheating either. Especially when most couples who are not in an open relationship that would have consented would always have it at the back of their minds and still be uncomfortable knowing what happened.

[anniisa]

Plus all the asker asked was to be honest on what we would do in that situation. That's me being honest. I would be clever about it and not blindly let my partner down like that

[lucas262]

The imagine that comes to mind is giving her up to some other guy to bang so i see her get dolled up and walk out the door. I'd feel like a complete cuck.

[sapphireruby]

@Appetite but what if the person giving out the money doesn't know that?

[DishLady]

Interesting. No, I wouldn't cheat. Betrayal is never worth the faustian contract.

[aWes0MeNeSs]

No, I don't think I could sell away my morals like that or hurt someone I cared about.

[Secret6620]

Sameeeeee 😞

[Desconhecida]

If I really love someone, there is no price in the world capable of making me betray their trust

[TonyMetal_86]

Wonderful answer

[Desconhecida]

@TonyMetal_86 thanks! 💋

[TonyMetal_86]

Your welcome dear 😊

[Twenty2]

Do you love someone so much?

[jennifer_bloom]

I wouldn't because I don't need money - God says in the bible that if you seek God - He will give you everything you need.

[Secret6620]

Perfect 👌

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

I wanna say "no", but honestly, I'm not sure if I could turn down $10m if the offer were actually on the table, as that could really advance my life purpose and allow me to do a lot of good in the world. But it would mean doing something I consider to be abhorrent along the way, so it's that age old question of "do the ends justify the means?" And I don't know, if I started pampering my girlfriend, deep down I'd know it's funded by "blood money" essentially. The guilt would probably catch up on me. If she's like, the love of my life, I think I'd turn the money down and just try to earn it through hard graft instead. If it's a girl I'm just casually involved with while waiting for something better to come along, then I'd probably take the money and run tbh lol

[Benny_Oakley]

Exactly

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

Come to think of it, I think I'd rather be happy with a woman I love, rather than be a lonely millionaire living alone in some cold empty mansion, unloved and unwanted coz he sold his soul for a cash injection. On that basis I would turn the money down. And anyway, I believe I'm smart and resourceful enough to make something approaching this sum of money through entrepreneurship, etc. It's like people who win the lottery, they spend it all coz they know deep down they didn't "earn" it. Their self image isn't ready to be rich. I think I'd prefer the journey of becoming the person who DESERVES to make $10m, rather than be given it outright.

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

Okay, my final answer is "no". I can feel the temptation to cross to the "dark side", but I would bite my tongue and stick to my morals.

[coachTanthony]

Tom Tom Tom 10 million dollars! How many people could you HELP live a better life? I would hate to see you say no and she break your heart... that would be terrible. But I respect your decision.

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

I get that. It's just I know how it feels to be cheated on, and I resolved to myself I'd never put someone else on the receiving end of that experience as a result. I can do plenty of good in the world without compromising my values. That's how evil creeps in; one compromised value at a time. I'lld do like Frank Sinatra and Do It My Way ;) appreciate the interesting discussion though, this was a real thinker!

[coachTanthony]

I know how it feels to be cheated on too and if she did it for 10 million dollars and not because she wants some other's guys cock then I am not too sure I would feel bad. It's a lot of money man. I would put it up there with her cheating on me with another woman... I could give a shit... deal me in on the action sweet heart! Again, I respect your opinion. It's a tough question for sure.

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

Yeah I can see some merit in viewing it that way. But even if I did view it in those terms, part of me would question whether I'm only telling myself what I need to hear in order to justify my actions. It would take a lot of mental gymnastics on my part to be okay with it, which is usually a sign I've lost my way.

Now, if I approached my girlfriend about this topic beforehand, and she agreed to it and we split the money in half... then in my mind that's basically her giving me a "free pass" so we can enjoy the spoils of victory together lol. But a "free pass" I consider different from "cheating", so I don't think this would pass the terms and conditions of your indecent proposal haha

[coachTanthony]

I made sure it was 10 million so you could spend a good amount on therapy ! HA

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

ha! touche!

[SueAnon84]

CoahTanthony, why do you assume that that's the kind of person his partner is/was? !

[SueAnon84]

Sorry, is lol!

[BluesheepOwl]

I would hate myself if I did such a thing... But I could do great things with that money and solve a lot of world problems... in exchange for breaking someone heart and becoming the scum of the earth. I don't want to be that person and a cheater is disgusting. Plus at the end of the day greed is a sin. So I'll say no I won't cheat.

[coachTanthony]

I think many women are assuming you will be breaking some guys heart and I just don't think that is the case. You are cheating for money not someone else's love.

[BluesheepOwl]

But what if the two people involved in the relationship love each other? Wouldn't it crush the person to know that their partner cheated on them for money over their love?

[coachTanthony]

10 million dollars is not just money... I think more people would be pissed if they turned the money down.

[MementoMori_]

Give him half the money and it won't hurt so bad!

[RoxiFromTheDark]

I’m cheating and I’m not telling. I’m also gonna take my money and go and live happily ever after with my son and family rn. I wouldn’t want to risk being loved for only money or getting used it’s happened to me before and I’ve kind of learned never to trust nobody when you can do something for them and just don’t do period.

[coachTanthony]

So are you staying with your partner but not telling him you cheated or where you got the money?

[RoxiFromTheDark]

I just said I’m not telling and im gonna go with people who will always 💯 love me fuck a man lol that’s my life goals I really want to be rich and live with my fam and than date as a rich woman ^.^.

[coachTanthony]

So you are breaking up with your partner after you cheat on him for the money? Just trying to get clear here!

[RoxiFromTheDark]

Yes 💯 but if I’m honest I would have one hundred percent did it eventually anyways I am not planning on ever staying with someone long term and honestly getting rich would spend the process of a breakup up for me

[coachTanthony]

Oh gotcha! Okay well thanks for the comment! Appreciate the honesty!

[SueAnon84]

Woah that's pretty evil! Just hope you don't keep his child (of which he has rights to) away from him though. That's all!

[RoxiFromTheDark]

Why would it be evil? 🙄 I can choose to not date anyone long term and being honest about it isn’t evil and where did you see me mention that and I have a son on my own I can take my son anywhere if I were to have a boyfriend there would be no kid between us I got my child already and don’t want anymore

[nightdrot]

This is an easy one - NEVER!! Never ever!!!

My girlfriend - and the three little gifts she has given me who call me "Daddy" - is the center of my universe. She makes me happier than I have ever been. She makes me feel a thousand feet tall. She makes me feel like a man. When I am stressed or worried she will, without saying a word, just hold my hand or give me a hug. When I get on my high horse - and I do that a lot - my girlfriend does not yell or shout or argue. She just rolls her eyes, kisses me on the cheek and smiles at me.

Give me 10 million dollars without her and I would be the poorest rich man on Earth. No one, nothing, could ever mean more to me. I love her with all my heart and no amount of money could ever replace her.

[Harmseygrace]

And people think love doesn't exist. That sounds beautiful.

[nightdrot]

@Harmseygrace Yup. She - and the little munchkins she gave me - are the best things in my whole live. I don't know where I would be without her.

[Harmseygrace]

That's awesome. That sounds really nice.

[Daniela1982]

The odds today is that you will break up, married or not. So may as well get paid well in advance for it happening. Sometimes you just have to be proactive. Show me the money!!

[ThisDudeHere]

That's a pretty crappy and bleak attitude to have. God have mercy on whoever ends up with you.

[Daniela1982]

@ThisDudeHere Are you refuting my comment that the odds today of people staying together for the long term is bleak? Statistics don't lie my friend.

[ThisDudeHere]

Statistics also make it clear that 100% of people always die at some point in their life - doesn't mean your whole life has to revolve around death.

[Daniela1982]

@ThisDudeHere We're not talking about giving up $10 mil to die, we are talking about losing $10 mil to live a better life than struggling with guys who may dump you in a month or two.

[ThisDudeHere]

And if he wouldn't cheat on you? How can you positively know he would unless you think poorly of literally everyone? With that kind of attitude, you're basically asking to be cheated on and don't deserve someone who'd actually trully love you and would stay loyal.

[Daniela1982]

@ThisDudeHere Do you even know what this thread is about? Obviously you are taking things here way too seriously, like you think any of this would actually happen. But if it was real there would be a line wanting to collect that would make the line of people trying to get into the US look like a singles night out at the local greasy spoon. People marry for a lot less, so $10 mill to split up would be on par.

[Maraneva]

I'm still single but if I happened to have a girl, then no, wouldn't cheat. Because after all, all those dollar bills won't be able to tell you "I love you" or speak anything for that matter. You can't listen to money, you can't talk with it, you can't laugh with it. If you happen to be stranded with it somewhere, you can't do anything with it at all.
Sure you can buy a gold digger with it but then again, that digger is definitely gonna go in search of greener pastures once you run out.
The choice is obvious I think. No cheating on a person who invests their emotions in you. Period.😊

[Anonymous]

Because , my partner would be a fool to not understand that this cheating I DECIDED to take on was beneficial for both of us and Our children and the children of our children. I think not only I would cheat but dump him anyway if he was irritated about this. The right partner would get it.

[coachTanthony]

I hear ya on that!

[SueAnon84]

I think it depends on how in love with my partner I was. But I picked B, hell no! I don't need to have that much money to survive. If I really cared about him, I don't think there's any amount of money that would convince me to want to hurt or betray a loved one like that!

But I think given people's mentality, I think what they are trying to say is that money is. ore important than their SO! And even if they didn't get the 10 million dollars, they would still cheat anyway! . . Interesting!

This was a hard question but I guess if I can tell them that I "cheated" for the money? ! Maybe then they would understand? You said we could tell them!

[fashionguy17]

Yes. And because you left a loophole in this.

You said:
You can tell them or not tell them it's up to you.

Not sure if you meant tell them as in tell them I will get 10 mil for cheating or tell them whether or not I am cheating. If I told them, I would split the 10 mil with them... so its a win-win. It would be cheating with a purpose that could benefit my partner and I.

[coachTanthony]

Tell them anything about it... it would be up to you.

[IYQYQR1111]

I selected hell yes but I wouldn't keep it from him. I would tell my boyfriend the deal and see if he was okay with it. 🤷‍♀️I mean come on its 10 million. I'd let him do it if the situation was reversed.

[luvsemthic]

To see if it's "ok" with him? Fuckin A! Glad I'm not your boyfriend! If I were I'd take the money and kick you to the curb!

[IYQYQR1111]

I feel like I answered it well. I mean even if I wasn't seriously asking him it's good to talk about stuff like that even if it's just an what if because who is really gonna pay that much for sex with a stranger. All that being said go fuck yourself because my opinion doesn't effect your life so what's with the hostility?

[coachTanthony]

@IYQYQR111

[IYQYQR1111]

Thank you.

[luvsemthic]

Hostility? It was just a fuckin question! But I see how people like you that have no fuckin morals or standards! Thats part of what's wrong with society now days! Stay out of it coach!

[IYQYQR1111]

Because you know my character and morals by one comment. You're funny!

[coachTanthony]

@luvsemthic

[ecfresh]

Yes, I would emotionally cheat. Once the money is secure admit every detail, tell them it was for the money, then split it 50/50 with them and ask for forgiveness

[coachTanthony]

Liking the honesty here!

[ecfresh]

Easy, you can’t find a lie on GaG from me

[God_of_Thunder]

Hell, no.

There's no amount of money that would be worth making me a shitty person, in my own eyes. That's a lot of money, but it would cost me my self respect, and that's not worth it. I could never do that to her, even if she didn't find out. I would still know.

[SueShe]

The replies here once again show how corrupt and oversexualized our society is and how little importance it places on decency, education and behavior.

Sex and money prevails and rules, even here on GAG. It is rather shameful to realize that even a large number of girls think only with their genitals. I would have thought that this was the sole prerogative of men. I realize that some females can be just as vicious, calculating and oversexed b****.

[wallyworld12]

Secret6620 are you offering and this is you way of getting applications lol. That's genius. First off who pays 10 million dollars to cheat lol like.. I would have so many questions 😂 that better be a hell of a show and you better not give me roofies in my coffee.. I know some people look up to Bill Cosby.. but I'm not about that.. and no tieing me up.. I know I'm a catch and all but like I can't be tied down.

Sign this waver.

I secret 6620 will pay 10 million dollars and will not roofy, drug Wally often, or toe him down. Also no diseases will be present.

Sign ___________________

[Secret6620]

You're not very bright. 👋👋👋

[normalice]

Probably, but no amount of money could make me aroused by a girl I'm not attracted to. And the sort of girl who pays for sex isn't likely to be the sort I find attractive.

But I guess that's not really the point of the question. Any girl I am with would have to know the value of 10 million dollars over a few minutes of loveless sex. I wouldn't expect her to be super thrilled, but if she couldn't understand that such a thing would not be intended as preferring someone else's mind or body over hers, then we shouldn't be together in the first place.

Now, if she had set herself up as the "provider" in our relationship, then that's different - as she would be justified in taking that as me preferring someone else's provisions. But if I'm the provider, then I can assure you I do far more questionable things for money than just getting my dick wet.

[Gods_Gift]

I think I would... But that's partly because I'm not with anyone right now. Most of my past relationships have been quite shallow and unserious, at least I never felt hugely in love with them. If I did, and risked losing them, it would give me pause for thought - even then I'd probably discuss it with them, with a hint of "Let's get this over with and grab the money".

There's a parallel question - "How would you feel, and what you do, if your partner cheated on you for $10 million, or suggested it?"

And another point - who am I meant to be cheating with? A nice young hottie? An elderly woman with diseases? A man? A football team?

[Secret6620]

Yes it's a question and answer site you see parallel questions EVERY day. Thanks for the post 💕

[Gods_Gift]

Oh, I meant that logically that other question could be asked, not that it already had been asked! I had half a mind to ask it myself.

[Secret6620]

Ahhh gotcha. ❤️

[Mickey9999]

Interesting question and I didn’t vote. One, would I cheat for the money? No. Two, would I expose the proposition to my SO? Of course. Would I consider it if my SO was fine with it? Well this is where it get fuzzy. It’s not cheating if you have your partner consent but I’m not sure how I’d feel if the shoe was on the other foot. Not to mention what if I was against it by my SO was all for me doing it. I’d be offended he’d want to prostitute me out. It’s just money and it doesn’t solve all your problems. Most would blow through it and end up with the same problems or worse financially. So I’m gonna go for an all around no, it’s not worth it.

[SarahElizabeth98]

Don’t think my conscience would allow me. I’d feel disgusted at myself and back out of it even if I considered it. I won’t sell myself, my body to somebody for any price. My self-respect is worth more than 10mill. I saved myself for the one person I loved and didn’t have anyone else in my life except for him so without a shadow of a doubt I would never ever do something as disgusting as this. I would be disgusting if someone could trade something so precious like love which nobody can ever put a price on for something as worthless as 10mill which will be finished in the blink of an eye.

[Anonymous]

I feel like this is one of those genie/monkey paw questions where you have to be careful of what you wish for, like there are so many questions, like am I picking the person I cheat with? Where is the 10 million coming from? Do you have to tell your partner? Then in the reverse, I could only be mad at the situation if he cheated and then left me vs. he cheated...for the money...but it's for us. I'm a horrible person. Yeah. Yup. Either way. I have a ton of medical bills and money would actually make me happier than knowing I stayed loyal.

[Secret6620]

Great post 😊

[teamvic]

Oh I'd do it

I'd be like listen baby girl I luv you and that but I can't skip this once in a life time opportunity

Tell you what after this I'll take you to burger king

[coachTanthony]

Ha Ha Ha

[SirRexington]

I'm single. But assuming I wasn't, o don't think I could mentally do that. Even when I had a girlfriend it was not easy for me to have sex with her because our relationship was built out of convenience rather than emotional bond.

So I don't know. I'd definitely tell my partner. I'd most likely tell her, "you won't believe what I was asked today. Legit contract and everything... if i cheated on my partner, that being you, I'd get 10million dollars. What do you make of that?"

I still imagine cheating on my ex, while we were in a good place, the idea of having sex with another woman felt wrong and repulsive.

[anawells]

Sorry NO! It'd hurt me so much and I won't be able to forgive mysel if I cheat on my sweetheart. So, what I am going to do with this money anyway while being in pain? They won't make me happier and everytime I buy smth with it it will remind me what a sheaty beatch I was.

[Daniela1982]

Just remember you said this 5 years from now when he dumps you and you wind up without the money.

[anawells]

@Daniela1982 why would he dump me?
If he does... at least I am going to be happy with myself that I didn't do anything I would regret. Poor but with clean conscience.

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

My questions are:
- Who organizes this?
- Who is the person I will cheat with?
- What is he like?
- How far do I have to go on the cheating?
- Can I earn 10m Dollars on my own?
- How much do I have to pay for the tax after receiving the money. (I'm not sure what it's called?)
- Can my partner make this amount of money? How long?
- Does he want it too?

And the last but not least...
- Where is my partner?
😅😅😅

[coachTanthony]

Great Questions! No idea.

[Tim-loves-it]

LOL Too much thinking on it, but wise though.

[hellionthesagereborn]

No. Whats the point of having morals and principles if your just going to abandon them when its convenient? Cheating is immoral and the goal is to be moral, saying its okay to be immoral if it sates your greed isn't a justifiable act in my opinion (plus money or not, you've now destroyed your relationship).

[coachTanthony]

Yeah but we are talking about 10 million dollars. Greed is one thing.. 10 million can help a shit ton of people that I love... so sorry if I find your morals a joke. I do respect your comment and opinion though. Just want GAG to know.

[hellionthesagereborn]

If you think they are a joke then you cannot respect my comment. You may find my values wrong in your opinion, but I find your lack of values disturbing. You should be allowed to do it mind you, but it will ultimately be a detriment. You cannot say you care and then without hesitation hurt those closest to you. You cannot say that it would be a benefit because quite honestly your not doing it for them, as you said it would be cheating i. e. they have not consented to the betrayel, so you have disregarded their opinion and their feelings, you have risked destroying that relationship and their sense of self (I know a man who is currently raising a child that isn't his because of his wifes infidelity. That anger doesn't go away and more then likely that child will suffer because of it. It doesn't stop with one act, its a chain reaction that goes off into the future). So again, you can do as you wish, but I would ask, if your willing to betray some one you claim to love and who loves and trusts you, why care about the price? Why not betray them for free or because you where just horny? Its the same result either way. Further more I would ask, how much for you to kill some one? You have no shown that your values are mutable, so how much money for you to kill some one? I mean again, you've shown that money matters more then what is right so whats the price for you to abandon any of your other values?

[coachTanthony]

Killing someone is illegal. Thanks for the comments. Let's move on.

[hellionthesagereborn]

So if it wasn't would you?

[Anonymous]

I'd say yeah, but it depends on who with and if they have any diseases. If it was with someone absolutely hideous and/or they have HIV or some sort of serious incurable STD... Then no. I also want to know am I able to discuss this with my partner. Can my partner also get 10 million if she cheats as well? Is it cheating if we both agree to it? I need much more details and a signed contract stating I'd get paid for my service. If some random chick, extremely hot, came up to me and was like I'd give you 10 million dollars if you cheat on your partner with me... I'll have to pass because I wouldn't buy it. Pun intended.

[Anonymous]

lol i seriously might then explain it to them I mean... 10 mil 🤷‍♀️ I think there get over it possibly 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

[Opinion Owner]

We’d split it too it would make a totally diff life. If there was zero emotional attachment I could get over it.. I’m not saying yes but I can’t say I wouldn’t consider it

Maybe I’d discuss it with him

This sounds like a twighlight zone episode

They are rich but hate each other 😂

Good getting to know you question for a first date 🤦‍♀️😁😁

[Opinion Owner]

Next post should be:

Could you forgive your SO cheating for 10
million $$

I would say yes ☝️

[coachTanthony]

Oooooh la la... that would be a great follow up Question!

[SueAnon84]

Hehe 😈 🤑 😛

[Opinion Owner]

@SueAnon84 😂😂

[Opinion Owner]

I’m curious to know the childhood economic status of people saying true love would never cheat for 10$

You can move away that person will be out of your life and you won’t Be able to remember
It while swimming in the ocean of the resort you own lol 🤷‍♀️

[celin98]

NO, i wouldn't cheat my irish man even for 50 million dollars or more. because money is temporary but our love is permanent❤👫🏻♾cheating for people who doesn't have a honor. noone can't buy my honor for money. if you really love someone you shouldn't betray him/her.

[Secret6620]

Sooooooo true. I love this post. Thanks 💕

[Bwyze]

Straight off the top my answer would be No... I would hate to cheat on my partner... there is a righteousness in not cheating/staying with the one you are with... working situations out... this is part of the reason why men where told to have their own wife/wives... since I came from not cheating (found out a girlfriend of mine was cheating on me)... to cheating (to where I started)... to teach myself how to stop cheating (schooled myself)... and it's worked for years... money is not everything... all money is not good money... manna... versus the heart... the heart is more important than anything---this is why Yahweh checks the heart...

[Secret6620]

😊😊😊

[Chadnelson1973]

No amount of money would allow me to cheat on a woman.
First you work hard to date and get a lucky woman to hopefully fall in love with you.
Two she deserves to know you will be 💯 percent faithful
Three there's to much to try and repair the damages are done and the chance that she will never forgive you or trust you again is to risky and to high of a price to pay
Four if there's children in the relationship they have a right to know that their parents are going to be faithful also if you cheat on your spouse you also cheat on your children.
Five if you cheat they will learn that it's acceptable to cheat
I have never cheated on a woman
My parents never cheated on each other.
Cheating can lead to divorce and child payments and alimony also cheating is a criminal offense it's called adultery

So cheating is way to expensive regardless of the promise of money or a job promotion

[Chadnelson1973]

Nope

[Chadnelson1973]

I don't care how much money I was offered or a job in a company or property etc offered no amount would I ever cheat in a relationship ever... No amount would be worth it

[Jammers14]

Yes.
And I hope they would do the same.
My partner should realize I didn’t do it to hurt them, but that I’ve set us up with $10mil for our future together.

[Neeceeb7]

Yes fuck ya I would. People have cheated on me for free. So at least I can give them some cash as a consolation prize. I would tell them if I was allowed and I would assume we where done I would give them the option and try to make it easy for them

[ThisDudeHere]

So wait, just because you were cheated on in the past, you'd do the same to someone else? That makes you no worse than the ones who cheated on you.

[Neeceeb7]

No it doesn't have as anything to do with the past. I'm saying they cheated for nothing. That's a lot of money. And I would be honest with him or her. I wouldn't hide. That's the worst part of being cheated on is the betrayal and lies for me. So I would be upfront they can stay or go I'd give them the info to make an educated decision. That's what I have not gotten from people

[Neeceeb7]

And I'm sure with 10 million dollars th hey are gonna be like fuck ya you did that thing. He will get over it real quick

[eeeeep]

I would definitely fuck someone for 10 million. Just a tenth of that would set us up for life and 9 million dollars could go to Saint Judes or doctors without borders. I'll take a dick for the cancer kids and then get one of those donation nametag things to put on the hospital😂

[Secret6620]

Lol thanks for the post 💕

[Skelmir_Nathair]

No such thing as cheating.
My partner best be proud of me for securing that kind of resources. Just for sticking my dick in another woman. Cause if she got that for letting another dude fuck her. I truly wouldn't care.
You think physical fidelity means anything? You're small minded.

[coachTanthony]

I agree... it’s not like they are cheating because they love the person it’s for 10 million... no brained in my opinion.

[Skelmir_Nathair]

You have to understand that a lot of ladies will think we're very misogynistic for thinking these kinds of things. The actual issue is, a cultural one that has resided over from our foundations. Our country was founded by Puritans. Lot of people don't understand that. Christian religions teach the anything natural is wrong. The simple fact is, it's the natural monkey thing to do to mate with multiple partners. Physical Fidelity literally means nothing. Emotional mental Fidelity now, that's something else altogether.

[Skelmir_Nathair]

We try to pretend we aren't still animals. Its funny

[Harmseygrace]

No I could never ever cheat. It's sad how many people said yes.

[GigiMary]

I wouldn't. Even though ten million is a lot, cheating would require I betray his trust to a degree I couldn't fathom. That would stay wit me for the rest of my life.

It is dirty money, and whatever I bought with it would be tainted with regret, guilt, and sorrow for the rest of my life.

[Moonchild714]

No!! I've cheated for free in the past thats because I didn't think I deserved a healthy relationship and they were too nice to let me hate myself so I had tp make them hate me. After years of therapy, I haven't betrayed a man in over Nine years. Theman I'm with now, I Love him and his Son with All my Heart and would Never Hurt them for ANY Reason that is Within My Power!!!

[GhettoGirl]

I'd cheat on a man for $10 if the guy I got to cheat with was hot af and cheating too.

[coachTanthony]

Wow you didn't even go Anon for that comment... rEspecT!

[GhettoGirl]

I'm not trying to be anybody's somebody so if a guy assumes well we know what that is, his Disneyland.

[Wowgirl30q]

Haaaaa😅😅🤣🤣😭

[SpiderLady]

I want to say yes, get paid even if it destroys a relationship, but I know myself. Say I cheat for the 10 mil, hurt this person but get paid and etc. What then? I wouldn't be able to look at myself. It'd be like murder. I would be exchanging my integrity and my sense of self for a fat check and that isn't worth any amount of money in my opinion. I honestly wouldn't be able to live with myself.

[coachTanthony]

How do you know it would hurt the person? It’s for 10 million dollars not for love of another person?

[SpiderLady]

Even if it didn't hurt the other person, even if they encouraged me to do it, I know I'd be a pussy and wouldn't be able to go through with it. My integrity isn't worth it and I'd likely end up resenting that money. In fact I might even consider leaving my partner if they encouraged me to do it lmao.

[Salmon4056]

No, I'm not money hungry to go cheat on the one I love. For someone to say yes would sadly show that persons true colors

[Juxtapose]

I would be absolutely livid if my partner didn't take that deal and split the money with me.

[celin98]

nope! cheating for people who doesn't have a honor. noone can't buy my honor for money. if you really love someone you shouldn't betray him/her.

[StephenCF]

@patrick Well, well, well... we meet again, ugly loser stalker. You do realize she’s talking about not cheating on people, yet that’s exactly what you’re trying to encourage her to do 😅 Get your own woman!

[Nayrr]

Yeah. I would just simply tell I her I did it for 10 million dollars. I ask her to forgive me and we live in paradise for the rest of our lives.

[coachTanthony]

That would be the best case scenario for sure!

[VIVANT]

Basically 🤷‍♀️

[SueAnon84]

Could you really split your emotions like that and have no trouble with feeling guilty that you hurt them deeply like that? !

[Nayrr]

I wouldn't feel guilty for securing our entire life financially

[VIVANT]

Sex is just mechanical if there’s no love

I wouldn’t be hurt at all

It’s not like they are sneaking about

One time thing 🤷‍♀️

[KyleAsks]

No, I refuse to ever participate in any form of cheating. It's disgusting, damaging and my conscience wouldn't be able to cope nor would I want it too. Lowest of the low, anybody who cheats unless there's extreme circumstances but even then, there's other options.

[Secret6620]

Thanks for sharing 💕

[Fate_Design]

I mean, if it's only a one time thing, I could totally explain to my partner before, doing it and after that, live happily with her and 10 million dollars. The only issue to me would be that it is a form of prostitution.

[Aethereal]

If I did that, I would be implying that I believe it is acceptable to cheat and be cheated on for money (or something else of value). I'm not tossing away my morals so easily. Besides, I wouldn't want my partner to do that to me; so I have no right to consider doing it if I'm not okay with having it done to me.

[Lynzerilee]

Men are always ready to cheat, and for cheap meat or much less money than that.

[coachTanthony]

So negative! LOL

[Lynzerilee]

Look at the poll lol

[coachTanthony]

10 million isn't nothing to sneeze at... we aint' talking about a box of Ritz Crackers!

[Lynzerilee]

Say the same to the majority of girls who said no. And you say women are materialistic.

[Juxtapose]

Any man with a lick of sense would be furious at you for not taking the deal and then splitting the money with them.

[Anonymous]

I had to give you a thumbs up for this question just because i'm loving the women's responses. None want to give even a hint that they'd ever even think about being unfaithful lmao, and i get that. But you'd have to be pretty well off already to not do this for 10 mill.
Obviously i wouldn't want my partner to cheat on me. But if she showed me 10 million dollars ( while i wouldn't relish the thought of her cheating on me) I'd have to tell her "that's my girl"! Now i'd just have to hope now that we got 10 million she doesn't leave me lol
On the flipside without question i'd cheat for 10 million. Because 10 million buys a lot of apolgies. And i would apoligize to her everyday for the rest of my life. And it would be worth it.

[hafinjun]

If I didn't and she found out I'd be In more trouble then if I had cheated on her, and anyway I could afford the lawyer (shes reading this over my shoulder) lol

[coachTanthony]

Ha Ha Ha no doubt! She is one smart cookie!

[Kurodo]

10 million dollars for whats basically a one night stand? I'm not betting my life with any diseases here I assume... I'd just go back to my partner 10m richer, explain the whole thing and we'd be pretty good.

[CharlieBadger]

Totally, and you know what. I think she would forgive me for that one. Especially when we are moving into our new home and paying off all of our debts.

And I would totally be cool with her cheating for 10 million bucks.

Hell, I would do it just to get us both out of debt.

[sawno]

Pay up front in bitcoin and be attractive and ill do it, and then immediately tell her afterwards showing her the money. If i get the oppertunity to i'd inform and ask her first, but that kind of money would mean a great future for me and her so i'd do it for her.

[YetiG]

I'm extremely against it, but money is money. I'd bring the option up with my s/o and have an honest, long conversation about it. I feel like if it's only a one time there's a possibility it would be ok but I'd feel terrible during it.
If I had to keep it quiet from my s/o and I couldn't ask them for THEIR opinion then there is no amount of money in the world I'd do it for.

[FaolanGrey]

I said yes but hear me out. Its 10 million dollars. I have sex with 1 other girl and come home with 10 million dollars. I tell her exactly what happened and we go on an amazing vacation and live the rest of our life in glory. Yea getting cheated on sucks and I would never ever do it to the one I love... unless I got us enough money to not have to work and be able to live happy together for the rest of out lives. That to me is worth the initial shock.

[CubsterShura]

Where is the no option?

I'd not do it for any amount of money. Money can't buy you a good partner, maybe a rich or attractive one but not a good character. I'd never trade money for a good partner, never.

[Lauren-green]

Hell yes and my partner would be on board with that aswell.. I mean 10 million dollars? Whose going to say no to that 😅