I think I would... But that's partly because I'm not with anyone right now. Most of my past relationships have been quite shallow and unserious, at least I never felt hugely in love with them. If I did, and risked losing them, it would give me pause for thought - even then I'd probably discuss it with them, with a hint of "Let's get this over with and grab the money".
There's a parallel question - "How would you feel, and what you do, if your partner cheated on you for $10 million, or suggested it?"
And another point - who am I meant to be cheating with? A nice young hottie? An elderly woman with diseases? A man? A football team?
Interesting question and I didn’t vote. One, would I cheat for the money? No. Two, would I expose the proposition to my SO? Of course. Would I consider it if my SO was fine with it? Well this is where it get fuzzy. It’s not cheating if you have your partner consent but I’m not sure how I’d feel if the shoe was on the other foot. Not to mention what if I was against it by my SO was all for me doing it. I’d be offended he’d want to prostitute me out. It’s just money and it doesn’t solve all your problems. Most would blow through it and end up with the same problems or worse financially. So I’m gonna go for an all around no, it’s not worth it.
Don’t think my conscience would allow me. I’d feel disgusted at myself and back out of it even if I considered it. I won’t sell myself, my body to somebody for any price. My self-respect is worth more than 10mill. I saved myself for the one person I loved and didn’t have anyone else in my life except for him so without a shadow of a doubt I would never ever do something as disgusting as this. I would be disgusting if someone could trade something so precious like love which nobody can ever put a price on for something as worthless as 10mill which will be finished in the blink of an eye.
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I feel like this is one of those genie/monkey paw questions where you have to be careful of what you wish for, like there are so many questions, like am I picking the person I cheat with? Where is the 10 million coming from? Do you have to tell your partner? Then in the reverse, I could only be mad at the situation if he cheated and then left me vs. he cheated...for the money...but it's for us. I'm a horrible person. Yeah. Yup. Either way. I have a ton of medical bills and money would actually make me happier than knowing I stayed loyal.
I'm single. But assuming I wasn't, o don't think I could mentally do that. Even when I had a girlfriend it was not easy for me to have sex with her because our relationship was built out of convenience rather than emotional bond.
So I don't know. I'd definitely tell my partner. I'd most likely tell her, "you won't believe what I was asked today. Legit contract and everything... if i cheated on my partner, that being you, I'd get 10million dollars. What do you make of that?"
I still imagine cheating on my ex, while we were in a good place, the idea of having sex with another woman felt wrong and repulsive.
Sorry NO! It'd hurt me so much and I won't be able to forgive mysel if I cheat on my sweetheart. So, what I am going to do with this money anyway while being in pain? They won't make me happier and everytime I buy smth with it it will remind me what a sheaty beatch I was.
@Daniela1982 why would he dump me? If he does... at least I am going to be happy with myself that I didn't do anything I would regret. Poor but with clean conscience.
No. Whats the point of having morals and principles if your just going to abandon them when its convenient? Cheating is immoral and the goal is to be moral, saying its okay to be immoral if it sates your greed isn't a justifiable act in my opinion (plus money or not, you've now destroyed your relationship).
Yeah but we are talking about 10 million dollars. Greed is one thing.. 10 million can help a shit ton of people that I love... so sorry if I find your morals a joke. I do respect your comment and opinion though. Just want GAG to know.
If you think they are a joke then you cannot respect my comment. You may find my values wrong in your opinion, but I find your lack of values disturbing. You should be allowed to do it mind you, but it will ultimately be a detriment. You cannot say you care and then without hesitation hurt those closest to you. You cannot say that it would be a benefit because quite honestly your not doing it for them, as you said it would be cheating i. e. they have not consented to the betrayel, so you have disregarded their opinion and their feelings, you have risked destroying that relationship and their sense of self (I know a man who is currently raising a child that isn't his because of his wifes infidelity. That anger doesn't go away and more then likely that child will suffer because of it. It doesn't stop with one act, its a chain reaction that goes off into the future). So again, you can do as you wish, but I would ask, if your willing to betray some one you claim to love and who loves and trusts you, why care about the price? Why not betray them for free or because you where just horny? Its the same result either way. Further more I would ask, how much for you to kill some one? You have no shown that your values are mutable, so how much money for you to kill some one? I mean again, you've shown that money matters more then what is right so whats the price for you to abandon any of your other values?
I'd say yeah, but it depends on who with and if they have any diseases. If it was with someone absolutely hideous and/or they have HIV or some sort of serious incurable STD... Then no. I also want to know am I able to discuss this with my partner. Can my partner also get 10 million if she cheats as well? Is it cheating if we both agree to it? I need much more details and a signed contract stating I'd get paid for my service. If some random chick, extremely hot, came up to me and was like I'd give you 10 million dollars if you cheat on your partner with me... I'll have to pass because I wouldn't buy it. Pun intended.
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lol i seriously might then explain it to them I mean... 10 mil 🤷♀️ I think there get over it possibly 🤦♀️🤦♀️
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We’d split it too it would make a totally diff life. If there was zero emotional attachment I could get over it.. I’m not saying yes but I can’t say I wouldn’t consider it
Maybe I’d discuss it with him
This sounds like a twighlight zone episode
They are rich but hate each other 😂
Good getting to know you question for a first date 🤦♀️😁😁
NO, i wouldn't cheat my irish man even for 50 million dollars or more. because money is temporary but our love is permanent❤👫🏻♾cheating for people who doesn't have a honor. noone can't buy my honor for money. if you really love someone you shouldn't betray him/her.
Straight off the top my answer would be No... I would hate to cheat on my partner... there is a righteousness in not cheating/staying with the one you are with... working situations out... this is part of the reason why men where told to have their own wife/wives... since I came from not cheating (found out a girlfriend of mine was cheating on me)... to cheating (to where I started)... to teach myself how to stop cheating (schooled myself)... and it's worked for years... money is not everything... all money is not good money... manna... versus the heart... the heart is more important than anything---this is why Yahweh checks the heart...
No amount of money would allow me to cheat on a woman. First you work hard to date and get a lucky woman to hopefully fall in love with you. Two she deserves to know you will be 💯 percent faithful Three there's to much to try and repair the damages are done and the chance that she will never forgive you or trust you again is to risky and to high of a price to pay Four if there's children in the relationship they have a right to know that their parents are going to be faithful also if you cheat on your spouse you also cheat on your children. Five if you cheat they will learn that it's acceptable to cheat I have never cheated on a woman My parents never cheated on each other. Cheating can lead to divorce and child payments and alimony also cheating is a criminal offense it's called adultery
So cheating is way to expensive regardless of the promise of money or a job promotion
I don't care how much money I was offered or a job in a company or property etc offered no amount would I ever cheat in a relationship ever... No amount would be worth it
Yes. And I hope they would do the same. My partner should realize I didn’t do it to hurt them, but that I’ve set us up with $10mil for our future together.
My questions are: - Who organizes this? - Who is the person I will cheat with? - What is he like? - How far do I have to go on the cheating? - Can I earn 10m Dollars on my own? - How much do I have to pay for the tax after receiving the money. (I'm not sure what it's called?) - Can my partner make this amount of money? How long? - Does he want it too?
And the last but not least... - Where is my partner? 😅😅😅
Yes fuck ya I would. People have cheated on me for free. So at least I can give them some cash as a consolation prize. I would tell them if I was allowed and I would assume we where done I would give them the option and try to make it easy for them
No it doesn't have as anything to do with the past. I'm saying they cheated for nothing. That's a lot of money. And I would be honest with him or her. I wouldn't hide. That's the worst part of being cheated on is the betrayal and lies for me. So I would be upfront they can stay or go I'd give them the info to make an educated decision. That's what I have not gotten from people
I would definitely fuck someone for 10 million. Just a tenth of that would set us up for life and 9 million dollars could go to Saint Judes or doctors without borders. I'll take a dick for the cancer kids and then get one of those donation nametag things to put on the hospital😂
No such thing as cheating. My partner best be proud of me for securing that kind of resources. Just for sticking my dick in another woman. Cause if she got that for letting another dude fuck her. I truly wouldn't care. You think physical fidelity means anything? You're small minded.
You have to understand that a lot of ladies will think we're very misogynistic for thinking these kinds of things. The actual issue is, a cultural one that has resided over from our foundations. Our country was founded by Puritans. Lot of people don't understand that. Christian religions teach the anything natural is wrong. The simple fact is, it's the natural monkey thing to do to mate with multiple partners. Physical Fidelity literally means nothing. Emotional mental Fidelity now, that's something else altogether.
I wouldn't. Even though ten million is a lot, cheating would require I betray his trust to a degree I couldn't fathom. That would stay wit me for the rest of my life.
It is dirty money, and whatever I bought with it would be tainted with regret, guilt, and sorrow for the rest of my life.
No!! I've cheated for free in the past thats because I didn't think I deserved a healthy relationship and they were too nice to let me hate myself so I had tp make them hate me. After years of therapy, I haven't betrayed a man in over Nine years. Theman I'm with now, I Love him and his Son with All my Heart and would Never Hurt them for ANY Reason that is Within My Power!!!
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I think I would... But that's partly because I'm not with anyone right now. Most of my past relationships have been quite shallow and unserious, at least I never felt hugely in love with them. If I did, and risked losing them, it would give me pause for thought - even then I'd probably discuss it with them, with a hint of "Let's get this over with and grab the money".
There's a parallel question - "How would you feel, and what you do, if your partner cheated on you for $10 million, or suggested it?"
And another point - who am I meant to be cheating with? A nice young hottie? An elderly woman with diseases? A man? A football team?
Yes it's a question and answer site you see parallel questions EVERY day. Thanks for the post 💕
Oh, I meant that logically that other question could be asked, not that it already had been asked! I had half a mind to ask it myself.
Ahhh gotcha. ❤️
Interesting question and I didn’t vote. One, would I cheat for the money? No. Two, would I expose the proposition to my SO? Of course. Would I consider it if my SO was fine with it? Well this is where it get fuzzy. It’s not cheating if you have your partner consent but I’m not sure how I’d feel if the shoe was on the other foot. Not to mention what if I was against it by my SO was all for me doing it. I’d be offended he’d want to prostitute me out. It’s just money and it doesn’t solve all your problems. Most would blow through it and end up with the same problems or worse financially. So I’m gonna go for an all around no, it’s not worth it.
Don’t think my conscience would allow me. I’d feel disgusted at myself and back out of it even if I considered it. I won’t sell myself, my body to somebody for any price. My self-respect is worth more than 10mill. I saved myself for the one person I loved and didn’t have anyone else in my life except for him so without a shadow of a doubt I would never ever do something as disgusting as this. I would be disgusting if someone could trade something so precious like love which nobody can ever put a price on for something as worthless as 10mill which will be finished in the blink of an eye.
I feel like this is one of those genie/monkey paw questions where you have to be careful of what you wish for, like there are so many questions, like am I picking the person I cheat with? Where is the 10 million coming from? Do you have to tell your partner? Then in the reverse, I could only be mad at the situation if he cheated and then left me vs. he cheated...for the money...but it's for us. I'm a horrible person. Yeah. Yup. Either way. I have a ton of medical bills and money would actually make me happier than knowing I stayed loyal.
Great post 😊
Oh I'd do it
I'd be like listen baby girl I luv you and that but I can't skip this once in a life time opportunity
Tell you what after this I'll take you to burger king
Ha Ha Ha
I'm single. But assuming I wasn't, o don't think I could mentally do that. Even when I had a girlfriend it was not easy for me to have sex with her because our relationship was built out of convenience rather than emotional bond.
So I don't know. I'd definitely tell my partner. I'd most likely tell her, "you won't believe what I was asked today. Legit contract and everything... if i cheated on my partner, that being you, I'd get 10million dollars. What do you make of that?"
I still imagine cheating on my ex, while we were in a good place, the idea of having sex with another woman felt wrong and repulsive.
Sorry NO! It'd hurt me so much and I won't be able to forgive mysel if I cheat on my sweetheart. So, what I am going to do with this money anyway while being in pain? They won't make me happier and everytime I buy smth with it it will remind me what a sheaty beatch I was.
Just remember you said this 5 years from now when he dumps you and you wind up without the money.
@Daniela1982 why would he dump me?
If he does... at least I am going to be happy with myself that I didn't do anything I would regret. Poor but with clean conscience.
No. Whats the point of having morals and principles if your just going to abandon them when its convenient? Cheating is immoral and the goal is to be moral, saying its okay to be immoral if it sates your greed isn't a justifiable act in my opinion (plus money or not, you've now destroyed your relationship).
Yeah but we are talking about 10 million dollars. Greed is one thing.. 10 million can help a shit ton of people that I love... so sorry if I find your morals a joke. I do respect your comment and opinion though. Just want GAG to know.
If you think they are a joke then you cannot respect my comment. You may find my values wrong in your opinion, but I find your lack of values disturbing. You should be allowed to do it mind you, but it will ultimately be a detriment. You cannot say you care and then without hesitation hurt those closest to you. You cannot say that it would be a benefit because quite honestly your not doing it for them, as you said it would be cheating i. e. they have not consented to the betrayel, so you have disregarded their opinion and their feelings, you have risked destroying that relationship and their sense of self (I know a man who is currently raising a child that isn't his because of his wifes infidelity. That anger doesn't go away and more then likely that child will suffer because of it. It doesn't stop with one act, its a chain reaction that goes off into the future). So again, you can do as you wish, but I would ask, if your willing to betray some one you claim to love and who loves and trusts you, why care about the price? Why not betray them for free or because you where just horny? Its the same result either way. Further more I would ask, how much for you to kill some one? You have no shown that your values are mutable, so how much money for you to kill some one? I mean again, you've shown that money matters more then what is right so whats the price for you to abandon any of your other values?
Killing someone is illegal. Thanks for the comments. Let's move on.
So if it wasn't would you?
I'd say yeah, but it depends on who with and if they have any diseases. If it was with someone absolutely hideous and/or they have HIV or some sort of serious incurable STD... Then no. I also want to know am I able to discuss this with my partner. Can my partner also get 10 million if she cheats as well? Is it cheating if we both agree to it? I need much more details and a signed contract stating I'd get paid for my service. If some random chick, extremely hot, came up to me and was like I'd give you 10 million dollars if you cheat on your partner with me... I'll have to pass because I wouldn't buy it. Pun intended.
lol i seriously might then explain it to them I mean... 10 mil 🤷♀️ I think there get over it possibly 🤦♀️🤦♀️
We’d split it too it would make a totally diff life. If there was zero emotional attachment I could get over it.. I’m not saying yes but I can’t say I wouldn’t consider it
Maybe I’d discuss it with him
This sounds like a twighlight zone episode
They are rich but hate each other 😂
Good getting to know you question for a first date 🤦♀️😁😁
Next post should be:
Could you forgive your SO cheating for 10
million $$
I would say yes ☝️
Oooooh la la... that would be a great follow up Question!
Hehe 😈 🤑 😛
@SueAnon84 😂😂
I’m curious to know the childhood economic status of people saying true love would never cheat for 10$
You can move away that person will be out of your life and you won’t Be able to remember
It while swimming in the ocean of the resort you own lol 🤷♀️
NO, i wouldn't cheat my irish man even for 50 million dollars or more. because money is temporary but our love is permanent❤👫🏻♾cheating for people who doesn't have a honor. noone can't buy my honor for money. if you really love someone you shouldn't betray him/her.
Sooooooo true. I love this post. Thanks 💕
Straight off the top my answer would be No... I would hate to cheat on my partner... there is a righteousness in not cheating/staying with the one you are with... working situations out... this is part of the reason why men where told to have their own wife/wives... since I came from not cheating (found out a girlfriend of mine was cheating on me)... to cheating (to where I started)... to teach myself how to stop cheating (schooled myself)... and it's worked for years... money is not everything... all money is not good money... manna... versus the heart... the heart is more important than anything---this is why Yahweh checks the heart...
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No amount of money would allow me to cheat on a woman.
First you work hard to date and get a lucky woman to hopefully fall in love with you.
Two she deserves to know you will be 💯 percent faithful
Three there's to much to try and repair the damages are done and the chance that she will never forgive you or trust you again is to risky and to high of a price to pay
Four if there's children in the relationship they have a right to know that their parents are going to be faithful also if you cheat on your spouse you also cheat on your children.
Five if you cheat they will learn that it's acceptable to cheat
I have never cheated on a woman
My parents never cheated on each other.
Cheating can lead to divorce and child payments and alimony also cheating is a criminal offense it's called adultery
So cheating is way to expensive regardless of the promise of money or a job promotion
Nope
I don't care how much money I was offered or a job in a company or property etc offered no amount would I ever cheat in a relationship ever... No amount would be worth it
Yes.
And I hope they would do the same.
My partner should realize I didn’t do it to hurt them, but that I’ve set us up with $10mil for our future together.
My questions are:
- Who organizes this?
- Who is the person I will cheat with?
- What is he like?
- How far do I have to go on the cheating?
- Can I earn 10m Dollars on my own?
- How much do I have to pay for the tax after receiving the money. (I'm not sure what it's called?)
- Can my partner make this amount of money? How long?
- Does he want it too?
And the last but not least...
- Where is my partner?
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Great Questions! No idea.
LOL Too much thinking on it, but wise though.
Yes fuck ya I would. People have cheated on me for free. So at least I can give them some cash as a consolation prize. I would tell them if I was allowed and I would assume we where done I would give them the option and try to make it easy for them
So wait, just because you were cheated on in the past, you'd do the same to someone else? That makes you no worse than the ones who cheated on you.
No it doesn't have as anything to do with the past. I'm saying they cheated for nothing. That's a lot of money. And I would be honest with him or her. I wouldn't hide. That's the worst part of being cheated on is the betrayal and lies for me. So I would be upfront they can stay or go I'd give them the info to make an educated decision. That's what I have not gotten from people
And I'm sure with 10 million dollars th hey are gonna be like fuck ya you did that thing. He will get over it real quick
I would definitely fuck someone for 10 million. Just a tenth of that would set us up for life and 9 million dollars could go to Saint Judes or doctors without borders. I'll take a dick for the cancer kids and then get one of those donation nametag things to put on the hospital😂
Lol thanks for the post 💕
No such thing as cheating.
My partner best be proud of me for securing that kind of resources. Just for sticking my dick in another woman. Cause if she got that for letting another dude fuck her. I truly wouldn't care.
You think physical fidelity means anything? You're small minded.
I agree... it’s not like they are cheating because they love the person it’s for 10 million... no brained in my opinion.
You have to understand that a lot of ladies will think we're very misogynistic for thinking these kinds of things. The actual issue is, a cultural one that has resided over from our foundations. Our country was founded by Puritans. Lot of people don't understand that. Christian religions teach the anything natural is wrong. The simple fact is, it's the natural monkey thing to do to mate with multiple partners. Physical Fidelity literally means nothing. Emotional mental Fidelity now, that's something else altogether.
We try to pretend we aren't still animals. Its funny
I wouldn't. Even though ten million is a lot, cheating would require I betray his trust to a degree I couldn't fathom. That would stay wit me for the rest of my life.
It is dirty money, and whatever I bought with it would be tainted with regret, guilt, and sorrow for the rest of my life.
No!! I've cheated for free in the past thats because I didn't think I deserved a healthy relationship and they were too nice to let me hate myself so I had tp make them hate me. After years of therapy, I haven't betrayed a man in over Nine years. Theman I'm with now, I Love him and his Son with All my Heart and would Never Hurt them for ANY Reason that is Within My Power!!!