Would you cheat on your partner for ten million dollars and some change?

[coachTanthony]

There are no stipulations. You can tell them, you can not tell them. You can share the money with them. You can basically do it anyway you want. Do you go for the pay day?

Hell yeah

No never

see poll ( I would need to know what the change is )

[Anonymous]

i can't believe im wasting my time responding to this asinine question but no i wouldn't cheat not for 10 mill not for any amount because i know what it's like to be cheated on. the asshole D_*i had no problem cheating on me continuously in our relationship so no i wouldn't cheat and put anyone through that kind of pain and suffering and heartbreak. i have to live with the consequences of my actions and it wouldn't be worth it. i'm the one who has to look at myself in the mirror each day knowing what i did and how much cheating on someone could hurt the other person. i'd rather have my morals and know i'm going to heaven then not have any morals like majority of the whores in this shithole site and this hellhole of a world who have no problem cheating one damn bit regardless if money is involved or not, the bible said majority of people are going to hell and very few are going to heaven which going by today's really fucked up society proves to be true. america the new babylon of the BC days olden days. Sodem and Gamora

[loveslongnails]

Either one of us couldn't sign up fast enough, Coach! LOL It's just sex - but 10 million dollars sets us up for life. Is there $20 million in it for us if we both do? LOL

[coachTanthony]

No lol

[loveslongnails]

That's fine - $10 million is plenty.

[coachTanthony]

LOL. It really is

[Aerissa_Jade]

There was a Youtube show on this, a few years ago I saw a few episodes. Wish I could recall who it was... but it was pretty funny cause it wasn't even 10 million dollars, it was like 50k and here is a briefcase full of it.

They would ask couples walking out of grocery stores and such and this one guy, was like hell ya you can have sex with my wife for 50k then turned to look at her and she had this pissed off look, like you didn't even ask me.

The show didn't really do it, it was all on hidden camera. In this one case, they took her aside and told her it was not real and she played along, got in the car with the guy, they went out to dinner, all recorded and then went back and she acted like it was the best time of her life.

Most people were like no, won't do that but a few were like this guy and some couples did end up breaking up.

I personally would talk to my man about it and see what he thought. Then make the decision together.

[Guardian45]

Would you?

[Chrissydamusicgirl]

Exactly I’d talk it out before any actual decision. But I’d personally want it bc I have financial troubles rn and could actually rlly use it.

[zeitgeist057]

@Chrissydamusicgirl talking about it first is the right way to go, but honestly I have amazing communication with my girl and I know I could act without her pre-approval, and she could act without mine.

@Aerissa_Jade the one thing about that guy saying "yeah go ahead have sex with my wife" is it's really not his decision. That's like her saying "yeah go ahead you can shove a broom handle up my husband's ass and give me $50K." lol

[Anonymous]

i'm not in a relationship but i hope the person i would be with isn't stupid enough to turn down 10mil, they could break up with me but 10mil would ensure a happy life forever

[coachTanthony]

Common sense prevails !

[MarkHrdman]

Without you and with 10million dollars 😅
wouldn't it just be easier for everyone to say theyre going out with you for the chance draw for 10mil, lol

[Guy13]

Priorities of the individual and couple as a whole must be considered.

Whose to say that she wouldn't be looking for the girl for me to cheat with. The intent of taking half and "divorcing and living in a tropical country." "No... no... no, Babe-it's okay. We will live happy after after."

-Yeah, she'll be on beach or island somewhere wasting "All my money !!"

[Apple1996]

Yes my partner would probably encourage me to do it

[Guardian45]

Whaaaat? Why?

[annabananna]

10 mill that’s why 😂

[Apple1996]

@annabananna yeah he'd be all about the money

[Guardian45]

*whoa*😳 How about you?

[red324]

@annabananna i would she's gonna dump me eventually anyways

[Nuthouse]

Same here lol

[JamesHarrys]

I don't know, women tend to be really stingy with their money.
The whole: "His money is our money, her money is her money" you know.

[red324]

@JamesHarrys Stingy? Huh? Most women I meet are broke lol

[JamesHarrys]

@red324 Ever heard of biology? Women are rarely the breadwinners, and most don't want to be. They expect men to provide. It's neither right nor wrong, it's 300,000 of human evolution. Exceptions exist though, but that doesn't make it the rule. And if they're broke, and you're both serious in your relationship, don't you think it's normal that they'll expect you to help them financially?

[grierwrange]

Are you poor? The only reason I’d understand is if you’re living paycheck to paycheck otherwise it can’t be justified just greedy

[Apple1996]

@grierwrange for sure poor. My kids eat all our money 🤑

[grierwrange]

Sounds more like poor parenting than poverty

[Apple1996]

@grierwrange obviously that was just a joke. Only once has one of my kids ate money and it was just a penny 🪙

[red324]

Lmao #corny jokes

[red324]

@annabananna wouldn't that be great? I could travel the world and never work another day in my life.

[Dtate]

So you're a prostitute?

[Dtate]

And you're boyfriend is a pimp. Right?

[OlderAndWiser]

Doesn't matter whether she would know. I would know. . . and I would deal with myself far more harshly than she would.

[Avicenna]

Now who's going admit they would?

[coachTanthony]

LOL the comments are gold

[TrillXHippy]

Not me cause I know what I wouldn’t do for no amount of money

[Vegasrunner]

@Avicenna In a heartbeat. Reality is most people would cheat for 10,000 let alone 10k

[JamesHarrys]

Honestly I would. I would tell my partner before though.
If she's hurt by the decision I would compensate her financially, break up and move on.

Now, if we're married then the decision has to be mine and hers.

[zeitgeist057]

100% would communicate it to my partner. There's no point in being with someone you're lying to, unless all you want is a superficial relationship. Honesty is a must for intimacy. The more honesty, the more intimacy.

[AviatorTom]

Yes, and then I would immediately tell her about it and why I did it... so that we could live more comfortably

[SteveSmith1985]

No. Never.

[EmyyWolf]

Yup! But depending on who to cheat on him with. And him never finding out. I’d do it for the benefit of both of us. In this world money rules.

If it’s with this inbred looking weirdo

NO!

.

If it’s with this guy!

YES!

Either of them

I’d split the money with my husband.
😈😈

[Hhikl]

Lol I will already have this money anyway. But go ahead so I can take half and leave your ass for having another man’s penis inside you 🤮🤮🤮🤮

[EmyyWolf]

@Hhikl
You right I won’t give him shit then

[EmyyWolf]

@Hhikl
If he find out and breaks up. I’ll just find a new sucker 😈

[zeitgeist057]

100% I would. I know my partner would understand and honestly 10,000,000 with or without the change is far above my/our "buy out" price. She'd be excited if I did it for 1 million even, because that would mean we could do some pretty nice vacationing together and fulfill a lot of our goals (like for example I could help her start a business she's been working toward).

how much do you think this is?

[Red-Blaze]

Never will, except if they maybe agree to it, if there my partner they got a part in my life, and get a part in deciding that
Even then honestly not sure il do sex for 10M I see sex as a kind of thing that has importance, and doing it for moeny feel degrading to that, as money is such a worthless thing in the end, it come and go, but its not something anyone really care about in the end of stuff

Owww wait 10M with change.. aww maybe? (No.. not really)

[Vegasrunner]

@Red-Blaze Money is worthless lol.

[Red-Blaze]

@Vegasrunner Ya.. that did not escape me 😏
But honestly money is worthless out of its perceived value

[Vegasrunner]

@Red-Blaze Anyone that went from not having money to having money would probably disagree w/ you.

[Red-Blaze]

@Vrgasrunner "Out of its perceived value" - Red-Blaze last comment
I completely agree with you

[Vegasrunner]

@Red-Blaze I'm confused. Money doesn't have "perceived" value it has tangible value.

[Red-Blaze]

Ok
You and X stuck on an island and very likely never rescued
You got 200,000 million dollars in cash
X has food
You think he will trade his food for your money?

Or.. how happy will you be to be a multi bilinear in belarusian ruble will you be happy?

[Vegasrunner]

@Red-Blaze That's a hypothetical situation that has an extremely low probability of ever happening. Also the value of the 200 million doesn't change, its still worth 200 million. Your currency apology proves that money has tangible value because if the value can rise and fall then it is in fact tangible.

[Red-Blaze]

Well what is money worth? what backs it?

Money is an agreement and if we decide to stop agreeing on it (Belarusian rubles for example) its worthless outside of the metrial its made of
Money only has value if you see it as having value
If you dont know what I mean just learn money history and where it started
I think I heard Duck Tales has a great video on it

[coachTanthony]

My lambo

[Vegasrunner]

@Red-Blaze Money is "worth" whatever tangible asset you can trade it for, currently that is all of them. That agreement is being executed every day. I've done extensive research on money, it's called operating successful businesses in America for over a decade using "worthless" money as the only metric for success and to date no merchant, client or customer has broken the agreement to accept it in return for goods or services. Correct, but currently everyone in the world sees money as having value including you and I. I'm not sure what "Duck Tales" is but I can understand how television could skew your reality because your statement is more of a disney fairytale vs how the world actually operates. Have u tried telling that to the single moms that struggle everyday to keep lights on and a roof over their children's head?

[Red-Blaze]

@Vegasrunner
I think you are compeletly miss understanding me
You may also missed I said "in the end"
Also yes pepole agree that money is worth X, so its worth is what you decide to view it as

Duck Tales was or is a tv show, and I understand it had a great history lesson on how money really works

How much worth dose bitcoin has? how much worth dose Belarusian rubles have? how much worth dose huge round stones you can't move worth?
The simple thing is in the end they are worth nothing on there own, there only worth is when... again.. you give them presived value, in the end they got no value of them self, and that is what I was saying

[Vegasrunner]

@Red-Blaze Unfortunately you're just wrong. I don't know what you mean by in the end, but if you've ever had to burry someone the first thing you'll realize is that everyone comes after the money first. Even dead people have to settle their accounts. So it's not worth what "u decide" it's worth what asset u can trade it for. I don't watch a lot of TV unless it specifically pertains to one of my industries so I would be leary of taking advice from sit coms. You're confusing the value of an asset w/ the worth of money, Bitcoin's value will rise and fall just let any other asset stocks, homes etc that does not make it worthless, it simply means it is worth more or less at that specific time. I understand exactly what you're saying because at one time I was a naive 20 year old college student as well however once u reach the real world u realize that that money is the one consistent in the world.

[Red-Blaze]

@Vegasrunner
Funny, money is consistent...
Anyway I honestly don't think you are understanding my point of view at all, or what I am saying
And honestly I got no idea how to explain it any better
So guess I will close here

Regardless just because everyone run after a piece of paper dose not make it self worth more then what it is, like a pricey iPhone that loses its value when its not new

Its not a sitcom its a history lesson animated and made interesting, you prefer boring books enjoy that then

Regardless Hope you have a happy life and when you get to its end you get there sutisfied with what ever you decide to do with it :)
Best of luck

by the way I am out in the real world and dealt with death, I am aware of all that comes with it that taken like a year to sort it all out in the end
But you be you :)

[Vegasrunner]

@Red-Blaze I understand your POV it's just wrong. You're literally describing while attempting to discredit it. An iPhone is not like money as iPhone are not acceptable forms of trade for the majority of financial transactions that take place which as we acknowledged earlier was a pre-requisite for the value of money. If you are truly out in the real world then you would understand that what you are saying is wrong.

[Red-Blaze]

@Vegasrunner
I live in the real world, and few things I do know is its not all black and white
And things got more then a single layer
You can't see beyond your own layer means that no.. you dont get my POV as then you understand I am right and so are you, and yes that is possible

But if you just want to insist you get it, then do that, arguing with a point of view you can't see is going to be pointless

[Vegasrunner]

@Red-Blaze One of the things that is black and white is the value of money. Something that you have already admitted to knowing, you're simply attempting to argue because you're ego won't let u admit you were wrong. You're POV is pretty standard and has been held by hippie liberals since the inception of capitalism. Just like all of them once u grow up you'll understand how foolish a statement that is, as money is the most important and one of the most valuable resources in the world.

[Red-Blaze]

@Vegasrunner
So your trying to say the pot is black then?
I agree with you in one view you are correct, but between us you are the one trying to argue there is only one option for this
Again if your life is all about money, well what ever makes you happy I guess

Just FYI money is a repression of a resource and not a resource on its own
Money on its own is worthless, its only when it got something to back it that it has any worth, and yes its not black and white, except if you just don't understand the very basic of what that piece of paper/cloth/stone is again balsrion rubble is worth nothing.. that was the point I made at the very start, people dont accept it any more because no one is backing it with nothing
And on top of that most of the money today dose not even have backing its completely imagery, so you be you I guess
But sounds like you don't even understand what it is you see as so important at all honestly

[Vegasrunner]

@Red-Blaze I take it u were educated in the American school system? As I said b4 I understand your hypothetical liberal POV because I've heard it a million of times typically from spoiled brats that don't understand what its like to be w/out money. Go look up the definition of resource and you'll see that money is literally included in the definition. In your search to be correct you're making yourself sound foolish. Money is currently backed in fact this is literally being proven right now, anyone that had their money in a regional bank last week could tell u that. It sounds like u need to actually go out and make some money of your own and then u will understand it a little better.

[Red-Blaze]

@Vegasrunner dismissing a point is not showing much in the way of really showing more
You are stuck in your view, because no I did not learn in the US I don't live there
And as said before I work I earn I got the money I need, over that may be nice but is not needed

I got my view on the world that you don't share
Please understand the simple fact that not everyone thinks like you
I am grown up enough to understand there is more then one view

Over all just FYI your breaking multiple logical falsies of dissection like call of authority and so on

I get it, money is really really important for you, I got stuff that are worth much more for me
Ik ow mind bending, but hey, maybe someday you grow up and understand that :) (this is a joke in case in go over your head)

[Vegasrunner]

@Red-Blaze Difference is it's not really my view" it's reality. You're view is based on an unrealistic hypothetical. In fact u yourself don't even believe in your own view, as u have made it clear that you need money. When it comes to money, every mentally stable adult in the world thinks like I do because it's the reality of the world. Money is also really important to you which is what makes your view so hypocritical.

[Red-Blaze]

@Vegasrunner look end of the day this is pointless your so stuck on what you think that you completely missed the point
And FYI reality is money is worthless its only that it has a backing of something else that give it any worth
Again learn the history, its neat

Anyway money is just the paper to help make things easier, and no its not that important
Point stand that a relationship has more value to me from 100M dollars
making that worthless

If you still don't get it, then well have a good life

[Vegasrunner]

@Red-Blaze Feel free to believe that however everyday reality proves you wrong. Your biggest mistake is that you don't seen to understand the difference between currency and money, you keep equating "paper" w/ money which tells me you don't know what you're talking about. The fact that a relationship "has more value to you" is completely irrelevant to what society values as a whole. Your statement isn't unique, every hs and undergraduate holds this view when they're starting about because the naively believe the world is supposed to be fair, however once you hit the real world you quickly lean that it isn't. You keep claiming money's worthless yet your own actions contridict this.

[Red-Blaze]

I don't understand?
Boy, you got on my question 😅
Reality is what most do or don't dose not matter to that
And yes thanks for finally understanding we are not even talking about the same terms
And to point out you got on my answer with your term that is not my term here, so for the most part, irrelevant

[Vegasrunner]

@Red-Blaze Correct, you dont seem to understand the difference between currency and money, which makes since seeing how you don't have any. Correct we are not talking about the sane things, I'm speaking about reality, you're speaking more from a young idealistic, delusional POV. Yes, anytime I see someone write something factually incorrect, I respond because misinformation is a dangerous thing rn in society.

[Red-Blaze]

@Vegasrunner
So your just here to push an idea that has nothing to my post
Clearly you got too much time in your hands :)
But really when you go with something like "How you don't have any" you made the point your not listening your just arguing, because you are not really reading I am done good day sir

[Vegasrunner]

@Red-Blaze Lol, it's always funny how someone criticizes others for how they spend their time when they are doing the exact same thing w/ theirs. There's no "idea" to post I saw something factually incorrect and simply responded to it.

[JDAC092299]

I think I would, People these days are so fickle and something as small as a comment from a distant or new friend can change how they feel about you sometimes even if you’ve been with someone for years. As much as I’m a firm believer in helping each other grow and being faithful to work through mine and my partners problems together, that sentiment is rarely ever shared and I also believe that you should always look out for number one even when growing with someone else as I’m paranoid. So to gamble an opportunity to gain that much money for a relationship that could truly end any day would be stupid.

[DizzyDesii]

You never said it had to be physical so yes i’d emotionally cheat on them for that amount of money. And then i’d tell them that it was due to lack of quality time BUT that i never did anything physical with the other guy. AND that I would like to try to work things out while away together on a perfect getaway to wherever they wanna go (since im rich now)

[DizzyDesii]

This is talking boyfriend level. If its a husband then no because of religious reasons. But either way i wouldn't PHYSICALLY cheat on anyone

[coachTanthony]

I think most guys would rather you just bone some guy then get emotional about someone. Be a good poll question.

[DizzyDesii]

Nah people have overasked that question enough already. We know they find both types to be trash. But idc. In this scenario i would not physically cheat but i’d emotionally cheat. A lot of men i know have gotten over that faster

[coachTanthony]

Yeah just meant physical so it's a NO for you then. What if he said honey do it for us?

[DizzyDesii]

Its not a no because you didn't specify. So i’m stickin to my guns. And as for your scenario, then he would also be trash for pimpin his girl out for cash

[coachTanthony]

It's a no if it was physical correct?

[DizzyDesii]

A yes for emotional. A no for physical. The main question didn't specify which. No guy would have to push me to cheat emotionally because that could happen for free. He’d have to push me to cheat physically but thats something i wouldn't do for any amount of money as stated above

[coachTanthony]

Yeah the assumption is physical because you can't prove emotional cheating. But you are correct I did not specify so that's on me.

[DizzyDesii]

How can you not prove emotional cheating? Flirting with someone and texting someone in a flirty way is emotional cheating. Yes you are physically acting it out but its all emotional to me. You dont want anything physical with the person but you’re enjoying the attention and so on. Physical cheating to me is physically touching someone, kissing them, having sex etc. I could be wrong. But thats how i’ve always seen physical vs emotional. Now if you mean emotional cheating as in telling another guy you love him? Nah i wouldn't do that until i’ve broken up with someone. If you mean telling em “crap im starting to fall for you” then yea thats emotional and i’ve probably done that. But i still would be physical with someone until i’ve ended a relationship

[coachTanthony]

Just because you flirt with someone or text someone doesn't mean you are cheating emotionally unless you mean it. It's just an act unless you find someone you really do have feelings for but don't act upon it physically. This is for 10 million dollars so something has to be proven here and the physical can be.

[DizzyDesii]

You’re not understanding the context of the words. There are sooo many things that can be said that are proof enough for emotional cheating otherwise couples wouldn't breakup over the things they see their men/women texting outside the relationship

[coachTanthony]

I am not saying it doesn't exist. But If I update the question and say you get 10 million dollars if you cheat on your partner tomorrow you can't emotionally cheat on someone in a day. Emotional cheating takes time and a build up with someone you have feelings for or starting to have feelings for. It can't be measured authentically when 10 million is on the line. Not saying normal couples don't go through it and it doesn't exist.

[DizzyDesii]

Okay well that makes more sense. I’d just let you hold the 10 mil until its built up enough to be considered emotional

[CheeseMonster]

That sounds doable. I could probably find someone to go on a few dates with to count as my partner, and then go on a date with someone else to cheat on them. And I'd just tell them about it so they know that's all it is. Boom, we all get some money and no drama happens.

[coachTanthony]

I know I didn't include contest rules so if that is acceptable then it's smart way to go.

[Unit1]

I know I said I'm a money monster and puts money above everything else but on some things I am not compromising. This being one of them.

Do I want 10 million money? Hell yes, who doesn't?

Would I do that for the money? Not a chance.

And if she did it? We're over! The number you have dialed is not available.

[coachTanthony]

What if she said do it and let's be rich?

[Unit1]

I'd question her sincerity in her request and i might feel guilty going with it. She definitely won't like it unless she's a cuckquean.
If she keeps pushing me towards it, it'll put me back in the gray area of this difficult decision.

[saffoler]

First and foremost if the person involved isn't clean; it is a definite no. Secondarily I would ask my partner if they were okay with it. If they are then I would; if not I would be disappointed in missing out on the money. However, I would respect their opinion.

[mrmonogamous]

For $10 million, I would ask my wife if she was OK with it before contemplating it. My morality compass says absolutely no, but $10 million would pay off all debt and give us a pretty nice lifestyle after the fact. Like I said, it would be completely up to my wife.

[TenderFantasy]

I would but it would also depend on what type of cheating. And I'd let them know that it was fake. But still. If I got money THAT easily, then what's the point? Lol. 10 Million dollars that easily? ! Damn. A lot would do it for next to nothing lol.

[Dtate]

This question is basically asking... "Would you become a hooker (and cheater) for the right price?"
... and most girls are saying yes.
Monogamy is dead.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Hell yeah... I'd live like the Unabomber in the woods, invest 8M into things that just makes sure I'd never have to work again. I'd leave my partner and probably buy 3 'real dolls' and disassociate from humans completely. The rest would pay for my food and wait until I'm dead... playing video games and doing whatever I want all day every day all by myself. If I started feeling lonely, I'd buy some dogs or something.

[Anonymous]

The real question is: are you be able to live with the guilt for the rest of your life? It would consume you and eventually poison your relationship with your partner/SO. It's like killing someone: once you pull the trigger, it can't be undone

[coachTanthony]

Plenty of money for therapy sessions.

[Opinion Owner]

*are you able
Nah, some things like self-worth can't be bought

[coachTanthony]

LOL ok

[Vegasrunner]

@anonymous For 10 million u can find another partner.

[MelvinMoons]

I wanna marry you

[Kaneki05]

I wouldn't be with someone who's dumb enough to not let me take that offer because that money can set us for life, never needing to work cuddles all day just doing whatever we want.
And if the relationship didn't work out then I missed my chance for 10m for no reason. So not doing it is a lose lose.

[Anonymous]

Damn right! But I'd tell her I'm cheating on her. And if she is not okay with it then we are not a match. Because for 10 million dollars i would not only be ok with her cheating on me. I'd say, "b**** you better cheat on me or i am never going to forgive you"!

[coachTanthony]

Ha Ha Ha