I’ve randomly been thinking about my high school crush. Is this normal?

[Anonymous]

For the last few weeks I have been thinking about my crush from high school. I ran into him about a year ago and never thought anything of it until a few weeks back when he popped up in a dream that I had. I am married and love my husband but for some reason I can’t shake this. Is this normal?

[AvaOneLasTime]

I sometimes think how some people were my friends and wanted to be my friends, and I did not appreciate them enough.
As for you, perhaps you are deluding yourself?
On other hand, this dream means something and it is not necessarily about him. This dream is about crushes. Missed chances, wrong choices, what-if.
Could be that there are no longer sparks and butterflies between you and your husband.
However, reality is, this old crush of yours, he probably has love of his own and it seems you grew apart long ago.
And unfortunately, sometimes we don't appreciate someone enough, until he or she is gone. Your husband is with you everyday, so subconsciously, you don't appreciate him enough. You don't miss him. You don't wonder.
But don't delude yourself, people who grab our affection and we have crush on them do not work the same as husbands.
You may have good time with some guys, while flirting or in bed, but we women are emotional, affectionate, want to connect more, and such guys are not good for late night conversations, hugging at night, watching a movie together, living together, face problems together.
Its important to make this distinction.

[Vikkrram]

Of course it is normal... You can't have control on ur dreams and Thaughts.

[Wise4myage]

Its just a thought, so pay no attention to it and eventually it will fade.