Is this weird? What should I do?

[Anonymous]

I'm on Bumble and I see this guy that I'm interested in so I swipe right. I do hope that he sees my profile and swipes right for me too. Based on his bio, we happen to go to the same school. I decide to do some more searching and I happen to find his Instagram. Some may say this is stalking? I'm a bit tempted to send him a message. Not sure what I would say or explain the situation.

[Lionman95]

No it´s not weird. I don´t think it´s stalking either because many guys I think would do the same. You could mention in your messages that you´ve found on Bumble and to make sure he doesn´t over-look you or loose contact you message him on Instagram.

[slatyb]

"... this guy I'm interested in..." Have you met him? Then just invite him to coffee or whatever.

[Anonymous]

Unless he put his IG/Snapchat/etc in his bio then I would just reach out on bumble and wait for the response.

[WhitneySnow]

That’s legit but make sure you explain the whole situation of how you found him do he doesn’t get freaked out