How many of you have been in an older woman younger man relationship?

[htmndg183]

Im curious since the reverse seems to be the norm. How was it? Still together? How long did it last? Any hurdles? Drawbacks? Positives?

[DizzyDesii]

I was the oldest when it came to 4 guys. They ranged from 2-4 years younger. With two of them, they were extremely clingy and jealous and constantly questioning my whereabouts. I ended things with one after he tried to force me to sign his apartment lease because he wanted to move in together in a very short time. The other said he could wait a while for sex but then threatened to rape me if he didn't get it soon enough. With the third, he was stable and decisive but tried to be controlling due to his financial status. I dont care about his finances since I have my own, so his money wasn't a way to keep me around. He was also a pathological liar and cared too much about what people thought of him. The last was very bad with money and extremely indecisive. He told me things i wanted to hear just to keep me around. So overall, 3 of the 4 were decisive (so yes not all youngsters are indecisive). 2 of the 4 were controlling while the other two were more submissive. All 4 were very jealous and untrusting. 2 of the 4 were gamers which turned me off and had to be begged to put down the joystick from time to time. 3 of the 4 were ready for marriage/kids. 2 of the 4 wanted to save sex until marriage.

[DizzyDesii]

I would prefer to stick to dating same age but i will accept 0-3 years younger/older

[htmndg183]

Thanks for sharing. I roughly prefer a similar age range.

[DizzyDesii]

I think the one thing i liked about dating younger was that i got the main say so’s. I prefer to be the boss. When i date older, even by a few years, I often feel like im being punished by a parent. When i date same age, we tend to fight for control or simply take turns sharing it

[LovingLoverReturned]

I know a married couple who have two children (oldest is 15 or older) and they compliment each other well. Wife is 6 years older... I can tell he adores his wife... she is mature, he seems to have a kid spirit still though they are both over 30 yeara of age , likely in 40s... but he is still handling many responsibilities.. she supports him.

[htmndg183]

Aww. These are the kind of stories i was hoping to come across. So beautiful. Thank you for sharing.

[Elony]

My boy now is 12 years younger than me
Please pray😂😂 i hope there will be nothing unsolved between us, as we really love each other so much and i will live together with him soon forever

[htmndg183]

Thats awesome. Can we dm? Would like to know more and wish you the very best.

[Elony]

Yes it would be awesome we can chat anything and help each other 😃

[Elony]

Sure

[htmndg183]

You need to follow me back in order for us to chat :)

[HoneyButterCup525]

I was with a guy who was about 4 years younger than me and I think he was the sweetest guy I ever known. Then I was with another guy who was just 3 years older than me but he was a control freak. And now I met a guy who was 11 years older then me and he a total mean jerk who thinks everything he says is right not only he dumped me for not wanting a child but also degraded me and my age saying I wasn't young enough...

[htmndg183]

Sorry to hear that.

[Tiptoetamm]

Only one I've only been with one younger man he was younger by a few years. It was alright. We didn't work out. I tend to go more towards men that are older. Not saying I wouldn't be with a younger man again

[htmndg183]

Thank you for sharing.