Girls, Questions for women who are / have been in a relationship with an older man?

[Anonymous]

1. Who approached first?

2. How big is / was the age gap?

3. How is / was your experience with him?

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[Anonymous]

He approached me first. I was 19 and he was 28/29. At first the experience seemed okay but kinda weird, it felt cool at the time having an older guy be interested in you. As I grew older, I realized that I was manipulated by him into the relationship (I later on found out that he was also already engaged).

[Asker]

I'm sorry.

[Opinion Owner]

No worries, learned a lot from it. I’m still dating an older guy now but he’s only a few years older than I am - I’m the happiest that I’ve ever been now.

[Asker]

That’s nice! So happy for you!

[Nikki1989]

I married a much older man and after 8 years together we are closer than ever.

[Asker]

Very lucky you are.

[Elisew123]

1. Who approached first? He did at a coffee shop. He said I was stunning and asked if he could take me for a meal at a fancy restaurant I originally went for the food haha.

2. How big is / was the age gap? I was 20 he was 48

3. How is / was your experience with him? It was very good. He taught me a lot about myself and who I wanted to be when I grew up. He encouraged me to go to school when I wasn't planning on it. And he was always very respectful of me.

[LavLavLuv]

1. Who approached first? Him

2. How big is / was the age gap? Fking big

3. How is / was your experience with him? Amazing loved it

[Asker]

So very lucky.

[LavLavLuv]

[Selena1987]

I don’t like it and can’t marry this way.
For me, it’s disgusting to be touched by an old man

[Asker]

Oh, How old are you talking about?

[Selena1987]

More than 10 years of age difference