Girls, is an older man (30 years old) who has little experience with women (such as dating, sex, etc.) a red flag to you?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

It depends. Is there a reason why he has little dating experience? (E. g. is he sexist, is he rude, is he mean, etc).


I have only dated two men. One was for 2 years (off and on) and the other was for a week (I was guilt tripped into both of those relationships).
My first relationship (that lasted for two years) wasn’t very good and I was raped.
So, by default, I haven’t dated any men since then. I am more careful of men who pay interest in me.


I would say I have little dating experience but I have a good reason for it. Does this man we speak of also have a valid reason?

[Asker]

Shy around women

[Opinion Owner]

Oh okay. Yeah, us women can be intense at times. Other women scare me too 🤣

[mandyfire98]

Yeah it can be. He's not going to have experience in relationships or women period. It means he's not going to understand women. Also intimately it's going to be rough as well because of lack of experience.

[provokeesmokee]

Yes.

I dated a girl with little relationship experience and no sexual experience who was 39.

It was as bad as you'd expect.

She had no idea what she liked, what she wanted, who she was. She was so nervous she literally ran away from me.

I literally spent more time with her friends than I did with her.

[Anonymous]

Yes, what is wrong with him?