Me and my boyfriend just start dating we met each other at work and he keeps telling me that his coworkers are asking him what does he see in me?

[Anonymous]

Should I feel insecure now about myself that some people portray me like that? As if I am nothing and I don't know why he decided to tell me this tbh

[Seinna]

He should never say that to you because he should KNOW what he sees in you and tell them (and you) that. This shows a complete lack of respect for you and your feelings, taking you for granted and YES, like you are nothing to HIM. Except it's not something you should worry about because his opinion doesn't define your value. If he sees you like this then you shouldn't be with him, find someone who will appreciate you and who asked that question will answer "What's not to like? She's amazing, I'm lucky to have her. If you knew her like I do, you would understand." That's how every person in a relationship should feel about their partner.

[Claudia233]

I would dumb him. Even if the do ask, he shouldn't be telling you that. At least not more than once. He should be careful not to hurt your feelings and make you insecure. Moreover it's the beginning of the relationship. He should care

[Alwayreckles93]

Girl there just jealous or envious. Drama haters gonna hate.

[Asker]

Probably so thank you 🙏

[Alwayreckles93]

*They're I apologise spell check went off like crazy.

[Alwayreckles93]

Your welcome

[Asker]

Bc my boyfriend says he tells them he loves me so much and he sees something in me what they all don't see

[Alwayreckles93]

I think maybe the other coworkers have a crush on you and they want to convince your boyfriend to break up with you so that he can date you. It know from experience. This things happen. Maybe the coworkers are crushing on you.

[In_Trance]

you should feel however you wanna feel